_Generated: Tue, 14 Jul 2026 21:14:57 +0000 ## All Episodes The links below take you to the raw Markdown content for each Soft Skills Engineering podcast episode:. - [Episode 521: negotiating . . . now? and doing good work is not enough for promotion?](https://raw.githubusercontent.com/soft-skills-engineering/website/refs/heads/gh-pages/_posts/2026-07-13-episode-521-negotiating-.-.-.-now?-and-doing-good-work-is-not-enough-for-promotion?.md) - [Episode 520: I came back to my former team and was shocked by AI and my team does not care at ALL about the code](https://raw.githubusercontent.com/soft-skills-engineering/website/refs/heads/gh-pages/_posts/2026-07-06-episode-520-i-came-back-to-my-former-team-and-was-shocked-by-ai-and-my-team-does-not-care-at-all-about-the-code.md) - [Episode 519: Why does my team not have a tech lead and rumors!](https://raw.githubusercontent.com/soft-skills-engineering/website/refs/heads/gh-pages/_posts/2026-06-29-episode-519-why-does-my-team-not-have-a-tech-lead-and-rumors!.md) - [Episode 518: stuck at startup and is my employer mistreating me because I'm on a visa?](https://raw.githubusercontent.com/soft-skills-engineering/website/refs/heads/gh-pages/_posts/2026-06-22-episode-518-stuck-at-startup-and-is-my-employer-mistreating-me-because-i'm-on-a-visa?.md) - [Episode 517: Is it good for my career to work at a SaaS company and why am I being asked to manage two teams?](https://raw.githubusercontent.com/soft-skills-engineering/website/refs/heads/gh-pages/_posts/2026-06-15-episode-517-is-it-good-for-my-career-to-work-at-a-saas-company-and-why-am-i-being-asked-to-manage-two-teams?.md) - [Episode 516: Not a baby and my product manager doesn't know the product](https://raw.githubusercontent.com/soft-skills-engineering/website/refs/heads/gh-pages/_posts/2026-06-08-episode-516-not-a-baby-and-my-product-manager-doesn't-know-the-product.md) - [Episode 515: My junior team member won't listen to me and will I be the dumbest employee at a quantum computer company?](https://raw.githubusercontent.com/soft-skills-engineering/website/refs/heads/gh-pages/_posts/2026-06-01-episode-515-my-junior-team-member-won't-listen-to-me-and-will-i-be-the-dumbest-employee-at-a-quantum-computer-company?.md) - [Episode 514: Trust issues and underperformers and my coworker resents me for being faster](https://raw.githubusercontent.com/soft-skills-engineering/website/refs/heads/gh-pages/_posts/2026-05-25-episode-514-trust-issues-and-underperformers-and-my-coworker-resents-me-for-being-faster.md) - [Episode 513: Forgotten employee and what skills actually matter in the AI world](https://raw.githubusercontent.com/soft-skills-engineering/website/refs/heads/gh-pages/_posts/2026-05-18-episode-513-forgotten-employee-and-what-skills-actually-matter-in-the-ai-world.md) - [Episode 512: Can non-engineers really contribute code with AI and not sharing](https://raw.githubusercontent.com/soft-skills-engineering/website/refs/heads/gh-pages/_posts/2026-05-11-episode-512-can-non-engineers-really-contribute-code-with-ai-and-not-sharing.md) - [Episode 511: Should I take a temporary management position and performance-based bonuses](https://raw.githubusercontent.com/soft-skills-engineering/website/refs/heads/gh-pages/_posts/2026-05-04-episode-511-should-i-take-a-temporary-management-position-and-performance-based-bonuses.md) - [Episode 510: Old and behind and how do I hang on for the last few years until retirement?](https://raw.githubusercontent.com/soft-skills-engineering/website/refs/heads/gh-pages/_posts/2026-04-27-episode-510-old-and-behind-and-how-do-i-hang-on-for-the-last-few-years-until-retirement?.md) - [Episode 509: I hate AI software dev, so should I become a manager and leading, not doing](https://raw.githubusercontent.com/soft-skills-engineering/website/refs/heads/gh-pages/_posts/2026-04-20-episode-509-i-hate-ai-software-dev,-so-should-i-become-a-manager-and-leading,-not-doing.md) - [Episode 508: My company is an unethical spammer and my coworkers take so much sick time](https://raw.githubusercontent.com/soft-skills-engineering/website/refs/heads/gh-pages/_posts/2026-04-13-episode-508-my-company-is-an-unethical-spammer-and-my-coworkers-take-so-much-sick-time.md) - [Episode 507: I got fired unexpectedly and breadth and depth](https://raw.githubusercontent.com/soft-skills-engineering/website/refs/heads/gh-pages/_posts/2026-04-06-episode-507-i-got-fired-unexpectedly-and-breadth-and-depth.md) - [Episode 506: I hate my job with AI and my team-mate thinks I suck](https://raw.githubusercontent.com/soft-skills-engineering/website/refs/heads/gh-pages/_posts/2026-03-30-episode-506-i-hate-my-job-with-ai-and-my-team-mate-thinks-i-suck.md) - [Episode 505: Called to the principal's office and my team leads are super dogmatic](https://raw.githubusercontent.com/soft-skills-engineering/website/refs/heads/gh-pages/_posts/2026-03-23-episode-505-called-to-the-principal's-office-and-my-team-leads-are-super-dogmatic.md) - [Episode 504: Should I quit my AI job before my first day and professional button-clicker](https://raw.githubusercontent.com/soft-skills-engineering/website/refs/heads/gh-pages/_posts/2026-03-16-episode-504-should-i-quit-my-ai-job-before-my-first-day-and-professional-button-clicker.md) - [Episode 503: Hardware is hard and my PMs are pushing AI slop code](https://raw.githubusercontent.com/soft-skills-engineering/website/refs/heads/gh-pages/_posts/2026-03-09-episode-503-hardware-is-hard-and-my-pms-are-pushing-ai-slop-code.md) - [Episode 502: Management keeps leaving and I hate using AI to code](https://raw.githubusercontent.com/soft-skills-engineering/website/refs/heads/gh-pages/_posts/2026-03-02-episode-502-management-keeps-leaving-and-i-hate-using-ai-to-code.md) - [Episode 501: Vibecoding CEO and doing to teaching](https://raw.githubusercontent.com/soft-skills-engineering/website/refs/heads/gh-pages/_posts/2026-02-23-episode-501-vibecoding-ceo-and-doing-to-teaching.md) - [Episode 500: Am I the only one not getting raises and firing my whole team](https://raw.githubusercontent.com/soft-skills-engineering/website/refs/heads/gh-pages/_posts/2026-02-16-episode-500-am-i-the-only-one-not-getting-raises-and-firing-my-whole-team.md) - [Episode 499: Should I quit my solo dev job with a sports team and senile seniors](https://raw.githubusercontent.com/soft-skills-engineering/website/refs/heads/gh-pages/_posts/2026-02-09-episode-499-should-i-quit-my-solo-dev-job-with-a-sports-team-and-senile-seniors.md) - [Episode 498: Testing in big corporations and how to get my first management job](https://raw.githubusercontent.com/soft-skills-engineering/website/refs/heads/gh-pages/_posts/2026-02-02-episode-498-testing-in-big-corporations-and-how-to-get-my-first-management-job.md) - [Episode 497: Patronizing perf reviews and can't get anything done as a tech lead](https://raw.githubusercontent.com/soft-skills-engineering/website/refs/heads/gh-pages/_posts/2026-01-26-episode-497-patronizing-perf-reviews-and-can't-get-anything-done-as-a-tech-lead.md) - [Episode 496: Passing non-technical interviews and my internship with only other interns](https://raw.githubusercontent.com/soft-skills-engineering/website/refs/heads/gh-pages/_posts/2026-01-19-episode-496-passing-non-technical-interviews-and-my-internship-with-only-other-interns.md) - [Episode 495: What to do when my boss quits and moving to Romania?](https://raw.githubusercontent.com/soft-skills-engineering/website/refs/heads/gh-pages/_posts/2026-01-12-episode-495-what-to-do-when-my-boss-quits-and-moving-to-romania?.md) - [Episode 494: Am I interviewing all wrong and leaving old team chats](https://raw.githubusercontent.com/soft-skills-engineering/website/refs/heads/gh-pages/_posts/2026-01-05-episode-494-am-i-interviewing-all-wrong-and-leaving-old-team-chats.md) - [Episode 493: My boss one-ups my negativity and football engineering](https://raw.githubusercontent.com/soft-skills-engineering/website/refs/heads/gh-pages/_posts/2025-12-29-episode-493-my-boss-one-ups-my-negativity-and-football-engineering.md) - [Episode 492: Fresh grads and startups or the goog](https://raw.githubusercontent.com/soft-skills-engineering/website/refs/heads/gh-pages/_posts/2025-12-22-episode-492-fresh-grads-and-startups-or-the-goog.md) - [Episode 491: Re-arranging deck chairs on the Titantic and my boss leaks private info](https://raw.githubusercontent.com/soft-skills-engineering/website/refs/heads/gh-pages/_posts/2025-12-15-episode-491-re-arranging-deck-chairs-on-the-titantic-and-my-boss-leaks-private-info.md) - [Episode 490: How do I break into software dev from QA automation and underselling](https://raw.githubusercontent.com/soft-skills-engineering/website/refs/heads/gh-pages/_posts/2025-12-08-episode-490-how-do-i-break-into-software-dev-from-qa-automation-and-underselling.md) - [Episode 489: Ethical dilemma for a gambling app dev and ethical employers](https://raw.githubusercontent.com/soft-skills-engineering/website/refs/heads/gh-pages/_posts/2025-12-01-episode-489-ethical-dilemma-for-a-gambling-app-dev-and-ethical-employers.md) - [Episode 488: How do I survive in a culture of optics and jira slacker](https://raw.githubusercontent.com/soft-skills-engineering/website/refs/heads/gh-pages/_posts/2025-11-24-episode-488-how-do-i-survive-in-a-culture-of-optics-and-jira-slacker.md) - [Episode 487: My manager ignores me during 1:1's and I am required to work in an empty office](https://raw.githubusercontent.com/soft-skills-engineering/website/refs/heads/gh-pages/_posts/2025-11-17-episode-487-my-manager-ignores-me-during-1:1's-and-i-am-required-to-work-in-an-empty-office.md) - [Episode 486: No one on my team talks and skip level meetings](https://raw.githubusercontent.com/soft-skills-engineering/website/refs/heads/gh-pages/_posts/2025-11-10-episode-486-no-one-on-my-team-talks-and-skip-level-meetings.md) - [Episode 485: I'm terrible at hiring decisions and my coworker spams us with AI-generated memes](https://raw.githubusercontent.com/soft-skills-engineering/website/refs/heads/gh-pages/_posts/2025-11-03-episode-485-i'm-terrible-at-hiring-decisions-and-my-coworker-spams-us-with-ai-generated-memes.md) - [Episode 484: How to get a raise after slacking off for YEARS and my PM won't stop DM'ing me](https://raw.githubusercontent.com/soft-skills-engineering/website/refs/heads/gh-pages/_posts/2025-10-27-episode-484-how-to-get-a-raise-after-slacking-off-for-years-and-my-pm-won't-stop-dm'ing-me.md) - [Episode 483: My team hated me from day one and should I stack PTO before my resignation](https://raw.githubusercontent.com/soft-skills-engineering/website/refs/heads/gh-pages/_posts/2025-10-20-episode-483-my-team-hated-me-from-day-one-and-should-i-stack-pto-before-my-resignation.md) - [Episode 482: I got a promotion, but a tiny raise and an imposter interviewed for my team](https://raw.githubusercontent.com/soft-skills-engineering/website/refs/heads/gh-pages/_posts/2025-10-13-episode-482-i-got-a-promotion,-but-a-tiny-raise-and-an-imposter-interviewed-for-my-team.md) - [Episode 481: I'm bored and will I ever find out why I was fired?](https://raw.githubusercontent.com/soft-skills-engineering/website/refs/heads/gh-pages/_posts/2025-10-06-episode-481-i'm-bored-and-will-i-ever-find-out-why-i-was-fired?.md) - [Episode 480: Do I just coast until I quit and going back to work after a long time](https://raw.githubusercontent.com/soft-skills-engineering/website/refs/heads/gh-pages/_posts/2025-09-29-episode-480-do-i-just-coast-until-i-quit-and-going-back-to-work-after-a-long-time.md) - [Episode 479: Contractors to the rescue and dinged for delay](https://raw.githubusercontent.com/soft-skills-engineering/website/refs/heads/gh-pages/_posts/2025-09-22-episode-479-contractors-to-the-rescue-and-dinged-for-delay.md) - [Episode 478: Can you coach self-awareness and my boss is an llm](https://raw.githubusercontent.com/soft-skills-engineering/website/refs/heads/gh-pages/_posts/2025-09-15-episode-478-can-you-coach-self-awareness-and-my-boss-is-an-llm.md) - [Episode 477: Four months and I already hate my job and grumpy and fuzzy](https://raw.githubusercontent.com/soft-skills-engineering/website/refs/heads/gh-pages/_posts/2025-09-08-episode-477-four-months-and-i-already-hate-my-job-and-grumpy-and-fuzzy.md) - [Episode 476: How much help is too much help and guarding against slop](https://raw.githubusercontent.com/soft-skills-engineering/website/refs/heads/gh-pages/_posts/2025-09-01-episode-476-how-much-help-is-too-much-help-and-guarding-against-slop.md) - [Episode 475: Am I too loyal to my big tech job and politely preserving time](https://raw.githubusercontent.com/soft-skills-engineering/website/refs/heads/gh-pages/_posts/2025-08-25-episode-475-am-i-too-loyal-to-my-big-tech-job-and-politely-preserving-time.md) - [Episode 474: I hate the idea of firing a low performer and cheaper context switching](https://raw.githubusercontent.com/soft-skills-engineering/website/refs/heads/gh-pages/_posts/2025-08-18-episode-474-i-hate-the-idea-of-firing-a-low-performer-and-cheaper-context-switching.md) - [Episode 473: Mental health support and overcoming FOMO of taking a break from work](https://raw.githubusercontent.com/soft-skills-engineering/website/refs/heads/gh-pages/_posts/2025-08-11-episode-473-mental-health-support-and-overcoming-fomo-of-taking-a-break-from-work.md) - [Episode 472: Should my junior dev use AI and thrown in to ETL](https://raw.githubusercontent.com/soft-skills-engineering/website/refs/heads/gh-pages/_posts/2025-08-04-episode-472-should-my-junior-dev-use-ai-and-thrown-in-to-etl.md) - [Episode 471: Why does my junior engineer do so little and I fell asleep in a Zoom meeting](https://raw.githubusercontent.com/soft-skills-engineering/website/refs/heads/gh-pages/_posts/2025-07-28-episode-471-why-does-my-junior-engineer-do-so-little-and-i-fell-asleep-in-a-zoom-meeting.md) - [Episode 470: I said something stupid in a meeting and just want to code](https://raw.githubusercontent.com/soft-skills-engineering/website/refs/heads/gh-pages/_posts/2025-07-21-episode-470-i-said-something-stupid-in-a-meeting-and-just-want-to-code.md) - [Episode 469: Passed over for lead role and perhaps I'm the jerk](https://raw.githubusercontent.com/soft-skills-engineering/website/refs/heads/gh-pages/_posts/2025-07-14-episode-469-passed-over-for-lead-role-and-perhaps-i'm-the-jerk.md) - [Episode 468: Should I take a mini-retirement and doubling down on anachronisms](https://raw.githubusercontent.com/soft-skills-engineering/website/refs/heads/gh-pages/_posts/2025-07-07-episode-468-should-i-take-a-mini-retirement-and-doubling-down-on-anachronisms.md) - [Episode 467: I can't get promoted if I do my job and should I get a degree to get a job in this economy](https://raw.githubusercontent.com/soft-skills-engineering/website/refs/heads/gh-pages/_posts/2025-06-30-episode-467-i-can't-get-promoted-if-i-do-my-job-and-should-i-get-a-degree-to-get-a-job-in-this-economy.md) - [Episode 466: Bad performance review and moving in to the caves](https://raw.githubusercontent.com/soft-skills-engineering/website/refs/heads/gh-pages/_posts/2025-06-23-episode-466-bad-performance-review-and-moving-in-to-the-caves.md) - [Episode 465: Talking to your report's previous manager and how to replace a 30-year-old ticketing system](https://raw.githubusercontent.com/soft-skills-engineering/website/refs/heads/gh-pages/_posts/2025-06-16-episode-465-talking-to-your-report's-previous-manager-and-how-to-replace-a-30-year-old-ticketing-system.md) - [Episode 464: Rehiring an overpaid boomerang and AI has taken over my teammate's brain](https://raw.githubusercontent.com/soft-skills-engineering/website/refs/heads/gh-pages/_posts/2025-06-09-episode-464-rehiring-an-overpaid-boomerang-and-ai-has-taken-over-my-teammate's-brain.md) - [Episode 463: CTO w/ weak resume and I tried management and it was TERRIBLE](https://raw.githubusercontent.com/soft-skills-engineering/website/refs/heads/gh-pages/_posts/2025-06-02-episode-463-cto-w--weak-resume-and-i-tried-management-and-it-was-terrible.md) - [Episode 462: Supporting laid-off employee and how to rebuild culture after layoffs](https://raw.githubusercontent.com/soft-skills-engineering/website/refs/heads/gh-pages/_posts/2025-05-26-episode-462-supporting-laid-off-employee-and-how-to-rebuild-culture-after-layoffs.md) - [Episode 461: How to do side projects with a family and demanding job and my company promised me a raise, but didn't give it](https://raw.githubusercontent.com/soft-skills-engineering/website/refs/heads/gh-pages/_posts/2025-05-19-episode-461-how-to-do-side-projects-with-a-family-and-demanding-job-and-my-company-promised-me-a-raise,-but-didn't-give-it.md) - [Episode 460: Losing autonomy and I got skipped for a promotion even though I'm awesome](https://raw.githubusercontent.com/soft-skills-engineering/website/refs/heads/gh-pages/_posts/2025-05-12-episode-460-losing-autonomy-and-i-got-skipped-for-a-promotion-even-though-i'm-awesome.md) - [Episode 459: Am I cutting edge and how to compliment someone who went from super jerk to super nice](https://raw.githubusercontent.com/soft-skills-engineering/website/refs/heads/gh-pages/_posts/2025-05-05-episode-459-am-i-cutting-edge-and-how-to-compliment-someone-who-went-from-super-jerk-to-super-nice.md) - [Episode 458: Infinite tech debt hack and figuring out what is going on](https://raw.githubusercontent.com/soft-skills-engineering/website/refs/heads/gh-pages/_posts/2025-04-28-episode-458-infinite-tech-debt-hack-and-figuring-out-what-is-going-on.md) - [Episode 457: How do I get off the on-call rotation and "big tech" == "big leagues"?](https://raw.githubusercontent.com/soft-skills-engineering/website/refs/heads/gh-pages/_posts/2025-04-21-episode-457-how-do-i-get-off-the-on-call-rotation-and-"big-tech"-==-"big-leagues"?.md) - [Episode 456: Will I look bad on the job market if I'm a crypto developer and struggling to go from management back to dev work](https://raw.githubusercontent.com/soft-skills-engineering/website/refs/heads/gh-pages/_posts/2025-04-14-episode-456-will-i-look-bad-on-the-job-market-if-i'm-a-crypto-developer-and-struggling-to-go-from-management-back-to-dev-work.md) - [Episode 455: UX designer without a mentor and I get bored too easily and stressed too easily](https://raw.githubusercontent.com/soft-skills-engineering/website/refs/heads/gh-pages/_posts/2025-04-07-episode-455-ux-designer-without-a-mentor-and-i-get-bored-too-easily-and-stressed-too-easily.md) - [Episode 454: Tracking productivity? and my CTO is ChatGPT](https://raw.githubusercontent.com/soft-skills-engineering/website/refs/heads/gh-pages/_posts/2025-03-31-episode-454-tracking-productivity?-and-my-cto-is-chatgpt.md) - [Episode 453: Why did my company build an internal LinkedIn and how do I not get stagnant in my skills?](https://raw.githubusercontent.com/soft-skills-engineering/website/refs/heads/gh-pages/_posts/2025-03-24-episode-453-why-did-my-company-build-an-internal-linkedin-and-how-do-i-not-get-stagnant-in-my-skills?.md) - [Episode 452: Consulting refactor and extra work, extra scrutiny](https://raw.githubusercontent.com/soft-skills-engineering/website/refs/heads/gh-pages/_posts/2025-03-17-episode-452-consulting-refactor-and-extra-work,-extra-scrutiny.md) - [Episode 451: Un-collaborative architect and who is my boss?](https://raw.githubusercontent.com/soft-skills-engineering/website/refs/heads/gh-pages/_posts/2025-03-10-episode-451-un-collaborative-architect-and-who-is-my-boss?.md) - [Episode 450: I'm terrible at behavioral interviews and time zonessssssss](https://raw.githubusercontent.com/soft-skills-engineering/website/refs/heads/gh-pages/_posts/2025-03-03-episode-450-i'm-terrible-at-behavioral-interviews-and-time-zonessssssss.md) - [Episode 449: My tech lead ignored my warnings and I don't know what my leadership style is](https://raw.githubusercontent.com/soft-skills-engineering/website/refs/heads/gh-pages/_posts/2025-02-24-episode-449-my-tech-lead-ignored-my-warnings-and-i-don't-know-what-my-leadership-style-is.md) - [Episode 448: Title over salary and from figure skater to software developer](https://raw.githubusercontent.com/soft-skills-engineering/website/refs/heads/gh-pages/_posts/2025-02-17-episode-448-title-over-salary-and-from-figure-skater-to-software-developer.md) - [Episode 447: Overleveled at FAANG and accidental draft feedback](https://raw.githubusercontent.com/soft-skills-engineering/website/refs/heads/gh-pages/_posts/2025-02-10-episode-447-overleveled-at-faang-and-accidental-draft-feedback.md) - [Episode 446: Wading through AI slop and they don't get git](https://raw.githubusercontent.com/soft-skills-engineering/website/refs/heads/gh-pages/_posts/2025-02-03-episode-446-wading-through-ai-slop-and-they-don't-get-git.md) - [Episode 445: Staying at my first job and my coworker is insulting other departments](https://raw.githubusercontent.com/soft-skills-engineering/website/refs/heads/gh-pages/_posts/2025-01-27-episode-445-staying-at-my-first-job-and-my-coworker-is-insulting-other-departments.md) - [Episode 444: Surrounded by apathetic coworkers and put it on my resume?](https://raw.githubusercontent.com/soft-skills-engineering/website/refs/heads/gh-pages/_posts/2025-01-20-episode-444-surrounded-by-apathetic-coworkers-and-put-it-on-my-resume?.md) - [Episode 443: Does my PM hate me? and My coworker has anxiety when I help](https://raw.githubusercontent.com/soft-skills-engineering/website/refs/heads/gh-pages/_posts/2025-01-13-episode-443-does-my-pm-hate-me?-and-my-coworker-has-anxiety-when-i-help.md) - [Episode 442: Improving communication skills and how to break my job hopping habit](https://raw.githubusercontent.com/soft-skills-engineering/website/refs/heads/gh-pages/_posts/2025-01-06-episode-442-improving-communication-skills-and-how-to-break-my-job-hopping-habit.md) - [Episode 441: Will working in healthcare hurt my reputation and precious wisdom](https://raw.githubusercontent.com/soft-skills-engineering/website/refs/heads/gh-pages/_posts/2024-12-30-episode-441-will-working-in-healthcare-hurt-my-reputation-and-precious-wisdom.md) - [Episode 440: How do I help my boss not burn out and should I tell people I'm older than I am?](https://raw.githubusercontent.com/soft-skills-engineering/website/refs/heads/gh-pages/_posts/2024-12-23-episode-440-how-do-i-help-my-boss-not-burn-out-and-should-i-tell-people-i'm-older-than-i-am?.md) - [Episode 439: Harried VP of Eng and first startup job](https://raw.githubusercontent.com/soft-skills-engineering/website/refs/heads/gh-pages/_posts/2024-12-16-episode-439-harried-vp-of-eng-and-first-startup-job.md) - [Episode 438: Software job after prison and working 60 hours per week at age 20 and feeling unfulfilled](https://raw.githubusercontent.com/soft-skills-engineering/website/refs/heads/gh-pages/_posts/2024-12-09-episode-438-software-job-after-prison-and-working-60-hours-per-week-at-age-20-and-feeling-unfulfilled.md) - [Episode 437: My company canceled all one-on-ones and moving to a single backlog](https://raw.githubusercontent.com/soft-skills-engineering/website/refs/heads/gh-pages/_posts/2024-12-02-episode-437-my-company-canceled-all-one-on-ones-and-moving-to-a-single-backlog.md) - [Episode 436: Paralyzed by checkboxes and I'm on a "must keep happy" list](https://raw.githubusercontent.com/soft-skills-engineering/website/refs/heads/gh-pages/_posts/2024-11-25-episode-436-paralyzed-by-checkboxes-and-i'm-on-a-"must-keep-happy"-list.md) - [Episode 435: How to make my boss actually do something and kindly shooting down](https://raw.githubusercontent.com/soft-skills-engineering/website/refs/heads/gh-pages/_posts/2024-11-18-episode-435-how-to-make-my-boss-actually-do-something-and-kindly-shooting-down.md) - [Episode 434: Forgetful boss and nothing to say](https://raw.githubusercontent.com/soft-skills-engineering/website/refs/heads/gh-pages/_posts/2024-11-11-episode-434-forgetful-boss-and-nothing-to-say.md) - [Episode 433: My teammate pretends we decided, but we didn't and my team is getting worse and worse](https://raw.githubusercontent.com/soft-skills-engineering/website/refs/heads/gh-pages/_posts/2024-11-04-episode-433-my-teammate-pretends-we-decided,-but-we-didn't-and-my-team-is-getting-worse-and-worse.md) - [Episode 432: As an LLM, how can I be more emotionally smart and when to use I vs we?](https://raw.githubusercontent.com/soft-skills-engineering/website/refs/heads/gh-pages/_posts/2024-10-28-episode-432-as-an-llm,-how-can-i-be-more-emotionally-smart-and-when-to-use-i-vs-we?.md) - [Episode 431: Stinky.js and power hungry friend](https://raw.githubusercontent.com/soft-skills-engineering/website/refs/heads/gh-pages/_posts/2024-10-21-episode-431-stinky.js-and-power-hungry-friend.md) - [Episode 430: Should I quit this job I'm underqualified for and honestly torpedoed my promo chances](https://raw.githubusercontent.com/soft-skills-engineering/website/refs/heads/gh-pages/_posts/2024-10-14-episode-430-should-i-quit-this-job-i'm-underqualified-for-and-honestly-torpedoed-my-promo-chances.md) - [Episode 429: Should I quit my job for free hoodies and manager to IC](https://raw.githubusercontent.com/soft-skills-engineering/website/refs/heads/gh-pages/_posts/2024-10-07-episode-429-should-i-quit-my-job-for-free-hoodies-and-manager-to-ic.md) - [Episode 428: Interim tech lead and asking for a raise when a peer leaves](https://raw.githubusercontent.com/soft-skills-engineering/website/refs/heads/gh-pages/_posts/2024-09-30-episode-428-interim-tech-lead-and-asking-for-a-raise-when-a-peer-leaves.md) - [Episode 427: Under to over-employed and wibbly wobbly timey wimey](https://raw.githubusercontent.com/soft-skills-engineering/website/refs/heads/gh-pages/_posts/2024-09-23-episode-427-under-to-over-employed-and-wibbly-wobbly-timey-wimey.md) - [Episode 426: I got too many promotions and I have anxiety about getting fired](https://raw.githubusercontent.com/soft-skills-engineering/website/refs/heads/gh-pages/_posts/2024-09-16-episode-426-i-got-too-many-promotions-and-i-have-anxiety-about-getting-fired.md) - [Episode 425: Org chart bait and switch and ole' reliable](https://raw.githubusercontent.com/soft-skills-engineering/website/refs/heads/gh-pages/_posts/2024-09-09-episode-425-org-chart-bait-and-switch-and-ole'-reliable.md) - [Episode 424: Bragging without ego and how to predict layoffs](https://raw.githubusercontent.com/soft-skills-engineering/website/refs/heads/gh-pages/_posts/2024-09-02-episode-424-bragging-without-ego-and-how-to-predict-layoffs.md) - [Episode 423: freedom from deadlines and Actual firefighting to software firefighting](https://raw.githubusercontent.com/soft-skills-engineering/website/refs/heads/gh-pages/_posts/2024-08-26-episode-423-freedom-from-deadlines-and-actual-firefighting-to-software-firefighting.md) - [Episode 422: Moving in to big tech and building support](https://raw.githubusercontent.com/soft-skills-engineering/website/refs/heads/gh-pages/_posts/2024-08-19-episode-422-moving-in-to-big-tech-and-building-support.md) - [Episode 421: Hitting the level cap and getting credit for behind-the-scenes work](https://raw.githubusercontent.com/soft-skills-engineering/website/refs/heads/gh-pages/_posts/2024-08-12-episode-421-hitting-the-level-cap-and-getting-credit-for-behind-the-scenes-work.md) - [Episode 420: New grad getting boring work and busy manager](https://raw.githubusercontent.com/soft-skills-engineering/website/refs/heads/gh-pages/_posts/2024-08-05-episode-420-new-grad-getting-boring-work-and-busy-manager.md) - [Episode 419: Yoda or Han Solo and I swear I'm senior](https://raw.githubusercontent.com/soft-skills-engineering/website/refs/heads/gh-pages/_posts/2024-07-29-episode-419-yoda-or-han-solo-and-i-swear-i'm-senior.md) - [Episode 418: Should I "rest and vest" and how do I avoid 3-hour agile meetings?](https://raw.githubusercontent.com/soft-skills-engineering/website/refs/heads/gh-pages/_posts/2024-07-22-episode-418-should-i-"rest-and-vest"-and-how-do-i-avoid-3-hour-agile-meetings?.md) - [Episode 417: Should I tell my boss I'm checked out and how do I deal with a PM who has no idea what he's doing?](https://raw.githubusercontent.com/soft-skills-engineering/website/refs/heads/gh-pages/_posts/2024-07-15-episode-417-should-i-tell-my-boss-i'm-checked-out-and-how-do-i-deal-with-a-pm-who-has-no-idea-what-he's-doing?.md) - [Episode 416: My boss wants me to build dark patterns and getting promoted without writing code](https://raw.githubusercontent.com/soft-skills-engineering/website/refs/heads/gh-pages/_posts/2024-07-08-episode-416-my-boss-wants-me-to-build-dark-patterns-and-getting-promoted-without-writing-code.md) - [Episode 415: I got a low raise and merging teams](https://raw.githubusercontent.com/soft-skills-engineering/website/refs/heads/gh-pages/_posts/2024-07-01-episode-415-i-got-a-low-raise-and-merging-teams.md) - [Episode 414: Hot-headed PM and leaving without downgrading](https://raw.githubusercontent.com/soft-skills-engineering/website/refs/heads/gh-pages/_posts/2024-06-24-episode-414-hot-headed-pm-and-leaving-without-downgrading.md) - [Episode 413: Is my interview candidate cheating and my product owner is getting WRECKED by the client](https://raw.githubusercontent.com/soft-skills-engineering/website/refs/heads/gh-pages/_posts/2024-06-17-episode-413-is-my-interview-candidate-cheating-and-my-product-owner-is-getting-wrecked-by-the-client.md) - [Episode 412: Work-life-team balance and getting code-sniped](https://raw.githubusercontent.com/soft-skills-engineering/website/refs/heads/gh-pages/_posts/2024-06-10-episode-412-work-life-team-balance-and-getting-code-sniped.md) - [Episode 411: We have a secret org chart and I'm a big fish in a little pond](https://raw.githubusercontent.com/soft-skills-engineering/website/refs/heads/gh-pages/_posts/2024-06-03-episode-411-we-have-a-secret-org-chart-and-i'm-a-big-fish-in-a-little-pond.md) - [Episode 410: Guaranteed cost-of-living raises and my manager doesn't like me](https://raw.githubusercontent.com/soft-skills-engineering/website/refs/heads/gh-pages/_posts/2024-05-27-episode-410-guaranteed-cost-of-living-raises-and-my-manager-doesn't-like-me.md) - [Episode 409: Fancy title to IC and CRUD is crud](https://raw.githubusercontent.com/soft-skills-engineering/website/refs/heads/gh-pages/_posts/2024-05-20-episode-409-fancy-title-to-ic-and-crud-is-crud.md) - [Episode 408: Terrible retrospectives and "hard to work with"](https://raw.githubusercontent.com/soft-skills-engineering/website/refs/heads/gh-pages/_posts/2024-05-13-episode-408-terrible-retrospectives-and-"hard-to-work-with".md) - [Episode 407: I'm too territorial and should I quiet quit?](https://raw.githubusercontent.com/soft-skills-engineering/website/refs/heads/gh-pages/_posts/2024-05-06-episode-407-i'm-too-territorial-and-should-i-quiet-quit?.md) - [Episode 406: Acquired taste and limited mentorship](https://raw.githubusercontent.com/soft-skills-engineering/website/refs/heads/gh-pages/_posts/2024-04-29-episode-406-acquired-taste-and-limited-mentorship.md) - [Episode 405: Scaled agile pain and top-heavy team](https://raw.githubusercontent.com/soft-skills-engineering/website/refs/heads/gh-pages/_posts/2024-04-22-episode-405-scaled-agile-pain-and-top-heavy-team.md) - [Episode 404: Interview comedy and talking pay while new](https://raw.githubusercontent.com/soft-skills-engineering/website/refs/heads/gh-pages/_posts/2024-04-15-episode-404-interview-comedy-and-talking-pay-while-new.md) - [Episode 403: Massaging the software and career never-never-land](https://raw.githubusercontent.com/soft-skills-engineering/website/refs/heads/gh-pages/_posts/2024-04-08-episode-403-massaging-the-software-and-career-never-never-land.md) - [Episode 402: It's all on fire and title inflation](https://raw.githubusercontent.com/soft-skills-engineering/website/refs/heads/gh-pages/_posts/2024-04-01-episode-402-it's-all-on-fire-and-title-inflation.md) - [Episode 401: I AM the superstar and pro-rated raise](https://raw.githubusercontent.com/soft-skills-engineering/website/refs/heads/gh-pages/_posts/2024-03-25-episode-401-i-am-the-superstar-and-pro-rated-raise.md) - [Episode 400: Underperforming intern and upskilling](https://raw.githubusercontent.com/soft-skills-engineering/website/refs/heads/gh-pages/_posts/2024-03-18-episode-400-underperforming-intern-and-upskilling.md) - [Episode 399: Higher paid than my boss and crossing over to management](https://raw.githubusercontent.com/soft-skills-engineering/website/refs/heads/gh-pages/_posts/2024-03-11-episode-399-higher-paid-than-my-boss-and-crossing-over-to-management.md) - [Episode 398: Tech lead for contractors and how to detach my ego from my work](https://raw.githubusercontent.com/soft-skills-engineering/website/refs/heads/gh-pages/_posts/2024-03-04-episode-398-tech-lead-for-contractors-and-how-to-detach-my-ego-from-my-work.md) - [Episode 397: Skunkworks and too much work/life balance](https://raw.githubusercontent.com/soft-skills-engineering/website/refs/heads/gh-pages/_posts/2024-02-26-episode-397-skunkworks-and-too-much-work-life-balance.md) - [Episode 396: Enthusiastic scope creep and human search engine](https://raw.githubusercontent.com/soft-skills-engineering/website/refs/heads/gh-pages/_posts/2024-02-19-episode-396-enthusiastic-scope-creep-and-human-search-engine.md) - [Episode 395: Super star teammate and Getting better with no financial incentives](https://raw.githubusercontent.com/soft-skills-engineering/website/refs/heads/gh-pages/_posts/2024-02-12-episode-395-super-star-teammate-and-getting-better-with-no-financial-incentives.md) - [Episode 394: Scrum master, weapons master and minimum tenure to not look bad](https://raw.githubusercontent.com/soft-skills-engineering/website/refs/heads/gh-pages/_posts/2024-02-05-episode-394-scrum-master,-weapons-master-and-minimum-tenure-to-not-look-bad.md) - [Episode 393: Soft skills for interns and intern to QA](https://raw.githubusercontent.com/soft-skills-engineering/website/refs/heads/gh-pages/_posts/2024-01-29-episode-393-soft-skills-for-interns-and-intern-to-qa.md) - [Episode 392: Old code and choosing my annual reviewers](https://raw.githubusercontent.com/soft-skills-engineering/website/refs/heads/gh-pages/_posts/2024-01-22-episode-392-old-code-and-choosing-my-annual-reviewers.md) - [Episode 391: Post-staff and direct or a jerk](https://raw.githubusercontent.com/soft-skills-engineering/website/refs/heads/gh-pages/_posts/2024-01-15-episode-391-post-staff-and-direct-or-a-jerk.md) - [Episode 390: Fixing typos and Cassandra](https://raw.githubusercontent.com/soft-skills-engineering/website/refs/heads/gh-pages/_posts/2024-01-08-episode-390-fixing-typos-and-cassandra.md) - [Episode 389: Sleepy and bureaucracy](https://raw.githubusercontent.com/soft-skills-engineering/website/refs/heads/gh-pages/_posts/2024-01-01-episode-389-sleepy-and-bureaucracy.md) - [Episode 388: Money not compliments and principal engineer coding guidelines](https://raw.githubusercontent.com/soft-skills-engineering/website/refs/heads/gh-pages/_posts/2023-12-25-episode-388-money-not-compliments-and-principal-engineer-coding-guidelines.md) - [Episode 387: No juniors and manager forced to return to office](https://raw.githubusercontent.com/soft-skills-engineering/website/refs/heads/gh-pages/_posts/2023-12-18-episode-387-no-juniors-and-manager-forced-to-return-to-office.md) - [Episode 386: Stuck with toil and how to get a dev job as a self-taught career-switcher in 2023](https://raw.githubusercontent.com/soft-skills-engineering/website/refs/heads/gh-pages/_posts/2023-12-11-episode-386-stuck-with-toil-and-how-to-get-a-dev-job-as-a-self-taught-career-switcher-in-2023.md) - [Episode 385: Attention to detail and sabbatical](https://raw.githubusercontent.com/soft-skills-engineering/website/refs/heads/gh-pages/_posts/2023-12-04-episode-385-attention-to-detail-and-sabbatical.md) - [Episode 384: EM missing code and non-location pay](https://raw.githubusercontent.com/soft-skills-engineering/website/refs/heads/gh-pages/_posts/2023-11-27-episode-384-em-missing-code-and-non-location-pay.md) - [Episode 383: In the trenches without writing code and how to close a social skill gap](https://raw.githubusercontent.com/soft-skills-engineering/website/refs/heads/gh-pages/_posts/2023-11-20-episode-383-in-the-trenches-without-writing-code-and-how-to-close-a-social-skill-gap.md) - [Episode 382: Mentors for managers and mob programming](https://raw.githubusercontent.com/soft-skills-engineering/website/refs/heads/gh-pages/_posts/2023-11-13-episode-382-mentors-for-managers-and-mob-programming.md) - [Episode 381: Doing less and bad reference](https://raw.githubusercontent.com/soft-skills-engineering/website/refs/heads/gh-pages/_posts/2023-11-06-episode-381-doing-less-and-bad-reference.md) - [Episode 380: Overruled by non-technical manager and describing technical stuff to non-technical people](https://raw.githubusercontent.com/soft-skills-engineering/website/refs/heads/gh-pages/_posts/2023-10-30-episode-380-overruled-by-non-technical-manager-and-describing-technical-stuff-to-non-technical-people.md) - [Episode 379: Someone fixed my ticket and is tech debt bad for my career](https://raw.githubusercontent.com/soft-skills-engineering/website/refs/heads/gh-pages/_posts/2023-10-23-episode-379-someone-fixed-my-ticket-and-is-tech-debt-bad-for-my-career.md) - [Episode 378: Too much leadership and awkward zoom silence](https://raw.githubusercontent.com/soft-skills-engineering/website/refs/heads/gh-pages/_posts/2023-10-16-episode-378-too-much-leadership-and-awkward-zoom-silence.md) - [Episode 377: Short Tenure Promotion and too much free time at work](https://raw.githubusercontent.com/soft-skills-engineering/website/refs/heads/gh-pages/_posts/2023-10-09-episode-377-short-tenure-promotion-and-too-much-free-time-at-work.md) - [Episode 376: Return to office and quitting tech](https://raw.githubusercontent.com/soft-skills-engineering/website/refs/heads/gh-pages/_posts/2023-10-02-episode-376-return-to-office-and-quitting-tech.md) - [Episode 375: visa woes and Bob does everything wrong](https://raw.githubusercontent.com/soft-skills-engineering/website/refs/heads/gh-pages/_posts/2023-09-25-episode-375-visa-woes-and-bob-does-everything-wrong.md) - [Episode 374: Secret burnout and no room for failure](https://raw.githubusercontent.com/soft-skills-engineering/website/refs/heads/gh-pages/_posts/2023-09-18-episode-374-secret-burnout-and-no-room-for-failure.md) - [Episode 373: I have no vision and not-so-positive environment](https://raw.githubusercontent.com/soft-skills-engineering/website/refs/heads/gh-pages/_posts/2023-09-11-episode-373-i-have-no-vision-and-not-so-positive-environment.md) - [Episode 372: Equity and getting interrupted in Zoom meetings](https://raw.githubusercontent.com/soft-skills-engineering/website/refs/heads/gh-pages/_posts/2023-09-04-episode-372-equity-and-getting-interrupted-in-zoom-meetings.md) - [Episode 371: After Mary Poppins and credit denied](https://raw.githubusercontent.com/soft-skills-engineering/website/refs/heads/gh-pages/_posts/2023-08-28-episode-371-after-mary-poppins-and-credit-denied.md) - [Episode 370: Fake imposter syndrome and opposite ends](https://raw.githubusercontent.com/soft-skills-engineering/website/refs/heads/gh-pages/_posts/2023-08-21-episode-370-fake-imposter-syndrome-and-opposite-ends.md) - [Episode 369: Staying at a sinking ship and behavioral interview questions](https://raw.githubusercontent.com/soft-skills-engineering/website/refs/heads/gh-pages/_posts/2023-08-14-episode-369-staying-at-a-sinking-ship-and-behavioral-interview-questions.md) - [Episode 368: Manager in crisis and cutting costs](https://raw.githubusercontent.com/soft-skills-engineering/website/refs/heads/gh-pages/_posts/2023-08-07-episode-368-manager-in-crisis-and-cutting-costs.md) - [Episode 367: Hybrid denier and recovering from crying](https://raw.githubusercontent.com/soft-skills-engineering/website/refs/heads/gh-pages/_posts/2023-07-31-episode-367-hybrid-denier-and-recovering-from-crying.md) - [Episode 366: No FE work and my co-worker is a parrot](https://raw.githubusercontent.com/soft-skills-engineering/website/refs/heads/gh-pages/_posts/2023-07-24-episode-366-no-fe-work-and-my-co-worker-is-a-parrot.md) - [Episode 365: Rerun of 307, side hustles and telling me when you are stuck](https://raw.githubusercontent.com/soft-skills-engineering/website/refs/heads/gh-pages/_posts/2023-07-17-episode-365-rerun-of-307.md) - [Episode 364: EMs doing technical tasks and too soft?](https://raw.githubusercontent.com/soft-skills-engineering/website/refs/heads/gh-pages/_posts/2023-07-10-episode-364-ems-doing-technical-tasks-and-too-soft?.md) - [Episode 363: Future impact of tech stacks and async communication](https://raw.githubusercontent.com/soft-skills-engineering/website/refs/heads/gh-pages/_posts/2023-07-03-episode-363-future-impact-of-tech-stacks-and-async-communication.md) - [Episode 362: Running the clock down and updating linkedin without freaking people out](https://raw.githubusercontent.com/soft-skills-engineering/website/refs/heads/gh-pages/_posts/2023-06-26-episode-362-running-the-clock-down-and-updating-linkedin-without-freaking-people-out.md) - [Episode 361: Get git and non-tech ramping up](https://raw.githubusercontent.com/soft-skills-engineering/website/refs/heads/gh-pages/_posts/2023-06-19-episode-361-get-git-and-non-tech-ramping-up.md) - [Episode 360: Mixing up names and improving without feedback](https://raw.githubusercontent.com/soft-skills-engineering/website/refs/heads/gh-pages/_posts/2023-06-12-episode-360-mixing-up-names-and-improving-without-feedback.md) - [Episode 359: Competition and awkward in person](https://raw.githubusercontent.com/soft-skills-engineering/website/refs/heads/gh-pages/_posts/2023-06-05-episode-359-competition-and-awkward-in-person.md) - [Episode 358: Sticky Note Scandal and startup appeal](https://raw.githubusercontent.com/soft-skills-engineering/website/refs/heads/gh-pages/_posts/2023-05-29-episode-358-sticky-note-scandal-and-startup-appeal.md) - [Episode 357: Waiting to be paid and survivor's guilt](https://raw.githubusercontent.com/soft-skills-engineering/website/refs/heads/gh-pages/_posts/2023-05-22-episode-357-waiting-to-be-paid-and-survivor's-guilt.md) - [Episode 356: Ummmmmmmmm and failed spikes](https://raw.githubusercontent.com/soft-skills-engineering/website/refs/heads/gh-pages/_posts/2023-05-15-episode-356-ummmmmmmmm-and-failed-spikes.md) - [Episode 355: Driving kids instead of team and jk i quit](https://raw.githubusercontent.com/soft-skills-engineering/website/refs/heads/gh-pages/_posts/2023-05-08-episode-355-driving-kids-instead-of-team-and-jk-i-quit.md) - [Episode 354: Good at circuits, bad at git and ghosts of team members past](https://raw.githubusercontent.com/soft-skills-engineering/website/refs/heads/gh-pages/_posts/2023-05-01-episode-354-good-at-circuits,-bad-at-git-and-ghosts-of-team-members-past.md) - [Episode 353: Easter outage and unethical things](https://raw.githubusercontent.com/soft-skills-engineering/website/refs/heads/gh-pages/_posts/2023-04-24-episode-353-easter-outage-and-unethical-things.md) - [Episode 352: Exploding manager and I hate computers](https://raw.githubusercontent.com/soft-skills-engineering/website/refs/heads/gh-pages/_posts/2023-04-17-episode-352-exploding-manager-and-i-hate-computers.md) - [Episode 351: Senior hoarding and layabout lead dev](https://raw.githubusercontent.com/soft-skills-engineering/website/refs/heads/gh-pages/_posts/2023-04-10-episode-351-senior-hoarding-and-layabout-lead-dev.md) - [Episode 350: Bombing a technical interview and background vetting](https://raw.githubusercontent.com/soft-skills-engineering/website/refs/heads/gh-pages/_posts/2023-04-03-episode-350-bombing-a-technical-interview-and-background-vetting.md) - [Episode 349: Performance review dissonance and being a remote manager](https://raw.githubusercontent.com/soft-skills-engineering/website/refs/heads/gh-pages/_posts/2023-03-27-episode-349-performance-review-dissonance-and-being-a-remote-manager.md) - [Episode 348: Making too many mistakes and low code career risk](https://raw.githubusercontent.com/soft-skills-engineering/website/refs/heads/gh-pages/_posts/2023-03-20-episode-348-making-too-many-mistakes-and-low-code-career-risk.md) - [Episode 347: New untrusting manager and crappy project management](https://raw.githubusercontent.com/soft-skills-engineering/website/refs/heads/gh-pages/_posts/2023-03-13-episode-347-new-untrusting-manager-and-crappy-project-management.md) - [Episode 346: Changing jobs with no raise and wrangling a cowboy coder](https://raw.githubusercontent.com/soft-skills-engineering/website/refs/heads/gh-pages/_posts/2023-03-06-episode-346-changing-jobs-with-no-raise-and-wrangling-a-cowboy-coder.md) - [Episode 345: Head of Engineering vs writing code and Voluntary Severance](https://raw.githubusercontent.com/soft-skills-engineering/website/refs/heads/gh-pages/_posts/2023-02-27-episode-345-head-of-engineering-vs-writing-code-and-voluntary-severance.md) - [Episode 344: Showing impact without hiring and over over over engineering](https://raw.githubusercontent.com/soft-skills-engineering/website/refs/heads/gh-pages/_posts/2023-02-20-episode-344-showing-impact-without-hiring-and-over-over-over-engineering.md) - [Episode 343: Tech lead/manager and discouraging seniors](https://raw.githubusercontent.com/soft-skills-engineering/website/refs/heads/gh-pages/_posts/2023-02-13-episode-343-tech-lead-manager-and-discouraging-seniors.md) - [Episode 342: Losing my job to AI and bad review season](https://raw.githubusercontent.com/soft-skills-engineering/website/refs/heads/gh-pages/_posts/2023-02-06-episode-342-losing-my-job-to-ai-and-bad-review-season.md) - [Episode 341: Offer rescinded and layoff stuff](https://raw.githubusercontent.com/soft-skills-engineering/website/refs/heads/gh-pages/_posts/2023-01-30-episode-341-offer-rescinded-and-layoff-stuff.md) - [Episode 340: Productivity lulls and code review showdown](https://raw.githubusercontent.com/soft-skills-engineering/website/refs/heads/gh-pages/_posts/2023-01-23-episode-340-productivity-lulls-and-code-review-showdown.md) - [Episode 339: Coworker double-dipping and building toxic community](https://raw.githubusercontent.com/soft-skills-engineering/website/refs/heads/gh-pages/_posts/2023-01-16-episode-339-coworker-double-dipping-and-building-toxic-community.md) - [Episode 338: I am the golden handcuffs and Staying in management](https://raw.githubusercontent.com/soft-skills-engineering/website/refs/heads/gh-pages/_posts/2023-01-09-episode-338-i-am-the-golden-handcuffs-and-staying-in-management.md) - [Episode 337: Helping the principal and Manager conflict](https://raw.githubusercontent.com/soft-skills-engineering/website/refs/heads/gh-pages/_posts/2023-01-02-episode-337-helping-the-principal-and-manager-conflict.md) - [Episode 336: Roadmap roadkill and returning to office](https://raw.githubusercontent.com/soft-skills-engineering/website/refs/heads/gh-pages/_posts/2022-12-26-episode-336-roadmap-roadkill-and-returning-to-office.md) - [Episode 335: Senior questions and overly optimistic](https://raw.githubusercontent.com/soft-skills-engineering/website/refs/heads/gh-pages/_posts/2022-12-19-episode-335-senior-questions-and-overly-optimistic.md) - [Episode 334: Personal brand and awkward silence](https://raw.githubusercontent.com/soft-skills-engineering/website/refs/heads/gh-pages/_posts/2022-12-12-episode-334-personal-brand-and-awkward-silence.md) - [Episode 333: Unsure about management and I shall decline the offer](https://raw.githubusercontent.com/soft-skills-engineering/website/refs/heads/gh-pages/_posts/2022-12-05-episode-333-unsure-about-management-and-i-shall-decline-the-offer.md) - [Episode 332: Layoff + baby survival and 18-year-old CS graduate](https://raw.githubusercontent.com/soft-skills-engineering/website/refs/heads/gh-pages/_posts/2022-11-28-episode-332-layoff-+-baby-survival-and-18-year-old-cs-graduate.md) - [Episode 331: Prickly ticket and title downgrade](https://raw.githubusercontent.com/soft-skills-engineering/website/refs/heads/gh-pages/_posts/2022-11-21-episode-331-prickly-ticket-and-title-downgrade.md) - [Episode 330: Mixed signals and not ready for senior](https://raw.githubusercontent.com/soft-skills-engineering/website/refs/heads/gh-pages/_posts/2022-11-14-episode-330-mixed-signals-and-not-ready-for-senior.md) - [Episode 329: Falling behind and can't get a management job](https://raw.githubusercontent.com/soft-skills-engineering/website/refs/heads/gh-pages/_posts/2022-11-07-episode-329-falling-behind-and-can't-get-a-management-job.md) - [Episode 328: Fear of sudden firing and reducing the lottery factor](https://raw.githubusercontent.com/soft-skills-engineering/website/refs/heads/gh-pages/_posts/2022-10-31-episode-328-fear-of-sudden-firing-and-reducing-the-lottery-factor.md) - [Episode 327: Remote with onsite team and undercover refactor](https://raw.githubusercontent.com/soft-skills-engineering/website/refs/heads/gh-pages/_posts/2022-10-24-episode-327-remote-with-onsite-team-and-undercover-refactor.md) - [Episode 326: Good perks, bad code and paper shredder suggestion box](https://raw.githubusercontent.com/soft-skills-engineering/website/refs/heads/gh-pages/_posts/2022-10-17-episode-326-good-perks,-bad-code-and-paper-shredder-suggestion-box.md) - [Episode 325: Surprise PIP and salary leak](https://raw.githubusercontent.com/soft-skills-engineering/website/refs/heads/gh-pages/_posts/2022-10-10-episode-325-surprise-pip-and-salary-leak.md) - [Episode 324: Understanding accents and mega soft skills](https://raw.githubusercontent.com/soft-skills-engineering/website/refs/heads/gh-pages/_posts/2022-10-03-episode-324-understanding-accents-and-mega-soft-skills.md) - [Episode 323: Shopping offers and returning equipment](https://raw.githubusercontent.com/soft-skills-engineering/website/refs/heads/gh-pages/_posts/2022-09-26-episode-323-shopping-offers-and-returning-equipment.md) - [Episode 322: Cover blown and no one cares](https://raw.githubusercontent.com/soft-skills-engineering/website/refs/heads/gh-pages/_posts/2022-09-19-episode-322-cover-blown-and-no-one-cares.md) - [Episode 321: Politely, no and participation at scale](https://raw.githubusercontent.com/soft-skills-engineering/website/refs/heads/gh-pages/_posts/2022-09-12-episode-321-politely,-no-and-participation-at-scale.md) - [Episode 320: Hot and less hot and no privileges](https://raw.githubusercontent.com/soft-skills-engineering/website/refs/heads/gh-pages/_posts/2022-09-05-episode-320-hot-and-less-hot-and-no-privileges.md) - [Episode 319: Steve's babysitter and these uncertain times](https://raw.githubusercontent.com/soft-skills-engineering/website/refs/heads/gh-pages/_posts/2022-08-29-episode-319-steve's-babysitter-and-these-uncertain-times.md) - [Episode 318: Staff and part time dev](https://raw.githubusercontent.com/soft-skills-engineering/website/refs/heads/gh-pages/_posts/2022-08-22-episode-318-staff-and-part-time-dev.md) - [Episode 317: Process renegades and hiding my disgrunteledness](https://raw.githubusercontent.com/soft-skills-engineering/website/refs/heads/gh-pages/_posts/2022-08-15-episode-317-process-renegades-and-hiding-my-disgrunteledness.md) - [Episode 316: Skills reboot and quitting the perfect job](https://raw.githubusercontent.com/soft-skills-engineering/website/refs/heads/gh-pages/_posts/2022-08-08-episode-316-skills-reboot-and-quitting-the-perfect-job.md) - [Episode 315: Poor feedback recipient and rubber duck](https://raw.githubusercontent.com/soft-skills-engineering/website/refs/heads/gh-pages/_posts/2022-08-01-episode-315-poor-feedback-recipient-and-rubber-duck.md) - [Episode 314: "That guy" and how to skip level](https://raw.githubusercontent.com/soft-skills-engineering/website/refs/heads/gh-pages/_posts/2022-07-25-episode-314-"that-guy"-and-how-to-skip-level.md) - [Episode 313: Parents are fighting and hat-removal](https://raw.githubusercontent.com/soft-skills-engineering/website/refs/heads/gh-pages/_posts/2022-07-18-episode-313-parents-are-fighting-and-hat-removal.md) - [Episode 312: Nit-picking and Promo raises](https://raw.githubusercontent.com/soft-skills-engineering/website/refs/heads/gh-pages/_posts/2022-07-11-episode-312-nit-picking-and-promo-raises.md) - [Episode 311: (rerun of 207) Unclear career goals and garbage code](https://raw.githubusercontent.com/soft-skills-engineering/website/refs/heads/gh-pages/_posts/2022-07-04-episode-311-rerun-of-207.md) - [Episode 310: Flip flop and architecture astronaut](https://raw.githubusercontent.com/soft-skills-engineering/website/refs/heads/gh-pages/_posts/2022-06-27-episode-310-flip-flop-and-architecture-astronaut.md) - [Episode 309: Missing boss support and new manager, who dis](https://raw.githubusercontent.com/soft-skills-engineering/website/refs/heads/gh-pages/_posts/2022-06-20-episode-309-missing-boss-support-and-new-manager,-who-dis.md) - [Episode 308: FAANG to startup and Google interview prep](https://raw.githubusercontent.com/soft-skills-engineering/website/refs/heads/gh-pages/_posts/2022-06-13-episode-308-faang-to-startup-and-google-interview-prep.md) - [Episode 307: Side hustle or new job and tell me when you're stuck](https://raw.githubusercontent.com/soft-skills-engineering/website/refs/heads/gh-pages/_posts/2022-06-06-episode-307-side-hustle-or-new-job-and-tell-me-when-you're-stuck.md) - [Episode 306: Sabbaticals and betray my team](https://raw.githubusercontent.com/soft-skills-engineering/website/refs/heads/gh-pages/_posts/2022-05-30-episode-306-sabbaticals-and-betray-my-team.md) - [Episode 305: About that raise and *you're* not fired](https://raw.githubusercontent.com/soft-skills-engineering/website/refs/heads/gh-pages/_posts/2022-05-23-episode-305-about-that-raise-and-*you're*-not-fired.md) - [Episode 304: My subordinate is smarter than me and confused in meetings](https://raw.githubusercontent.com/soft-skills-engineering/website/refs/heads/gh-pages/_posts/2022-05-16-episode-304-my-subordinate-is-smarter-than-me-and-confused-in-meetings.md) - [Episode 303: Should I stop coding and off to the field](https://raw.githubusercontent.com/soft-skills-engineering/website/refs/heads/gh-pages/_posts/2022-05-09-episode-303-should-i-stop-coding-and-off-to-the-field.md) - [Episode 302: Bad boss movies and well-written emails](https://raw.githubusercontent.com/soft-skills-engineering/website/refs/heads/gh-pages/_posts/2022-05-02-episode-302-bad-boss-movies-and-well-written-emails.md) - [Episode 301: I forced the framework and product stealing credit](https://raw.githubusercontent.com/soft-skills-engineering/website/refs/heads/gh-pages/_posts/2022-04-25-episode-301-i-forced-the-framework-and-product-stealing-credit.md) - [Episode 300: Manager move and cultural or personal](https://raw.githubusercontent.com/soft-skills-engineering/website/refs/heads/gh-pages/_posts/2022-04-18-episode-300-manager-move-and-cultural-or-personal.md) - [Episode 299: Neophyte estimates and forced framework](https://raw.githubusercontent.com/soft-skills-engineering/website/refs/heads/gh-pages/_posts/2022-04-11-episode-299-neophyte-estimates-and-forced-framework.md) - [Episode 298: Thanks, and goodbye and fessing up](https://raw.githubusercontent.com/soft-skills-engineering/website/refs/heads/gh-pages/_posts/2022-04-04-episode-298-thanks,-and-goodbye-and-fessing-up.md) - [Episode 297: Flat decisions and pointy-haired boss](https://raw.githubusercontent.com/soft-skills-engineering/website/refs/heads/gh-pages/_posts/2022-03-28-episode-297-flat-decisions-and-pointy-haired-boss.md) - [Episode 296: Low performer and frantic manager](https://raw.githubusercontent.com/soft-skills-engineering/website/refs/heads/gh-pages/_posts/2022-03-21-episode-296-low-performer-and-frantic-manager.md) - [Episode 295: Underleveled at FAANG and lazy tech lead](https://raw.githubusercontent.com/soft-skills-engineering/website/refs/heads/gh-pages/_posts/2022-03-14-episode-295-underleveled-at-faang-and-lazy-tech-lead.md) - [Episode 294: Unqualified internal applicant and speculative specs](https://raw.githubusercontent.com/soft-skills-engineering/website/refs/heads/gh-pages/_posts/2022-03-07-episode-294-unqualified-internal-applicant-and-speculative-specs.md) - [Episode 293: Moving TOO fast and following my manager](https://raw.githubusercontent.com/soft-skills-engineering/website/refs/heads/gh-pages/_posts/2022-02-28-episode-293-moving-too-fast-and-following-my-manager.md) - [Episode 292: Haunted by former co-worker and awkward manager endorsement](https://raw.githubusercontent.com/soft-skills-engineering/website/refs/heads/gh-pages/_posts/2022-02-21-episode-292-haunted-by-former-co-worker-and-awkward-manager-endorsement.md) - [Episode 291: Hyper-productive team lead and hyper-unproductive senior engineer](https://raw.githubusercontent.com/soft-skills-engineering/website/refs/heads/gh-pages/_posts/2022-02-14-episode-291-hyper-productive-team-lead-and-hyper-unproductive-senior-engineer.md) - [Episode 290: Past offers and from QA to PM](https://raw.githubusercontent.com/soft-skills-engineering/website/refs/heads/gh-pages/_posts/2022-02-07-episode-290-past-offers-and-from-qa-to-pm.md) - [Episode 289: Sharing wisdom nicely and too many raises?](https://raw.githubusercontent.com/soft-skills-engineering/website/refs/heads/gh-pages/_posts/2022-01-31-episode-289-sharing-wisdom-nicely-and-too-many-raises.md) - [Episode 288: Too excited about learning and furious boss when quitting](https://raw.githubusercontent.com/soft-skills-engineering/website/refs/heads/gh-pages/_posts/2022-01-24-episode-288-too-excited-about-learning-and-furious-boss-when-quitting.md) - [Episode 287: Informal favoritism and post-hoc finger pointing](https://raw.githubusercontent.com/soft-skills-engineering/website/refs/heads/gh-pages/_posts/2022-01-17-episode-287-informal-favoritism-and-post-hoc-finger-pointing.md) - [Episode 286: I don't care about borkchain and morning procrastination?](https://raw.githubusercontent.com/soft-skills-engineering/website/refs/heads/gh-pages/_posts/2022-01-10-episode-286-i-don't-care-about-borkchain-and-morning-procrastination?.md) - [Episode 285: Staying technical as a manager and skill over seniority](https://raw.githubusercontent.com/soft-skills-engineering/website/refs/heads/gh-pages/_posts/2022-01-03-episode-285-staying-technical-as-a-manager-and-skill-over-seniority.md) - [Episode 284: Slow mentee ramp-up and quit before new job?](https://raw.githubusercontent.com/soft-skills-engineering/website/refs/heads/gh-pages/_posts/2021-12-27-episode-284-slow-mentee-ramp-up-and-quit-before-new-job?.md) - [Episode 283: Jealousy and burnout](https://raw.githubusercontent.com/soft-skills-engineering/website/refs/heads/gh-pages/_posts/2021-12-20-episode-283-jealousy-and-burnout.md) - [Episode 282: Setting boundaries late and junior joy](https://raw.githubusercontent.com/soft-skills-engineering/website/refs/heads/gh-pages/_posts/2021-12-13-episode-282-setting-boundaries-late-and-junior-joy.md) - [Episode 281: Contractor is sus and too much job hopping?](https://raw.githubusercontent.com/soft-skills-engineering/website/refs/heads/gh-pages/_posts/2021-12-06-episode-281-contractor-is-sus-and-too-much-job-hopping?.md) - [Episode 280: Async communication and how to quit not nicely](https://raw.githubusercontent.com/soft-skills-engineering/website/refs/heads/gh-pages/_posts/2021-11-29-episode-280-async-communication-and-how-to-quit-not-nicely.md) - [Episode 279: (Rerun of 220) Premature leadership push and credit and status](https://raw.githubusercontent.com/soft-skills-engineering/website/refs/heads/gh-pages/_posts/2021-11-22-episode-279-rerun-of-220-premature-leadership-push-and-credit-and-status.md) - [Episode 278: PM to engineer and pressure to stay after quitting](https://raw.githubusercontent.com/soft-skills-engineering/website/refs/heads/gh-pages/_posts/2021-11-15-episode-278-pm-to-engineer-and-pressure-to-stay-after-quitting.md) - [Episode 277: Super long code reviews and replacement laptop](https://raw.githubusercontent.com/soft-skills-engineering/website/refs/heads/gh-pages/_posts/2021-11-08-episode-277-super-long-code-reviews-and-replacement-laptop.md) - [Episode 276: Startup or big company and negotiating your exit?](https://raw.githubusercontent.com/soft-skills-engineering/website/refs/heads/gh-pages/_posts/2021-11-01-episode-276-startup-or-big-company-and-negotiating-your-exit?.md) - [Episode 275: Take-home tests and doing my own recruiting](https://raw.githubusercontent.com/soft-skills-engineering/website/refs/heads/gh-pages/_posts/2021-10-25-episode-275-take-home-tests-and-doing-my-own-recruiting.md) - [Episode 274: Announcing resignation too early and why are my ideas rejected?](https://raw.githubusercontent.com/soft-skills-engineering/website/refs/heads/gh-pages/_posts/2021-10-18-episode-274-announcing-resignation-too-early-and-why-are-my-ideas-rejected?.md) - [Episode 273: Influencing people and getting a raise in a flat org](https://raw.githubusercontent.com/soft-skills-engineering/website/refs/heads/gh-pages/_posts/2021-10-11-episode-273-influencing-people-and-getting-a-raise-in-a-flat-org.md) - [Episode 272: Consistent or shiny](https://raw.githubusercontent.com/soft-skills-engineering/website/refs/heads/gh-pages/_posts/2021-09-27-episode-272-consistent-or-shiny.md) - [Episode 271: Too quiet and quitting too much?](https://raw.githubusercontent.com/soft-skills-engineering/website/refs/heads/gh-pages/_posts/2021-09-13-episode-271-too-quiet-and-quitting-too-much?.md) - [Episode 270 (rerun of 227): Junior expectations and manager flakiness](https://raw.githubusercontent.com/soft-skills-engineering/website/refs/heads/gh-pages/_posts/2021-09-07-episode-270-rerun-of-227-junior-expectations-and-manager-flakiness.md) - [Episode 269: A bad product and running the meter down](https://raw.githubusercontent.com/soft-skills-engineering/website/refs/heads/gh-pages/_posts/2021-08-30-episode-269-a-bad-product-and-running-the-meter-down.md) - [Episode 268: Title inflation and solo remote engineer](https://raw.githubusercontent.com/soft-skills-engineering/website/refs/heads/gh-pages/_posts/2021-08-23-episode-268-title-inflation-and-solo-remote-engineer.md) - [Episode 267: Cheap promotion raise and live coding blues](https://raw.githubusercontent.com/soft-skills-engineering/website/refs/heads/gh-pages/_posts/2021-08-16-episode-267-cheap-promotion-raise-and-live-coding-blues.md) - [Episode 266: Switching tech stacks and awkward zoom silence](https://raw.githubusercontent.com/soft-skills-engineering/website/refs/heads/gh-pages/_posts/2021-07-26-episode-266-switching-tech-stacks-and-awkward-zoom-silence.md) - [Episode 265 (rerun of 216): One-on-ones and inter-team power struggles](https://raw.githubusercontent.com/soft-skills-engineering/website/refs/heads/gh-pages/_posts/2021-07-19-episode-265-rerun-one-on-ones-and-inter-team-power-struggles.md) - [Episode 264: Finger pointing and getting recognition](https://raw.githubusercontent.com/soft-skills-engineering/website/refs/heads/gh-pages/_posts/2021-07-12-episode-264-finger-pointing-and-getting-recognition.md) - [Episode 263: Why am I bored and ver-boss-ity](https://raw.githubusercontent.com/soft-skills-engineering/website/refs/heads/gh-pages/_posts/2021-07-05-episode-263-why-am-i-bored-and-ver-boss-ity.md) - [Episode 262: I'm too popular and too much turnover](https://raw.githubusercontent.com/soft-skills-engineering/website/refs/heads/gh-pages/_posts/2021-06-14-episode-262-i'm-too-popular-and-too-much-turnover.md) - [Episode 261: Anxious about work and senior imposter](https://raw.githubusercontent.com/soft-skills-engineering/website/refs/heads/gh-pages/_posts/2021-06-07-episode-261-anxious-about-work-and-senior-imposter.md) - [Episode 260: Pay cut after hired and new job ramp-up](https://raw.githubusercontent.com/soft-skills-engineering/website/refs/heads/gh-pages/_posts/2021-05-24-episode-260-pay-cut-after-hired-and-new-job-ramp-up.md) - [Episode 259: Moving up to meetings and will remote work stay a thing?](https://raw.githubusercontent.com/soft-skills-engineering/website/refs/heads/gh-pages/_posts/2021-05-10-episode-259-moving-up-to-meetings-and-will-remote-work-stay-a-thing?.md) - [Episode 258: Addicted to scrolling and underpaid with equity](https://raw.githubusercontent.com/soft-skills-engineering/website/refs/heads/gh-pages/_posts/2021-05-03-episode-258-addicted-to-scrolling-and-underpaid-with-equity.md) - [Episode 257: Oops I didn't negotiate and really another raise question](https://raw.githubusercontent.com/soft-skills-engineering/website/refs/heads/gh-pages/_posts/2021-04-19-episode-257-oops-i-didn't-negotiate-and-really-another-raise-question.md) - [Episode 256: No degree ceiling and reverse whippersnappers](https://raw.githubusercontent.com/soft-skills-engineering/website/refs/heads/gh-pages/_posts/2021-04-12-episode-256-no-degree-ceiling-and-reverse-whippersnappers.md) - [Episode 255: Only positive feedback and overworked and siloed](https://raw.githubusercontent.com/soft-skills-engineering/website/refs/heads/gh-pages/_posts/2021-04-05-episode-255-only-positive-feedback-and-overworked-and-siloed.md) - [Episode 254: Code makes my body hurt and level madness](https://raw.githubusercontent.com/soft-skills-engineering/website/refs/heads/gh-pages/_posts/2021-03-29-episode-254-code-makes-my-body-hurt-and-level-madness.md) - [Episode 253: Not coding after 2 years and fake data scientists](https://raw.githubusercontent.com/soft-skills-engineering/website/refs/heads/gh-pages/_posts/2021-03-22-episode-253-not-coding-after-2-years-and-fake-data-scientists.md) - [Episode 252: Impossible documentation and unexcited coworkers](https://raw.githubusercontent.com/soft-skills-engineering/website/refs/heads/gh-pages/_posts/2021-03-15-episode-252-impossible-documentation-and-unexcited-coworkers.md) - [Episode 251: Working with real live developers and the royal we?](https://raw.githubusercontent.com/soft-skills-engineering/website/refs/heads/gh-pages/_posts/2021-03-08-episode-251-working-with-real-live-developers-and-the-royal-we?.md) - [Episode 250: The management track and active listening](https://raw.githubusercontent.com/soft-skills-engineering/website/refs/heads/gh-pages/_posts/2021-03-01-episode-250-the-management-track-and-active-listening.md) - [Episode 249: Settling the Wild West and credit for self-study](https://raw.githubusercontent.com/soft-skills-engineering/website/refs/heads/gh-pages/_posts/2021-02-22-episode-249-settling-the-wild-west-and-credit-for-self-study.md) - [Episode 248: Non-private slack channels and expectations](https://raw.githubusercontent.com/soft-skills-engineering/website/refs/heads/gh-pages/_posts/2021-02-15-episode-248-non-private-slack-channels-and-expectations.md) - [Episode 247: Estimates and hotdesking](https://raw.githubusercontent.com/soft-skills-engineering/website/refs/heads/gh-pages/_posts/2021-02-08-episode-247-estimates-and-hotdesking.md) - [Episode 246: Humanitarian salary conundrum and family benefits](https://raw.githubusercontent.com/soft-skills-engineering/website/refs/heads/gh-pages/_posts/2021-02-01-episode-246-humanitarian-salary-conundrum-and-family-benefits.md) - [Episode 245: Sweating the small stuff and quit my first job?](https://raw.githubusercontent.com/soft-skills-engineering/website/refs/heads/gh-pages/_posts/2021-01-25-episode-245-sweating-the-small-stuff-and-quit-my-first-job?.md) - [Episode 244: Quitting telephone and recommendontion](https://raw.githubusercontent.com/soft-skills-engineering/website/refs/heads/gh-pages/_posts/2021-01-18-episode-244-quitting-telephone-and-recommendontion.md) - [Episode 243: Saying no and conference](https://raw.githubusercontent.com/soft-skills-engineering/website/refs/heads/gh-pages/_posts/2021-01-11-episode-243-saying-no-and-conference.md) - [Episode 242 (Episode 131 re-run): Stinky feet and high salary expectation](https://raw.githubusercontent.com/soft-skills-engineering/website/refs/heads/gh-pages/_posts/2021-01-05-episode-242-coworkers-with-stinky-feet-and-was-my-salary-expectation-too-high.md) - [Episode 241 (Rerun of 184): Indispensable and IT cold war](https://raw.githubusercontent.com/soft-skills-engineering/website/refs/heads/gh-pages/_posts/2020-12-28-episode-241-indispensable-and-it-cold-war.md) - [Episode 240: Under-leveled in the big leagues and pushing back](https://raw.githubusercontent.com/soft-skills-engineering/website/refs/heads/gh-pages/_posts/2020-12-14-episode-240-under-leveled-in-the-big-leagues-and-pushing-back.md) - [Episode 239: Hustle and patents and toxicity](https://raw.githubusercontent.com/soft-skills-engineering/website/refs/heads/gh-pages/_posts/2020-12-07-episode-239-hustle-and-patents-and-toxicity.md) - [Episode 238: Naughty team and quitting after 2 weeks](https://raw.githubusercontent.com/soft-skills-engineering/website/refs/heads/gh-pages/_posts/2020-11-30-episode-238-naughty-team-and-quitting-after-2-weeks.md) - [Episode 237: Salary vs tech stack and how to quit an ad agency](https://raw.githubusercontent.com/soft-skills-engineering/website/refs/heads/gh-pages/_posts/2020-11-23-episode-237-salary-vs-tech-stack-and-how-to-quit-an-ad-agency.md) - [Episode 236: Making mistakes and Lowball offer](https://raw.githubusercontent.com/soft-skills-engineering/website/refs/heads/gh-pages/_posts/2020-11-16-episode-236-making-mistakes-and-lowball-offer.md) - [Episode 235: Bus factors and toxic time bomb](https://raw.githubusercontent.com/soft-skills-engineering/website/refs/heads/gh-pages/_posts/2020-11-09-episode-235-bus-factors-and-toxic-time-bomb.md) - [Episode 234: Job hopping and untenable counter-offers](https://raw.githubusercontent.com/soft-skills-engineering/website/refs/heads/gh-pages/_posts/2020-11-02-episode-234-job-hopping-and-untenable-counter-offers.md) - [Episode 233: Manual unit testing and WFH demotivation](https://raw.githubusercontent.com/soft-skills-engineering/website/refs/heads/gh-pages/_posts/2020-10-26-episode-233-manual-unit-testing-and-wfh-demotivation.md) - [Episode 232: "Junior" developer and NDA'd](https://raw.githubusercontent.com/soft-skills-engineering/website/refs/heads/gh-pages/_posts/2020-10-19-episode-232-"junior"-developer-and-nda'd.md) - [Episode 231: Freedom for me not for thee and optimizing for growth](https://raw.githubusercontent.com/soft-skills-engineering/website/refs/heads/gh-pages/_posts/2020-10-12-episode-231-freedom-for-me-not-for-thee-and-optimizing-for-growth.md) - [Episode 230: Not seeking promotion and taking code](https://raw.githubusercontent.com/soft-skills-engineering/website/refs/heads/gh-pages/_posts/2020-10-05-episode-230-not-seeking-promotion-and-taking-code.md) - [Episode 229: Other people's code and moving into product management](https://raw.githubusercontent.com/soft-skills-engineering/website/refs/heads/gh-pages/_posts/2020-09-28-episode-229-other-people's-code-and-moving-into-product-management.md) - [Episode 228: Unpaid team lead and banking hours](https://raw.githubusercontent.com/soft-skills-engineering/website/refs/heads/gh-pages/_posts/2020-09-21-episode-228-unpaid-team-lead-and-banking-hours.md) - [Episode 227: Junior expectations and manager flakiness](https://raw.githubusercontent.com/soft-skills-engineering/website/refs/heads/gh-pages/_posts/2020-09-14-episode-227-junior-expectations-and-manager-flakiness.md) - [Episode 226: Declining job offers and being the outside hire](https://raw.githubusercontent.com/soft-skills-engineering/website/refs/heads/gh-pages/_posts/2020-09-07-episode-226-declining-job-offers-and-being-the-outside-hire.md) - [Episode 225: Stuck on the ladder and can't say no](https://raw.githubusercontent.com/soft-skills-engineering/website/refs/heads/gh-pages/_posts/2020-08-31-episode-225-stuck-on-the-ladder-and-can't-say-no.md) - [Episode 224: Bad review from conflicted boss and questioning my career choices](https://raw.githubusercontent.com/soft-skills-engineering/website/refs/heads/gh-pages/_posts/2020-08-24-episode-224-bad-review-from-conflicted-boss-and-questioning-my-career-choices.md) - [Episode 223: Feedback rage and making up for lost time](https://raw.githubusercontent.com/soft-skills-engineering/website/refs/heads/gh-pages/_posts/2020-08-17-episode-223-feedback-rage-and-making-up-for-lost-time.md) - [Episode 222: Cowboy CTO and underpaid after promotion](https://raw.githubusercontent.com/soft-skills-engineering/website/refs/heads/gh-pages/_posts/2020-08-10-episode-222-cowboy-cto-and-underpaid-after-promotion.md) - [Episode 221: Current boss reference and getting paid to do nothing](https://raw.githubusercontent.com/soft-skills-engineering/website/refs/heads/gh-pages/_posts/2020-08-03-episode-221-current-boss-reference-and-getting-paid-to-do-nothing.md) - [Episode 220: Premature leadership push and credit and status](https://raw.githubusercontent.com/soft-skills-engineering/website/refs/heads/gh-pages/_posts/2020-07-27-episode-220-premature-leadership-push-and-credit-and-status.md) - [Episode 219: Remote crickets and Manager Careering](https://raw.githubusercontent.com/soft-skills-engineering/website/refs/heads/gh-pages/_posts/2020-07-20-episode-219-remote-crickets-and-manager-careering.md) - [Episode 218: Referral underperforming and take a tech lead role](https://raw.githubusercontent.com/soft-skills-engineering/website/refs/heads/gh-pages/_posts/2020-07-13-episode-218-referral-underperforming-and-take-a-tech-lead-role.md) - [Episode 217: Quitting words and double COVID internship](https://raw.githubusercontent.com/soft-skills-engineering/website/refs/heads/gh-pages/_posts/2020-07-06-episode-217-quitting-words-and-double-covid-internship.md) - [Episode 216: One-on-ones and inter-team power struggles](https://raw.githubusercontent.com/soft-skills-engineering/website/refs/heads/gh-pages/_posts/2020-06-29-episode-216-one-on-ones-and-inter-team-power-struggles.md) - [Episode 215: Many jobs in one and junior git stickler](https://raw.githubusercontent.com/soft-skills-engineering/website/refs/heads/gh-pages/_posts/2020-06-22-episode-215-many-jobs-in-one-and-junior-git-stickler.md) - [Episode 214: Jumping ship and saying "I can't"](https://raw.githubusercontent.com/soft-skills-engineering/website/refs/heads/gh-pages/_posts/2020-06-15-episode-214-jumping-ship-and-saying-"i-can't".md) - [Episode 213: Interviewing your future boss and screwed by private equity](https://raw.githubusercontent.com/soft-skills-engineering/website/refs/heads/gh-pages/_posts/2020-06-08-episode-213-interviewing-your-future-boss-and-screwed-by-private-equity.md) - [Episode 212: Turnover and self-inflicted complexity](https://raw.githubusercontent.com/soft-skills-engineering/website/refs/heads/gh-pages/_posts/2020-06-01-episode-212-turnover-and-self-inflicted-complexity.md) - [Episode 211: Biorhythm and coworker roommate](https://raw.githubusercontent.com/soft-skills-engineering/website/refs/heads/gh-pages/_posts/2020-05-25-episode-211-biorhythm-and-coworker-roommate.md) - [Episode 210: Study time and caring less](https://raw.githubusercontent.com/soft-skills-engineering/website/refs/heads/gh-pages/_posts/2020-05-18-episode-210-study-time-and-caring-less.md) - [Episode 209: Glue and Covid ghost job](https://raw.githubusercontent.com/soft-skills-engineering/website/refs/heads/gh-pages/_posts/2020-05-11-episode-209-glue-and-covid-ghost-job.md) - [Episode 208: Toe-stepper-on-er and high leverage work](https://raw.githubusercontent.com/soft-skills-engineering/website/refs/heads/gh-pages/_posts/2020-05-04-episode-208-toe-stepper-on-er-and-high-leverage-work.md) - [Episode 207: Unclear career goals and garbage code](https://raw.githubusercontent.com/soft-skills-engineering/website/refs/heads/gh-pages/_posts/2020-04-27-episode-207-unclear-career-goals-and-garbage-code.md) - [Episode 206: Micromanaging WFH and vaguely tech lead](https://raw.githubusercontent.com/soft-skills-engineering/website/refs/heads/gh-pages/_posts/2020-04-20-episode-206-micromanaging-wfh-and-vaguely-tech-lead.md) - [Episode 205: Old code outage and questions leaking](https://raw.githubusercontent.com/soft-skills-engineering/website/refs/heads/gh-pages/_posts/2020-04-13-episode-205-old-code-outage-and-questions-leaking.md) - [Episode 204: Remote work and ghosting your employer](https://raw.githubusercontent.com/soft-skills-engineering/website/refs/heads/gh-pages/_posts/2020-04-06-episode-204-remote-work-and-ghosting-your-employer.md) - [Episode 203: Downturns and conflict](https://raw.githubusercontent.com/soft-skills-engineering/website/refs/heads/gh-pages/_posts/2020-03-30-episode-203-downturns-and-conflict.md) - [Episode 202: Can't stand up and new team, new me](https://raw.githubusercontent.com/soft-skills-engineering/website/refs/heads/gh-pages/_posts/2020-03-23-episode-202-can't-stand-up-and-new-team,-new-me.md) - [Episode 201: Too soon for a raise and management, masters, maybe?](https://raw.githubusercontent.com/soft-skills-engineering/website/refs/heads/gh-pages/_posts/2020-03-16-episode-201-too-soon-for-a-raise-and-management,-masters,-maybe?.md) - [Episode 200: Crazy work work stories](https://raw.githubusercontent.com/soft-skills-engineering/website/refs/heads/gh-pages/_posts/2020-03-09-episode-200-crazy-work-stories.md) - [Episode 199: Offshore team influence and time zone fun](https://raw.githubusercontent.com/soft-skills-engineering/website/refs/heads/gh-pages/_posts/2020-03-02-episode-199-offshore-team-influence-and-time-zone-fun.md) - [Episode 198: Stinky manager and VP overhaul](https://raw.githubusercontent.com/soft-skills-engineering/website/refs/heads/gh-pages/_posts/2020-02-24-episode-198-stinky-manager-and-vp-overhaul.md) - [Episode 197: Rambling co-worker and awkward resume leak](https://raw.githubusercontent.com/soft-skills-engineering/website/refs/heads/gh-pages/_posts/2020-02-17-episode-197-rambling-co-worker-and-awkward-resume-leak.md) - [Episode 196: "Offshore resources" and ageist layoffs](https://raw.githubusercontent.com/soft-skills-engineering/website/refs/heads/gh-pages/_posts/2020-02-10-episode-196-"offshore-resources"-and-ageist-layoffs.md) - [Episode 195: Ad-hoc promotion and quitting a huge company with Charity Majors](https://raw.githubusercontent.com/soft-skills-engineering/website/refs/heads/gh-pages/_posts/2020-02-03-episode-195-ad-hoc-promotion-and-quitting-a-huge-company.md) - [Episode 194: Leveling up through speaking and negativity](https://raw.githubusercontent.com/soft-skills-engineering/website/refs/heads/gh-pages/_posts/2020-01-27-episode-194-leveling-up-through-speaking-and-negativity.md) - [Episode 193: Playing the field and paying for speaking](https://raw.githubusercontent.com/soft-skills-engineering/website/refs/heads/gh-pages/_posts/2020-01-20-episode-193-playing-the-field-and-paying-for-speaking.md) - [Episode 192: Giving feedback and messaging a team change](https://raw.githubusercontent.com/soft-skills-engineering/website/refs/heads/gh-pages/_posts/2020-01-13-episode-192-giving-feedback-and-messaging-a-team-change.md) - [Episode 191: Overshadowed and demos and credit](https://raw.githubusercontent.com/soft-skills-engineering/website/refs/heads/gh-pages/_posts/2020-01-06-episode-191-overshadowed-and-demos-and-credit.md) - [Episode 190: Disorganized startup and leveling up the team](https://raw.githubusercontent.com/soft-skills-engineering/website/refs/heads/gh-pages/_posts/2019-12-30-episode-190-disorganized-startup-and-leveling-up-the-team.md) - [Episode 189: Building relationships and handling negative feedback with speical guest Jeff Leiken](https://raw.githubusercontent.com/soft-skills-engineering/website/refs/heads/gh-pages/_posts/2019-12-23-episode-189-building-relationships-and-handling-negative-feedback.md) - [Episode 188: Drama overload and agile ouroboroses](https://raw.githubusercontent.com/soft-skills-engineering/website/refs/heads/gh-pages/_posts/2019-12-16-episode-188-drama-overload-and-agile-ouroboroses.md) - [Episode 187: Interview insanity and making up for lost time](https://raw.githubusercontent.com/soft-skills-engineering/website/refs/heads/gh-pages/_posts/2019-12-09-episode-187-interview-insanity-and-making-up-for-lost-time.md) - [Episode 186: First job negotiation and am I a senior engineer?](https://raw.githubusercontent.com/soft-skills-engineering/website/refs/heads/gh-pages/_posts/2019-12-02-episode-186-first-job-negotiation-and-am-i-a-senior-engineer?.md) - [Episode 185: Fragile coworkers and soft demotion](https://raw.githubusercontent.com/soft-skills-engineering/website/refs/heads/gh-pages/_posts/2019-11-25-episode-185-fragile-coworkers-and-soft-demotion.md) - [Episode 184: Indispensable and IT cold war](https://raw.githubusercontent.com/soft-skills-engineering/website/refs/heads/gh-pages/_posts/2019-11-18-episode-184-indispensable-and-it-cold-war.md) - [Episode 183: Terrible boss code and peer-to-peer mentorship](https://raw.githubusercontent.com/soft-skills-engineering/website/refs/heads/gh-pages/_posts/2019-11-11-episode-183-terrible-boss-code-and-peer-to-peer-mentorship.md) - [Episode 182: Lunch and switching to product management](https://raw.githubusercontent.com/soft-skills-engineering/website/refs/heads/gh-pages/_posts/2019-11-04-episode-182-lunch-and-switching-to-product-management.md) - [Episode 181: Blocked by back-end and tired of coding](https://raw.githubusercontent.com/soft-skills-engineering/website/refs/heads/gh-pages/_posts/2019-10-28-episode-181-blocked-by-back-end-and-tired-of-coding.md) - [Episode 180: Inspiring attention to detail and moving](https://raw.githubusercontent.com/soft-skills-engineering/website/refs/heads/gh-pages/_posts/2019-10-21-episode-180-inspiring-attention-to-detail-and-moving.md) - [Episode 179: Pushing preemptive promotion and de-motivated by promotion](https://raw.githubusercontent.com/soft-skills-engineering/website/refs/heads/gh-pages/_posts/2019-10-14-episode-179-pushing-preemptive-promotion-and-de-motivated-by-promotion.md) - [Episode 178: Procrastinating colleague and working remotely for an on-site company](https://raw.githubusercontent.com/soft-skills-engineering/website/refs/heads/gh-pages/_posts/2019-10-07-episode-178-procrastinating-colleague-and-working-remotely-for-an-on-site-company.md) - [Episode 177: Work life vertigo and work life interviews](https://raw.githubusercontent.com/soft-skills-engineering/website/refs/heads/gh-pages/_posts/2019-09-30-episode-177-work-life-vertigo-and-work-life-interviews.md) - [Episode 176: Afraid to disappoint and tech co-founder advice](https://raw.githubusercontent.com/soft-skills-engineering/website/refs/heads/gh-pages/_posts/2019-09-23-episode-176-afraid-to-disappoint-and-tech-co-founder-advice.md) - [Episode 175: Famous devs at conferences and becoming obsolete](https://raw.githubusercontent.com/soft-skills-engineering/website/refs/heads/gh-pages/_posts/2019-09-16-episode-175-famous-devs-at-conferences-and-becoming-obsolete.md) - [Episode 174: Bottleneck manager and how to tech lead](https://raw.githubusercontent.com/soft-skills-engineering/website/refs/heads/gh-pages/_posts/2019-09-09-episode-174-bottleneck-manager-and-how-to-tech-lead.md) - [Episode 173: Newbie burden and getting a 25% raise](https://raw.githubusercontent.com/soft-skills-engineering/website/refs/heads/gh-pages/_posts/2019-09-02-episode-173-newbie-burden-and-getting-a-25%-raise.md) - [Episode 172: Contracting and American email etiquette](https://raw.githubusercontent.com/soft-skills-engineering/website/refs/heads/gh-pages/_posts/2019-08-26-episode-172-contracting-and-american-email-etiquette.md) - [Episode 171: Unwilling mentorship and tortoise vs hare DevOps](https://raw.githubusercontent.com/soft-skills-engineering/website/refs/heads/gh-pages/_posts/2019-08-19-episode-171-unwilling-mentorship-and-tortoise-vs-hare-devops.md) - [Episode 170: Code rage and code review etiquette](https://raw.githubusercontent.com/soft-skills-engineering/website/refs/heads/gh-pages/_posts/2019-08-12-episode-170-code-rage-and-code-review-etiquette.md) - [Episode 169: Conspiracy theories and flexible schedules](https://raw.githubusercontent.com/soft-skills-engineering/website/refs/heads/gh-pages/_posts/2019-08-05-episode-169-conspiracy-theories-and-flexible-schedules.md) - [Episode 168: Self-snooping and work from home jeopardy](https://raw.githubusercontent.com/soft-skills-engineering/website/refs/heads/gh-pages/_posts/2019-07-29-episode-168-self-snooping-and-work-from-home-jeopardy.md) - [Episode 167: Foosball culture and giving feedback to geniuses](https://raw.githubusercontent.com/soft-skills-engineering/website/refs/heads/gh-pages/_posts/2019-07-22-episode-167-foosball-culture-and-giving-feedback-to-geniuses.md) - [Episode 166: Not the intern and fighting at work](https://raw.githubusercontent.com/soft-skills-engineering/website/refs/heads/gh-pages/_posts/2019-07-15-episode-166-not-the-intern-and-fighting-at-work.md) - [Episode 165: I don't play videogames and quarter-career burnout](https://raw.githubusercontent.com/soft-skills-engineering/website/refs/heads/gh-pages/_posts/2019-07-08-episode-165-i-don't-play-videogames-and-quarter-career-burnout.md) - [Episode 164: Fear of firing and disengaged teammates](https://raw.githubusercontent.com/soft-skills-engineering/website/refs/heads/gh-pages/_posts/2019-07-01-episode-164-fear-of-firing-and-disengaged-teammates.md) - [Episode 163: Sounding a warning and negative Glassdoor reviews](https://raw.githubusercontent.com/soft-skills-engineering/website/refs/heads/gh-pages/_posts/2019-06-24-episode-163-sounding-a-warning-and-negative-glassdoor-reviews.md) - [Episode 162 (rerun of episode 113): Quitting Your First Job and Too Many Responsibilities](https://raw.githubusercontent.com/soft-skills-engineering/website/refs/heads/gh-pages/_posts/2019-06-17-episode-162-rerun-of-episode-113.md) - [Episode 161: Trapped as a QA engineer and trapped as a generalist](https://raw.githubusercontent.com/soft-skills-engineering/website/refs/heads/gh-pages/_posts/2019-06-10-episode-161-trapped-as-a-qa-engineer-and-trapped-as-a-generalist.md) - [Episode 160: Non-manager 1:1s and throwing away dev learning](https://raw.githubusercontent.com/soft-skills-engineering/website/refs/heads/gh-pages/_posts/2019-06-03-episode-160-non-manager-1:1s-and-throwing-away-dev-learning.md) - [Episode 159: Rejecting candidates and corporate image obsession](https://raw.githubusercontent.com/soft-skills-engineering/website/refs/heads/gh-pages/_posts/2019-05-27-episode-159-rejecting-candidates-and-corporate-image-obsession.md) - [Episode 158: I accepted a counter-offer and stayed and dealing with engineers who exaggerate their contributions](https://raw.githubusercontent.com/soft-skills-engineering/website/refs/heads/gh-pages/_posts/2019-05-20-episode-158-i-accepted-a-counter-offer-and-stayed-and-dealing-with-engineers-who-exaggerate-their-contributions.md) - [Episode 157: How to deal with a consistent low performer and my architect wants me to switch from Ruby to Java](https://raw.githubusercontent.com/soft-skills-engineering/website/refs/heads/gh-pages/_posts/2019-05-13-episode-157-how-to-deal-with-a-consistent-low-performer-and-my-architect-wants-me-to-switch-from-ruby-to-java.md) - [Episode 156: How to move from web development into other software engineering roles and dealing with slow code review processes](https://raw.githubusercontent.com/soft-skills-engineering/website/refs/heads/gh-pages/_posts/2019-05-06-episode-156-how-to-move-from-web-development-into-other-software-engineering-roles-and-dealing-with-slow-code-review-processes.md) - [Episode 155: What do you think about employee monitoring software and how do I get un-demotivated after losing interest in software dev?](https://raw.githubusercontent.com/soft-skills-engineering/website/refs/heads/gh-pages/_posts/2019-04-29-episode-155-what-do-you-think-about-employee-monitoring-software-and-how-do-i-get-un-demotivated-after-losing-interest-in-software-dev?.md) - [Episode 154: Why am I terrible at picking candidates and how soon can I quit my job?](https://raw.githubusercontent.com/soft-skills-engineering/website/refs/heads/gh-pages/_posts/2019-04-22-episode-154-why-am-i-terrible-at-picking-candidates-and-how-soon-can-i-quit-my-job?.md) - [Episode 153: Informal Leadership and Dealing With Burnout (rerun of episode 71)](https://raw.githubusercontent.com/soft-skills-engineering/website/refs/heads/gh-pages/_posts/2019-04-15-episode-153-rerun-of-episode-71.md) - [Episode 152: How to pair program as an introvert and being mistreated as a contractor?](https://raw.githubusercontent.com/soft-skills-engineering/website/refs/heads/gh-pages/_posts/2019-04-08-episode-152-how-to-pair-program-as-an-introvert-and-being-mistreated-as-a-contractor?.md) - [Episode 151: Where are all the old developers and Do I not ask enough questions?](https://raw.githubusercontent.com/soft-skills-engineering/website/refs/heads/gh-pages/_posts/2019-04-01-episode-151-where-are-all-the-old-developers-and-do-i-not-ask-enough-questions?.md) - [Episode 150: How to fight imposter syndrome as a technical lead and Getting in to meetups](https://raw.githubusercontent.com/soft-skills-engineering/website/refs/heads/gh-pages/_posts/2019-03-25-episode-150-how-to-fight-imposter-syndrome-as-a-technical-lead-and-getting-in-to-meetups.md) - [Episode 149: How to get my engineering career back on track and how to thrive in a heavy process environment](https://raw.githubusercontent.com/soft-skills-engineering/website/refs/heads/gh-pages/_posts/2019-03-18-episode-149-how-to-get-my-engineering-career-back-on-track-and-how-to-thrive-in-a-heavy-process-environment.md) - [Episode 148: In the orbit of a Rock Star Programmer and Should I share my salary with my coworkers?](https://raw.githubusercontent.com/soft-skills-engineering/website/refs/heads/gh-pages/_posts/2019-03-11-episode-148-in-the-orbit-of-a-rock-star-programmer-and-should-i-share-my-salary-with-my-coworkers?.md) - [Episode 147: How to grow in a flat organization and how to get references when job hunting in stealth mode?](https://raw.githubusercontent.com/soft-skills-engineering/website/refs/heads/gh-pages/_posts/2019-03-04-episode-147-how-to-grow-in-a-flat-organization-and-how-to-get-references-when-job-hunting-in-stealth-mode?.md) - [Episode 146: What to do with sick co-workers who come into the office and dealing with weird performance review feedback](https://raw.githubusercontent.com/soft-skills-engineering/website/refs/heads/gh-pages/_posts/2019-02-25-episode-146-what-to-do-with-sick-co-workers-who-come-into-the-office-and-dealing-with-weird-performance-review-feedback.md) - [Episode 145: What to do with a bad manager who is loved by upper management and should I include detecting major security vulnerabilities on my resume?](https://raw.githubusercontent.com/soft-skills-engineering/website/refs/heads/gh-pages/_posts/2019-02-18-episode-145-what-to-do-with-a-bad-manager-who-is-loved-by-upper-management-and-should-i-include-detecting-major-security-vulnerabilities-on-my-resume?.md) - [Episode 144: Job hunting while employed and how to start my first technical lead role](https://raw.githubusercontent.com/soft-skills-engineering/website/refs/heads/gh-pages/_posts/2019-02-11-episode-144-job-hunting-while-employed-and-how-to-start-my-first-technical-lead-role.md) - [Episode 143: Dealing with meeting interrupters and setting work limits](https://raw.githubusercontent.com/soft-skills-engineering/website/refs/heads/gh-pages/_posts/2019-02-04-episode-143-dealing-with-meeting-interrupters-and-setting-work-limits.md) - [Episode 142: Can I get hired above my level even though I look inexperienced on paper and should I be brutally honest in peer performance reviews](https://raw.githubusercontent.com/soft-skills-engineering/website/refs/heads/gh-pages/_posts/2019-01-28-episode-142-can-i-get-hired-above-my-level-even-though-i-look-inexperienced-on-paper-and-should-i-be-brutally-honest-in-peer-performance-reviews.md) - [Episode 141: A Rampant Rewriter and Dealing with an Overexplainer (rerun of episode 73)](https://raw.githubusercontent.com/soft-skills-engineering/website/refs/heads/gh-pages/_posts/2019-01-21-episode-141-rerun-of-73-ramprant-rewriter-and-dealing-with-over-explainers.md) - [Episode 140: Should I apologize for my bugs after I quit and should I become a project manager](https://raw.githubusercontent.com/soft-skills-engineering/website/refs/heads/gh-pages/_posts/2019-01-14-episode-140-should-i-apologize-for-my-bugs-after-i-quit-and-should-i-become-a-project-manager.md) - [Episode 139: How to deal with badmouthing and how to survive in a loud open office](https://raw.githubusercontent.com/soft-skills-engineering/website/refs/heads/gh-pages/_posts/2019-01-07-episode-139-how-to-deal-with-badmouthing-and-how-to-survive-in-a-loud-open-office.md) - [Episode 138: Should I ask for a raise before my annual review and how to keep up with young, single, overtime-working co-workers](https://raw.githubusercontent.com/soft-skills-engineering/website/refs/heads/gh-pages/_posts/2018-12-31-episode-138-should-i-ask-for-a-raise-before-my-annual-review-and-how-to-keep-up-with-young,-single,-overtime-working-co-workers.md) - [Episode 137: How to get answers to technical questions and Should managers also be technical](https://raw.githubusercontent.com/soft-skills-engineering/website/refs/heads/gh-pages/_posts/2018-12-24-episode-137-how-to-get-answers-to-technical-questions-and-should-managers-also-be-technical.md) - [Episode 136: My family thinks I'm over paid and Is a 10% raise good](https://raw.githubusercontent.com/soft-skills-engineering/website/refs/heads/gh-pages/_posts/2018-12-17-episode-136-my-family-thinks-i'm-over-paid-and-is-a-10%-raise-good.md) - [Episode 135: Publicly Correcting Speakers and Forced Into a Dev Role as a Product Manager](https://raw.githubusercontent.com/soft-skills-engineering/website/refs/heads/gh-pages/_posts/2018-12-10-episode-135-publicly-correcting-speakers-and-forced-into-a-dev-role-as-a-product-manager.md) - [Episode 134: Boredom vs Money and Agile vs Long-Term Schedules](https://raw.githubusercontent.com/soft-skills-engineering/website/refs/heads/gh-pages/_posts/2018-12-03-episode-134-boredom-vs-money-and-agile-vs-long-term-schedules.md) - [Episode 133: Herding Linter Cats and Surviving Until Severance Time](https://raw.githubusercontent.com/soft-skills-engineering/website/refs/heads/gh-pages/_posts/2018-11-19-episode-133-herding-linter-cats-and-surviving-until-severance-time.md) - [Episode 132: Should I tell my boss I'm planning to quit and keeping tech talks going](https://raw.githubusercontent.com/soft-skills-engineering/website/refs/heads/gh-pages/_posts/2018-11-12-episode-132-should-i-tell-my-boss-i'm-planning-to-quit-and-keeping-tech-talks-going.md) - [Episode 131: Coworkers with stinky feet and Was my salary expectation too high](https://raw.githubusercontent.com/soft-skills-engineering/website/refs/heads/gh-pages/_posts/2018-11-05-episode-131-coworkers-with-stinky-feet-and-was-my-salary-expectation-too-high.md) - [Episode 130 (rerun of episode 87): Stand up and fight! and Metrics](https://raw.githubusercontent.com/soft-skills-engineering/website/refs/heads/gh-pages/_posts/2018-10-29-episode-130-stand-up-and-fight!-and-metrics.md) - [Episode 129: Office romance and What to say during one-on-ones](https://raw.githubusercontent.com/soft-skills-engineering/website/refs/heads/gh-pages/_posts/2018-10-22-episode-129-office-romance-and-what-to-say-during-one-on-ones.md) - [Episode 128: Finish The Degree In Poverty? and Hiring Insecurity](https://raw.githubusercontent.com/soft-skills-engineering/website/refs/heads/gh-pages/_posts/2018-10-15-episode-128-finish-the-degree-in-poverty?-and-hiring-insecurity.md) - [Episode 127: Leaving a Job I Love and My Role Is Being Eroded](https://raw.githubusercontent.com/soft-skills-engineering/website/refs/heads/gh-pages/_posts/2018-10-08-episode-127-leaving-a-job-i-love-and-my-role-is-being-eroded.md) - [Episode 126: I'm underpaid and Game Industry Bonuses](https://raw.githubusercontent.com/soft-skills-engineering/website/refs/heads/gh-pages/_posts/2018-10-01-episode-126-i'm-underpaid-and-game-industry-bonuses.md) - [Episode 125: Brainstorming sessions and Slack Ettiquette](https://raw.githubusercontent.com/soft-skills-engineering/website/refs/heads/gh-pages/_posts/2018-09-24-episode-125-brainstorming-sessions-and-slack-ettiquette.md) - [Episode 124: Pair Programming Pain and Side Hustle CEO](https://raw.githubusercontent.com/soft-skills-engineering/website/refs/heads/gh-pages/_posts/2018-09-17-episode-124-pair-programming-pain-and-side-hustle-ceo.md) - [Episode 123: Salary Promise Fail and Slacker Coworkers](https://raw.githubusercontent.com/soft-skills-engineering/website/refs/heads/gh-pages/_posts/2018-09-10-episode-123-salary-promise-fail-and-slacker-coworkers.md) - [Episode 122: Too Much Process and Negotiating Salaries with Multiple Companies](https://raw.githubusercontent.com/soft-skills-engineering/website/refs/heads/gh-pages/_posts/2018-09-03-episode-122-too-much-process-and-negotiating-salaries-with-multiple-companies.md) - [Episode 121: Working Remotely Without Hating It and Managing Rotating Engineers](https://raw.githubusercontent.com/soft-skills-engineering/website/refs/heads/gh-pages/_posts/2018-08-27-episode-121-working-remote-without-hating-it-and-managing-rotating-engineers.md) - [Episode 120: Layoff Decisions and Overworking Peers](https://raw.githubusercontent.com/soft-skills-engineering/website/refs/heads/gh-pages/_posts/2018-08-20-episode-120-layoff-decisions-and-over-working-peers.md) - [Episode 119 (rerun of episode 77): My boss wants me to speak at conferences and how to get better than a 2% raise](https://raw.githubusercontent.com/soft-skills-engineering/website/refs/heads/gh-pages/_posts/2018-08-13-episode-119-rerun-episode-77-boss-wants-me-to-speak-and-getting-a-2-percent-raise.md) - [Episode 118: Asking For Help and Speaking Up](https://raw.githubusercontent.com/soft-skills-engineering/website/refs/heads/gh-pages/_posts/2018-07-30-episode-118-asking-for-help-and-speaking-up.md) - [Episode 117: Defense Industry Stigma and Responding to Negative Feedback](https://raw.githubusercontent.com/soft-skills-engineering/website/refs/heads/gh-pages/_posts/2018-07-23-episode-117-defense-industry-stigma-and-responding-to-negative-feedback.md) - [Episode 116: Weekend Warrioring and Reaching the End of the Career Ladder](https://raw.githubusercontent.com/soft-skills-engineering/website/refs/heads/gh-pages/_posts/2018-07-17-episode-116-weekend-warrior-and-reaching-the-end-of-the-career-ladder.md) - [Episode 115: Sharing Your Salary When You Leave and Hiring Decisions Overruled](https://raw.githubusercontent.com/soft-skills-engineering/website/refs/heads/gh-pages/_posts/2018-07-10-episode-115-sharing-salary-when-you-leave-and-hiring-decisions-overruled.md) - [Episode 114: Story Point Commitments and Measuring Productivity (Episode 79 Rerun)](https://raw.githubusercontent.com/soft-skills-engineering/website/refs/heads/gh-pages/_posts/2018-07-02-episode-114-story-points-and-measuring-productivity-rerun.md) - [Episode 113: Quitting Your First Job and Too Many Responsibilities](https://raw.githubusercontent.com/soft-skills-engineering/website/refs/heads/gh-pages/_posts/2018-06-25-episode-113-quitting-the-first-job-and-too-many-responsibilities.md) - [Episode 112: Disinterested Interviewing and Layoff Fallout](https://raw.githubusercontent.com/soft-skills-engineering/website/refs/heads/gh-pages/_posts/2018-06-18-episode-112-disinterested-interviewing-and-layoff-fallout.md) - [Episode 111: Dogma Rehab and Getting a Co-worker Fired](https://raw.githubusercontent.com/soft-skills-engineering/website/refs/heads/gh-pages/_posts/2018-06-12-episode-111-dogma-rehab-and-firing-a-coworker.md) - [Episode 110: Team Spirit and Half-hearted Recruiting](https://raw.githubusercontent.com/soft-skills-engineering/website/refs/heads/gh-pages/_posts/2018-06-04-episode-110-team-spirit-and-half-hearted-recruiting.md) - [Episode 109: Critical Junior Dev and Introducing New Tools](https://raw.githubusercontent.com/soft-skills-engineering/website/refs/heads/gh-pages/_posts/2018-05-29-episode-109-critical-junior-dev-and-introducing-new-tools.md) - [(Rerun) Episode 35: Attracting Talent and Quitting Responsibly](https://raw.githubusercontent.com/soft-skills-engineering/website/refs/heads/gh-pages/_posts/2018-05-21-rerun-episode-35-attracting-talent-and-quitting-without-burning-bridges.md) - [Episode 108: An Insecure Teammate and Disclosing Past Ratings](https://raw.githubusercontent.com/soft-skills-engineering/website/refs/heads/gh-pages/_posts/2018-05-13-episode-108-insecure-teammate-and-disclosing-past-ratings.md) - [(Rerun) Episode 40: Office Visibility and New Tech](https://raw.githubusercontent.com/soft-skills-engineering/website/refs/heads/gh-pages/_posts/2018-05-06-episode-40-rerun-office-visibility-and-new-tech.md) - [Episode 107: Silence After Interviews and Newsletter Politics](https://raw.githubusercontent.com/soft-skills-engineering/website/refs/heads/gh-pages/_posts/2018-04-29-episode-107-no-interview-feedback-and-newsletter-politics.md) - [Episode 106: Working From Home Without Rotting and Meetup Etiquette](https://raw.githubusercontent.com/soft-skills-engineering/website/refs/heads/gh-pages/_posts/2018-04-22-episode-106-working-from-home-without-rotting-and-meetup-etiquette.md) - [Episode 105: Interviewing for Management and Annoying Noises](https://raw.githubusercontent.com/soft-skills-engineering/website/refs/heads/gh-pages/_posts/2018-04-11-episode-105-interviews-with-vps-and-hiring-a-tester.md) - [Episode 104: Interviews With VPs and Hiring a Tester](https://raw.githubusercontent.com/soft-skills-engineering/website/refs/heads/gh-pages/_posts/2018-04-06-episode-104-interviews-with-vps-and-hiring-a-tester.md) - [Episode 103: Team Dynamics and Bad Code](https://raw.githubusercontent.com/soft-skills-engineering/website/refs/heads/gh-pages/_posts/2018-03-31-episode-103-team-dynamics-and-bad-code.md) - [Episode 102: Correcting English and Tyranny of the Urgent](https://raw.githubusercontent.com/soft-skills-engineering/website/refs/heads/gh-pages/_posts/2018-03-24-episode-102-correcting-english-and-tyranny-of-the-urgent.md) - [Episode 101: Style In Code Reviews and How To Thank My Manager](https://raw.githubusercontent.com/soft-skills-engineering/website/refs/heads/gh-pages/_posts/2018-03-17-episode-101-developer-health-and-whiteboard-interviews.md) - [Episode 99: Developer Health and Whiteboard Interviews](https://raw.githubusercontent.com/soft-skills-engineering/website/refs/heads/gh-pages/_posts/2018-03-09-episode-99-developer-health-and-whiteboard-interviews.md) - [Episode 98 (Rerun of Episode 57): Disliking Management and Difficult Co-workers](https://raw.githubusercontent.com/soft-skills-engineering/website/refs/heads/gh-pages/_posts/2018-03-02-episode-98-management-tasks-i-hate-and-difficult-co-workers.md) - [Episode 97: A Quiet Intern and Hearts and Guts](https://raw.githubusercontent.com/soft-skills-engineering/website/refs/heads/gh-pages/_posts/2018-02-22-episode-97-encouraging-quiet-devs-and-hearts-and-guts.md) - [Episode 96: Teaching Burden and Unknown Unknowns](https://raw.githubusercontent.com/soft-skills-engineering/website/refs/heads/gh-pages/_posts/2018-02-17-episode-96-too-much-time-teaching-and-asking-the-right-questions.md) - [Episode 95: Paying For Help and Scared of Recruiters](https://raw.githubusercontent.com/soft-skills-engineering/website/refs/heads/gh-pages/_posts/2018-02-08-episode-95-paying-for-help-and-scared-of-recruiters.md) - [Episode 94: Dodging Recommendations and Full Sleeve Tattoos](https://raw.githubusercontent.com/soft-skills-engineering/website/refs/heads/gh-pages/_posts/2018-02-03-episode-94-reluctant-recommendations-and-full-sleeve-tattoos.md) - [Episode 93: Negotiating Annual Raises and Part-Time Work](https://raw.githubusercontent.com/soft-skills-engineering/website/refs/heads/gh-pages/_posts/2018-01-27-episode-93-annual-raise-negotiation-and-part-time-work.md) - [Episode 92: Career Death by Friction and New Job Woes](https://raw.githubusercontent.com/soft-skills-engineering/website/refs/heads/gh-pages/_posts/2018-01-19-episode-92-career-death-by-friction-and-new-job-woes.md) - [Episode 91: Job Requirements and Teams of Misfits](https://raw.githubusercontent.com/soft-skills-engineering/website/refs/heads/gh-pages/_posts/2018-01-11-episode-91-job-requirements-and-teams-of-misfits.md) - [Episode 90: Upper Management Dislikes Me and Undeserved Job Offers](https://raw.githubusercontent.com/soft-skills-engineering/website/refs/heads/gh-pages/_posts/2018-01-05-episode-90-upset-bosses-and-undeserved-job-offers.md) - [Episode 89: Departed Engineers and Employment Contracts](https://raw.githubusercontent.com/soft-skills-engineering/website/refs/heads/gh-pages/_posts/2017-12-28-episode-89-departed-engineers-and-employment-contracts.md) - [Episode 88: How To Dress For Interviews and Learning To Interview](https://raw.githubusercontent.com/soft-skills-engineering/website/refs/heads/gh-pages/_posts/2017-12-22-episode-88-interview-dress-and-conducting-interviews.md) - [Episode 87: Pushover Coworkers and Productivity Metrics](https://raw.githubusercontent.com/soft-skills-engineering/website/refs/heads/gh-pages/_posts/2017-12-14-episode-87-pushover-coworkers-and-productivity-metrics.md) - [Episode 86: Sharing Salaries and Offensive Words](https://raw.githubusercontent.com/soft-skills-engineering/website/refs/heads/gh-pages/_posts/2017-12-07-episode-86-sharing-salaries-and-offensive-words.md) - [Episode 85: Annoying Know-it-alls and Company Headshots](https://raw.githubusercontent.com/soft-skills-engineering/website/refs/heads/gh-pages/_posts/2017-11-30-episode-85-annoying-know-it-alls-and-company-headshots.md) - [Episode 84: Shy Developers and Outsourced Architecture](https://raw.githubusercontent.com/soft-skills-engineering/website/refs/heads/gh-pages/_posts/2017-11-23-episode-84-shy-developers-and-outsourced-architecture.md) - [Episode 83: Gaps In The Resume and Moving To Business](https://raw.githubusercontent.com/soft-skills-engineering/website/refs/heads/gh-pages/_posts/2017-11-15-episode-83-resume-gaps-and-moving-to-business.md) - [Episode 82: Blow Ups and Job Security](https://raw.githubusercontent.com/soft-skills-engineering/website/refs/heads/gh-pages/_posts/2017-11-08-episode-82-blow-ups-and-job-security.md) - [Episode 81: Unwilling To Grow and Forced Out During Two Weeks Notice](https://raw.githubusercontent.com/soft-skills-engineering/website/refs/heads/gh-pages/_posts/2017-11-02-episode-81-helping-unwilling-developers-grow-and-forced-out-during-two-weeks-notice.md) - [Episode 80: New Team Leads and Constant Follow Up](https://raw.githubusercontent.com/soft-skills-engineering/website/refs/heads/gh-pages/_posts/2017-10-29-episode-80-becoming-team-lead-and-constant-follow-up.md) - [Episode 79: Story Point Misses and Measuring Productivity](https://raw.githubusercontent.com/soft-skills-engineering/website/refs/heads/gh-pages/_posts/2017-10-19-episode-79-story-points-and-developer-productivity.md) - [Episode 78: Endless Rewrites and Fake Deadlines](https://raw.githubusercontent.com/soft-skills-engineering/website/refs/heads/gh-pages/_posts/2017-10-13-episode-78-endless-rewrites-and-fake-deadlines.md) - [Episode 77: Boss Wants Me To Speak and The 2% Raise](https://raw.githubusercontent.com/soft-skills-engineering/website/refs/heads/gh-pages/_posts/2017-10-04-episode-77-new-speaking-and-the-2-percent-raise.md) - [Episode 76: Writing Goals and Firing Jokes](https://raw.githubusercontent.com/soft-skills-engineering/website/refs/heads/gh-pages/_posts/2017-09-25-episode-76-writing-goals-and-firing-jokes.md) - [Episode 75: Self-Promotion For Wallflowers and Moving in a Year](https://raw.githubusercontent.com/soft-skills-engineering/website/refs/heads/gh-pages/_posts/2017-09-19-episode-75-self-promotion-for-shy-people-and-moving-in-a-year.md) - [Episode 74: Switching Languages Without A Pay Cut and A Missed Negotiation](https://raw.githubusercontent.com/soft-skills-engineering/website/refs/heads/gh-pages/_posts/2017-09-08-episode-74-pay-cut-for-switching-languages-and-missed-negotiation.md) - [Episode 73: A Rampant Rewriter and Overexplainers](https://raw.githubusercontent.com/soft-skills-engineering/website/refs/heads/gh-pages/_posts/2017-08-31-episode-73-rampant-rewriters-and-overexplainers.md) - [Episode 72: The Micromanaging CEO and The Only Developer](https://raw.githubusercontent.com/soft-skills-engineering/website/refs/heads/gh-pages/_posts/2017-08-17-episode-72-micro-managing-ceo-and-the-only-developer.md) - [Episode 71: Informal Leadership and Dealing With Burnout](https://raw.githubusercontent.com/soft-skills-engineering/website/refs/heads/gh-pages/_posts/2017-08-14-episode-71-informal-leadership-and-dealing-with-burnout.md) - [Episode 70: Appraisal-Driven Development and Meeting Creep](https://raw.githubusercontent.com/soft-skills-engineering/website/refs/heads/gh-pages/_posts/2017-07-28-episode-70-appraisal-driven-and-meeting-creep.md) - [Episode 69: A Know-It-All Lead and Selling Your Boss on Remote Work](https://raw.githubusercontent.com/soft-skills-engineering/website/refs/heads/gh-pages/_posts/2017-07-21-episode-69-self-important-lead-and-going-remote.md) - [Episode 68: Paying Your Dues and Non-technical Hobbies](https://raw.githubusercontent.com/soft-skills-engineering/website/refs/heads/gh-pages/_posts/2017-07-13-episode-68-paying-your-dues-and-outside-hobbies.md) - [Episode 67: Graduate School and Asking Good Questions](https://raw.githubusercontent.com/soft-skills-engineering/website/refs/heads/gh-pages/_posts/2017-07-07-episode-67-grad-school-and-asking-good-questions.md) - [Episode 66: Nepotism and Minimum Junior Requirements](https://raw.githubusercontent.com/soft-skills-engineering/website/refs/heads/gh-pages/_posts/2017-06-29-episode-66-nepotism-and-how-bad-can-a-junior-be.md) - [Episode 65: Left In The Dust and Imposter Syndrome](https://raw.githubusercontent.com/soft-skills-engineering/website/refs/heads/gh-pages/_posts/2017-06-22-episode-65-left-in-the-dust-and-imposter-syndrome.md) - [Episode 64: Negative Peer Reviews and On Call](https://raw.githubusercontent.com/soft-skills-engineering/website/refs/heads/gh-pages/_posts/2017-06-15-episode-64-negative-peer-reviews-and-on-call.md) - [Episode 63: (Rerun) Management Snobs and Two Bosses](https://raw.githubusercontent.com/soft-skills-engineering/website/refs/heads/gh-pages/_posts/2017-06-08-episode-63-management-snobs-and-two-bosses.md) - [Episode 62: Many Meetings and Surviving an Acquisition](https://raw.githubusercontent.com/soft-skills-engineering/website/refs/heads/gh-pages/_posts/2017-05-31-episode-62-many-meetings-and-surviving-acquisition.md) - [Episode 61: Product Managers and Notifications](https://raw.githubusercontent.com/soft-skills-engineering/website/refs/heads/gh-pages/_posts/2017-05-25-episode-61-product-managers-and-notifications.md) - [Episode 60: Office Arrangements and Disarming A Code Owner](https://raw.githubusercontent.com/soft-skills-engineering/website/refs/heads/gh-pages/_posts/2017-05-17-episode-60-office-arrangements-and-disarming-code-owners.md) - [Episode 59: Buying Training and Unrelated Experience](https://raw.githubusercontent.com/soft-skills-engineering/website/refs/heads/gh-pages/_posts/2017-05-11-episode-59-buying-training-and-unrelated-experience.md) - [Episode 58: Dropping Out and Interview Prep (Rerun)](https://raw.githubusercontent.com/soft-skills-engineering/website/refs/heads/gh-pages/_posts/2017-05-02-episode-58-dropping-out-and-interview-prep.md) - [Episode 57: Disliking Management and Difficult Co-workers](https://raw.githubusercontent.com/soft-skills-engineering/website/refs/heads/gh-pages/_posts/2017-04-25-episode-57-management-tasks-i-hate-and-difficult-co-workers.md) - [Episode 56: Keeping Meetings On Track and Designer-centric Culture](https://raw.githubusercontent.com/soft-skills-engineering/website/refs/heads/gh-pages/_posts/2017-04-18-episode-56-meetings-on-track-and-designer-centric-culture.md) - [Episode 55: Ng-Conf Live Episode](https://raw.githubusercontent.com/soft-skills-engineering/website/refs/heads/gh-pages/_posts/2017-04-11-episode-55-ng-conf-live-episode.md) - [Episode 54: Sneaky Contractors and Job Titles](https://raw.githubusercontent.com/soft-skills-engineering/website/refs/heads/gh-pages/_posts/2017-04-04-episode-54-sneaky-contractors-and-job-title-growth.md) - [Episode 53: Bait and Switch and Informing Your Manager](https://raw.githubusercontent.com/soft-skills-engineering/website/refs/heads/gh-pages/_posts/2017-03-29-episode-53-bait-and-switch-and-telling-managers-about-moving-to-management.md) - [Episode 52: Slowness Guilt and I Have No Side Projects](https://raw.githubusercontent.com/soft-skills-engineering/website/refs/heads/gh-pages/_posts/2017-03-21-episode-52-slowness-guilt-and-no-side-projects.md) - [Episode 51: Junior Scrum Master In Trouble And Jamison Has No Degree](https://raw.githubusercontent.com/soft-skills-engineering/website/refs/heads/gh-pages/_posts/2017-03-15-episode-51-junior-scrum-master-in-trouble-and-jamison-has-no-degree.md) - [Episode 50: I Didn't Quit and Manager of Zero People](https://raw.githubusercontent.com/soft-skills-engineering/website/refs/heads/gh-pages/_posts/2017-03-07-episode-50-help-i-didnt-quit-and-manager-of-no-one.md) - [Episode 49: Candidate Plagiarism and a Tightwad Employer](https://raw.githubusercontent.com/soft-skills-engineering/website/refs/heads/gh-pages/_posts/2017-02-28-episode-49-candidate-plagarism-and-tightwad-employer.md) - [Episode 48: Quitting a Death March & Am I Underpaid](https://raw.githubusercontent.com/soft-skills-engineering/website/refs/heads/gh-pages/_posts/2017-02-21-episode-48-quitting-a-death-march-and-discovering-if-im-underpaid.md) - [Episode 47: Speaking Up In A New Job and Personal Issues](https://raw.githubusercontent.com/soft-skills-engineering/website/refs/heads/gh-pages/_posts/2017-02-14-episode-47-speaking-up-and-personal-issues.md) - [Episode 46: My New Crappy Job and Youth vs the Status Quo](https://raw.githubusercontent.com/soft-skills-engineering/website/refs/heads/gh-pages/_posts/2017-02-07-episode-46-new-crappy-job-and-youth-vs-status-quo.md) - [Episode 45: RAPID FIRE and Micromanagers](https://raw.githubusercontent.com/soft-skills-engineering/website/refs/heads/gh-pages/_posts/2017-01-30-episode-45-RAPID-FIRE-and-micromanagers.md) - [Episode 44: Discussing Firing and Writing Job Postings](https://raw.githubusercontent.com/soft-skills-engineering/website/refs/heads/gh-pages/_posts/2017-01-25-episode-44-discussing-firings-and-writing-job-postings.md) - [Episode 43: Internship Costs and CS Interview Questions](https://raw.githubusercontent.com/soft-skills-engineering/website/refs/heads/gh-pages/_posts/2017-01-16-episode-43-cost-of-internships-and-cs-interview-questions.md) - [Episode 42: Bootcamp Job Hopping and Cultural Reliability](https://raw.githubusercontent.com/soft-skills-engineering/website/refs/heads/gh-pages/_posts/2017-01-02-episode-42-job-hopping-and-cultural-reliability.md) - [Episode 41: Management Snobs and Two Bosses](https://raw.githubusercontent.com/soft-skills-engineering/website/refs/heads/gh-pages/_posts/2016-12-28-episode-41-management-snobs-and-two-bosses.md) - [Episode 40: Office Visibility and New Tech](https://raw.githubusercontent.com/soft-skills-engineering/website/refs/heads/gh-pages/_posts/2016-12-21-episode-40-office-visibility-and-new-tech.md) - [Episode 39: Brilliant Jerks and One on Ones](https://raw.githubusercontent.com/soft-skills-engineering/website/refs/heads/gh-pages/_posts/2016-12-13-episode-39-jerk-coworker-and-one-on-ones.md) - [Episode 38: Going Over Heads and Firing Just After Hiring](https://raw.githubusercontent.com/soft-skills-engineering/website/refs/heads/gh-pages/_posts/2016-12-06-episode-38-going-over-someones-head-and-firing-after-just-hiring.md) - [Episode 37: VC Funding and Internal Presentations](https://raw.githubusercontent.com/soft-skills-engineering/website/refs/heads/gh-pages/_posts/2016-11-29-episode-37-vc-funding-and-internal-presentations.md) - [Episode 36: Unlimited Vacation and Enforcing Best Practices](https://raw.githubusercontent.com/soft-skills-engineering/website/refs/heads/gh-pages/_posts/2016-11-21-episode-36-unlimited-pto-and-enforcing-best-practices.md) - [Episode 35: Attracting Talent and Quitting Responsibly](https://raw.githubusercontent.com/soft-skills-engineering/website/refs/heads/gh-pages/_posts/2016-11-15-episode-35-attracting-talent-and-quitting-without-burning-bridges.md) - [Episode 34: Do Certifications Help and How Can I Avoid Avoidance?](https://raw.githubusercontent.com/soft-skills-engineering/website/refs/heads/gh-pages/_posts/2016-11-07-episode-34-certifications-and-avoidance.md) - [Episode 33: Damaging Your Credibility and Meeting Potential Employers In School](https://raw.githubusercontent.com/soft-skills-engineering/website/refs/heads/gh-pages/_posts/2016-10-31-episode-33-damaging-your-credibility-and-meeting-employers-in-school.md) - [Episode 32: Why Would You Do Contracting?](https://raw.githubusercontent.com/soft-skills-engineering/website/refs/heads/gh-pages/_posts/2016-10-26-episode-32-why-do-contracting.md) - [Episode 31: Going In To Management and Knowing If A Job Is Worth Applying To](https://raw.githubusercontent.com/soft-skills-engineering/website/refs/heads/gh-pages/_posts/2016-10-17-episode-31-management-and-knowing-if-a-job.md) - [Episode 30: Reaching Consensus and Code Editing Etiquette](https://raw.githubusercontent.com/soft-skills-engineering/website/refs/heads/gh-pages/_posts/2016-10-10-episode-30-consensus-and-code-eiditing-etiquette.md) - [Episode 29: What Should I Do When Starting A New Job?](https://raw.githubusercontent.com/soft-skills-engineering/website/refs/heads/gh-pages/_posts/2016-10-06-episode-29-starting-a-new-job.md) - [Episode 28: How Long Should I Stay At My Job and How Do I Help Junior Developers Improve](https://raw.githubusercontent.com/soft-skills-engineering/website/refs/heads/gh-pages/_posts/2016-09-26-episode-28-tenure-and-helping-junior-developers.md) - [Episode 27: Writing Great Resumes and Pushing Back on Non-Engineering Tasks](https://raw.githubusercontent.com/soft-skills-engineering/website/refs/heads/gh-pages/_posts/2016-09-19-episode-27-resumes-and-non-engineering-tasks.md) - [Episode 26: Communicate Your Efforts and I Told You So](https://raw.githubusercontent.com/soft-skills-engineering/website/refs/heads/gh-pages/_posts/2016-09-12-episode-26-communicate-your-efforts-and-i-told-you-so.md) - [Episode 25: Understanding the Business and Managing Without Being a Developer](https://raw.githubusercontent.com/soft-skills-engineering/website/refs/heads/gh-pages/_posts/2016-09-05-episode-25-business-things-and-managing.md) - [Episode 24: Should I be a generalist or specialist developer?](https://raw.githubusercontent.com/soft-skills-engineering/website/refs/heads/gh-pages/_posts/2016-08-29-episode-24-generalist-vs-specialist.md) - [Episode 23: Joining a startup as a CTO and asking for a raise](https://raw.githubusercontent.com/soft-skills-engineering/website/refs/heads/gh-pages/_posts/2016-08-22-episode-23-cto-questions-and-getting-a-raise.md) - [Episode 22: Health insurance and contributing to open source projects](https://raw.githubusercontent.com/soft-skills-engineering/website/refs/heads/gh-pages/_posts/2016-08-15-episode-22-health-insurance-and-open-source.md) - [Episode 21: Giving work to interns and dealing with "dead weight" developers](https://raw.githubusercontent.com/soft-skills-engineering/website/refs/heads/gh-pages/_posts/2016-08-08-episode-21-interns-and-dead-weight.md) - [Episode 20: Stories from people who got fired and doing effective code reviews](https://raw.githubusercontent.com/soft-skills-engineering/website/refs/heads/gh-pages/_posts/2016-08-01-episode-20-stories-from-people-who-got-fired-and-doing-effective-code-reviews.md) - [Episode 19: Firing someone for a coding mistake and getting demoted](https://raw.githubusercontent.com/soft-skills-engineering/website/refs/heads/gh-pages/_posts/2016-07-25-episode-19-firing-someone-for-a-coding-mistake-and-getting-demoted.md) - [Episode 18: Dropping out of college and preparing for interviews](https://raw.githubusercontent.com/soft-skills-engineering/website/refs/heads/gh-pages/_posts/2016-07-18-episode-18-dropping-out-of-college-and-preparing-for-interviews.md) - [Episode 17: Side project ideas and getting fired](https://raw.githubusercontent.com/soft-skills-engineering/website/refs/heads/gh-pages/_posts/2016-07-04-episode-17-side-project-ideas-and-getting-fired.md) - [Episode 16: Dealing with recruiters and learning new things without frustration](https://raw.githubusercontent.com/soft-skills-engineering/website/refs/heads/gh-pages/_posts/2016-06-27-episode-16-dealing-with-recruiters-and-learning-new-things-without-frustration.md) - [Episode 15: Working with non-technical people and keeping up with the latest technology (with Brad Green)](https://raw.githubusercontent.com/soft-skills-engineering/website/refs/heads/gh-pages/_posts/2016-06-20-episode-15-working-with-non-technical-people-and-keeping-up-with-the-latest-tech.md) - [Episode 14: Web developer prejudice and legacy code](https://raw.githubusercontent.com/soft-skills-engineering/website/refs/heads/gh-pages/_posts/2016-06-07-episode-14-web-developer-prejudice-and-legacy-code.md) - [Episode 13: Dealing with a 'yes' boss and the difference between contract and permanent positions](https://raw.githubusercontent.com/soft-skills-engineering/website/refs/heads/gh-pages/_posts/2016-05-30-episode-13-dealing-with-a-yes-boss-and-the-difference-between-contract-and-perma.md) - [Episode 12: Making friends at work and how to be good at being managed](https://raw.githubusercontent.com/soft-skills-engineering/website/refs/heads/gh-pages/_posts/2016-05-23-episode-12-making-friends-at-work-and-how-to-be-good-at-being-managed.md) - [Episode 11: Negotiating offers and dealing with an oblivious boss](https://raw.githubusercontent.com/soft-skills-engineering/website/refs/heads/gh-pages/_posts/2016-05-16-episode-11-negotiating-offers-and-dealing-with-an-oblivious-boss.md) - [Episode 10: Mentors and Stock Options](https://raw.githubusercontent.com/soft-skills-engineering/website/refs/heads/gh-pages/_posts/2016-05-09-episode-10-mentors-and-stock-options.md) - [Episode 9: Deadlines and Titles](https://raw.githubusercontent.com/soft-skills-engineering/website/refs/heads/gh-pages/_posts/2016-05-02-episode-9-deadlines-and-titles.md) - [Episode 8: Work life balance and on-boarding new engineers](https://raw.githubusercontent.com/soft-skills-engineering/website/refs/heads/gh-pages/_posts/2016-04-25-episode-8-work-life-balance-and-on-boarding-new-engineers.md) - [Episode 7: Finding meaning and quitting your job](https://raw.githubusercontent.com/soft-skills-engineering/website/refs/heads/gh-pages/_posts/2016-04-18-episode-7-finding-meaning-and-quitting-your-job.md) - [Episode 6: Speaking at Conferences](https://raw.githubusercontent.com/soft-skills-engineering/website/refs/heads/gh-pages/_posts/2016-04-11-episode-6-speaking-at-conferences.md) - [Episode 5: Developer Compensation](https://raw.githubusercontent.com/soft-skills-engineering/website/refs/heads/gh-pages/_posts/2016-04-04-episode-5-developer-compensation.md) - [Episode 4: Should I build my personal brand?](https://raw.githubusercontent.com/soft-skills-engineering/website/refs/heads/gh-pages/_posts/2016-03-31-episode-4-should-i-build-my-personal-brand.md) - [Episode 3: What to look for in a dev team](https://raw.githubusercontent.com/soft-skills-engineering/website/refs/heads/gh-pages/_posts/2016-03-21-episode-3-what-to-look-for-in-a-dev-team.md) - [Episode 2: Influencing your team and dealing with anger](https://raw.githubusercontent.com/soft-skills-engineering/website/refs/heads/gh-pages/_posts/2016-03-14-episode-2-influencing-your-team-and-dealing-with-anger.md) - [Episode 1: Startup Opportunities and Switching Jobs](https://raw.githubusercontent.com/soft-skills-engineering/website/refs/heads/gh-pages/_posts/2016-03-07-episode-1-startup-opportunities-and-switching-jobs.md) g