# Soft Skills Engineering > It takes more than great code to be a great engineer. Soft Skills Engineering is a weekly advice podcast for software developers about the non-technical stuff that goes into being a great software developer. Hosts Dave Smith and Jamison Dance answer listener questions about pay raises, promotions, hiring and firing, technical leadership, management, quitting, code review etiquette, coworkers, and career growth. Hosted by Dave Smith and Jamison Dance. Published weekly since March 2016. Every episode page contains the full text of the listener questions answered in that episode. ## Key pages - [All episodes](https://softskills.audio/episodes/): complete chronological archive of every episode - [Episodes by topic](https://softskills.audio/topics/): every episode grouped by subject - [Getting Promoted as a Software Engineer](https://softskills.audio/topics/getting-promoted/) - [Salary, Raises and Negotiation for Developers](https://softskills.audio/topics/salary-and-raises/) - [Quitting Your Job as a Software Engineer](https://softskills.audio/topics/quitting-your-job/) - [Interviewing and Job Hunting for Engineers](https://softskills.audio/topics/interviewing-and-job-hunting/) - [Working With Your Manager](https://softskills.audio/topics/working-with-your-manager/) - [Dealing With Difficult Coworkers](https://softskills.audio/topics/difficult-coworkers/) - [Advice for Junior and New Software Developers](https://softskills.audio/topics/new-developers/) - [Remote Work, Meetings and Focus](https://softskills.audio/topics/remote-work-and-meetings/) - [Burnout, Stress and Work-Life Balance](https://softskills.audio/topics/burnout-and-work-life-balance/) - [Layoffs, PIPs and Job Security](https://softskills.audio/topics/layoffs-and-job-security/) - [Technical Leadership and Influence](https://softskills.audio/topics/technical-leadership/) - [AI, LLMs and Software Engineering Careers](https://softskills.audio/topics/ai-and-llms/) - [Performance Reviews and Feedback for Engineers](https://softskills.audio/topics/performance-reviews-and-feedback/) - [Estimates, Deadlines and Agile Process](https://softskills.audio/topics/estimates-and-deadlines/) - [Learning, Skills and Staying Current](https://softskills.audio/topics/learning-and-staying-current/) - [Code Quality, Code Review and Tech Debt](https://softskills.audio/topics/code-quality-and-tech-debt/) - [Personal Brand, Speaking and Side Projects](https://softskills.audio/topics/personal-brand-and-speaking/) - [Contracting, Consulting and Freelance Engineering](https://softskills.audio/topics/contracting-and-consulting/) - [Startups vs Big Tech for Software Engineers](https://softskills.audio/topics/startups-and-big-tech/) - [Communication Skills for Software Engineers](https://softskills.audio/topics/communication-at-work/) - [Community favorites](https://softskills.audio/favorites/): the episodes listeners recommend most - [Meet the hosts](https://softskills.audio/meet-the-hosts/): about Dave Smith and Jamison Dance - [Ask a question](https://softskills.audio/ask/): submit a question for the show - [Subscribe](https://softskills.audio/subscribe/): where to listen - [RSS feed](https://softskills.audio/feed.xml): podcast feed with every episode and its questions ## All episodes Each entry links to the episode page on softskills.audio, followed by the raw Markdown source. - [Episode 531: Shallow feedback and my coworker is a huge sloperator](https://softskills.audio/2026/09/21/episode-531-shallow-feedback-and-my-coworker-is-a-huge-sloperator/) — 2026-09-21 — [Markdown](https://raw.githubusercontent.com/soft-skills-engineering/website/refs/heads/gh-pages/_posts/2026-09-21-episode-531-shallow-feedback-and-my-coworker-is-a-huge-sloperator.md) - [Episode 530: Product engineering and why does my team never challenge my ideas?](https://softskills.audio/2026/09/14/episode-530-product-engineering-and-why-does-my-team-never-challenge-my-ideas/) — 2026-09-14 — [Markdown](https://raw.githubusercontent.com/soft-skills-engineering/website/refs/heads/gh-pages/_posts/2026-09-14-episode-530-product-engineering-and-why-does-my-team-never-challenge-my-ideas?.md) - [Episode 529: Zoom calls on my open floor plan and laconic staff engineer](https://softskills.audio/2026/09/07/episode-529-zoom-calls-on-my-open-floor-plan-and-laconic-staff-engineer/) — 2026-09-07 — [Markdown](https://raw.githubusercontent.com/soft-skills-engineering/website/refs/heads/gh-pages/_posts/2026-09-07-episode-529-zoom-calls-on-my-open-floor-plan-and-laconic-staff-engineer.md) - [Episode 528: Sleepy family software business and leaving after an acquisition](https://softskills.audio/2026/08/31/episode-528-sleepy-family-software-business-and-leaving-after-an-acquisition/) — 2026-08-31 — [Markdown](https://raw.githubusercontent.com/soft-skills-engineering/website/refs/heads/gh-pages/_posts/2026-08-31-episode-528-sleepy-family-software-business-and-leaving-after-an-acquisition.md) - [Episode 527: I lost my job after 10 years and am I too old to switch to a security career?](https://softskills.audio/2026/08/24/episode-527-i-lost-my-job-after-10-years-and-am-i-too-old-to-switch-to-a-security-career/) — 2026-08-24 — [Markdown](https://raw.githubusercontent.com/soft-skills-engineering/website/refs/heads/gh-pages/_posts/2026-08-24-episode-527-i-lost-my-job-after-10-years-and-am-i-too-old-to-switch-to-a-security-career?.md) - [Episode 526: Why can't I get promoted so quickly after my last promotion and I got hired as a software engineer but ended up doing ops](https://softskills.audio/2026/08/17/episode-526-why-can't-i-get-promoted-so-quickly-after-my-last-promotion-and-i-got-hired-as-a-software-engineer-but-ended-up-doing-ops/) — 2026-08-17 — [Markdown](https://raw.githubusercontent.com/soft-skills-engineering/website/refs/heads/gh-pages/_posts/2026-08-17-episode-526-why-can't-i-get-promoted-so-quickly-after-my-last-promotion-and-i-got-hired-as-a-software-engineer-but-ended-up-doing-ops.md) - [Episode 525: How do I save my company of 500 people and my new company is insane with AI](https://softskills.audio/2026/08/10/episode-525-how-do-i-save-my-company-of-500-people-and-my-new-company-is-insane-with-ai/) — 2026-08-10 — [Markdown](https://raw.githubusercontent.com/soft-skills-engineering/website/refs/heads/gh-pages/_posts/2026-08-10-episode-525-how-do-i-save-my-company-of-500-people-and-my-new-company-is-insane-with-ai.md) - [Episode 524: My CTO AI-codes big piles of slop and early mornings, late meetings](https://softskills.audio/2026/08/03/episode-524-my-cto-ai-codes-big-piles-of-slop-and-early-mornings,-late-meetings/) — 2026-08-03 — [Markdown](https://raw.githubusercontent.com/soft-skills-engineering/website/refs/heads/gh-pages/_posts/2026-08-03-episode-524-my-cto-ai-codes-big-piles-of-slop-and-early-mornings,-late-meetings.md) - [Episode 523: (Rerun of 331) Prickly ticket and title downgrade](https://softskills.audio/2026/07/27/episode-523-rerun-of-331-prickly-ticket-and-title-downgrade/) — 2026-07-27 — [Markdown](https://raw.githubusercontent.com/soft-skills-engineering/website/refs/heads/gh-pages/_posts/2026-07-27-episode-523-rerun-of-331-prickly-ticket-and-title-downgrade.md) - [Episode 522: I stayed too long at my first job and should I get a masters degree](https://softskills.audio/2026/07/20/episode-522-i-stayed-too-long-at-my-first-job-and-should-i-get-a-masters-degree/) — 2026-07-20 — [Markdown](https://raw.githubusercontent.com/soft-skills-engineering/website/refs/heads/gh-pages/_posts/2026-07-20-episode-522-i-stayed-too-long-at-my-first-job-and-should-i-get-a-masters-degree.md) - [Episode 521: negotiating . . . now? and doing good work is not enough for promotion?](https://softskills.audio/2026/07/13/episode-521-negotiating-.-.-.-now-and-doing-good-work-is-not-enough-for-promotion/) — 2026-07-13 — [Markdown](https://raw.githubusercontent.com/soft-skills-engineering/website/refs/heads/gh-pages/_posts/2026-07-13-episode-521-negotiating-.-.-.-now?-and-doing-good-work-is-not-enough-for-promotion?.md) - [Episode 520: I came back to my former team and was shocked by AI and my team does not care at ALL about the code](https://softskills.audio/2026/07/06/episode-520-i-came-back-to-my-former-team-and-was-shocked-by-ai-and-my-team-does-not-care-at-all-about-the-code/) — 2026-07-06 — [Markdown](https://raw.githubusercontent.com/soft-skills-engineering/website/refs/heads/gh-pages/_posts/2026-07-06-episode-520-i-came-back-to-my-former-team-and-was-shocked-by-ai-and-my-team-does-not-care-at-all-about-the-code.md) - [Episode 519: Why does my team not have a tech lead and rumors!](https://softskills.audio/2026/06/29/episode-519-why-does-my-team-not-have-a-tech-lead-and-rumors!/) — 2026-06-29 — [Markdown](https://raw.githubusercontent.com/soft-skills-engineering/website/refs/heads/gh-pages/_posts/2026-06-29-episode-519-why-does-my-team-not-have-a-tech-lead-and-rumors!.md) - [Episode 518: stuck at startup and is my employer mistreating me because I'm on a visa?](https://softskills.audio/2026/06/22/episode-518-stuck-at-startup-and-is-my-employer-mistreating-me-because-i'm-on-a-visa/) — 2026-06-22 — [Markdown](https://raw.githubusercontent.com/soft-skills-engineering/website/refs/heads/gh-pages/_posts/2026-06-22-episode-518-stuck-at-startup-and-is-my-employer-mistreating-me-because-i'm-on-a-visa?.md) - [Episode 517: Is it good for my career to work at a SaaS company and why am I being asked to manage two teams?](https://softskills.audio/2026/06/15/episode-517-is-it-good-for-my-career-to-work-at-a-saas-company-and-why-am-i-being-asked-to-manage-two-teams/) — 2026-06-15 — [Markdown](https://raw.githubusercontent.com/soft-skills-engineering/website/refs/heads/gh-pages/_posts/2026-06-15-episode-517-is-it-good-for-my-career-to-work-at-a-saas-company-and-why-am-i-being-asked-to-manage-two-teams?.md) - [Episode 516: Not a baby and my product manager doesn't know the product](https://softskills.audio/2026/06/08/episode-516-not-a-baby-and-my-product-manager-doesn't-know-the-product/) — 2026-06-08 — [Markdown](https://raw.githubusercontent.com/soft-skills-engineering/website/refs/heads/gh-pages/_posts/2026-06-08-episode-516-not-a-baby-and-my-product-manager-doesn't-know-the-product.md) - [Episode 515: My junior team member won't listen to me and will I be the dumbest employee at a quantum computer company?](https://softskills.audio/2026/06/01/episode-515-my-junior-team-member-won't-listen-to-me-and-will-i-be-the-dumbest-employee-at-a-quantum-computer-company/) — 2026-06-01 — [Markdown](https://raw.githubusercontent.com/soft-skills-engineering/website/refs/heads/gh-pages/_posts/2026-06-01-episode-515-my-junior-team-member-won't-listen-to-me-and-will-i-be-the-dumbest-employee-at-a-quantum-computer-company?.md) - [Episode 514: Trust issues and underperformers and my coworker resents me for being faster](https://softskills.audio/2026/05/25/episode-514-trust-issues-and-underperformers-and-my-coworker-resents-me-for-being-faster/) — 2026-05-25 — [Markdown](https://raw.githubusercontent.com/soft-skills-engineering/website/refs/heads/gh-pages/_posts/2026-05-25-episode-514-trust-issues-and-underperformers-and-my-coworker-resents-me-for-being-faster.md) - [Episode 513: Forgotten employee and what skills actually matter in the AI world](https://softskills.audio/2026/05/18/episode-513-forgotten-employee-and-what-skills-actually-matter-in-the-ai-world/) — 2026-05-18 — [Markdown](https://raw.githubusercontent.com/soft-skills-engineering/website/refs/heads/gh-pages/_posts/2026-05-18-episode-513-forgotten-employee-and-what-skills-actually-matter-in-the-ai-world.md) - [Episode 512: Can non-engineers really contribute code with AI and not sharing](https://softskills.audio/2026/05/11/episode-512-can-non-engineers-really-contribute-code-with-ai-and-not-sharing/) — 2026-05-11 — [Markdown](https://raw.githubusercontent.com/soft-skills-engineering/website/refs/heads/gh-pages/_posts/2026-05-11-episode-512-can-non-engineers-really-contribute-code-with-ai-and-not-sharing.md) - [Episode 511: Should I take a temporary management position and performance-based bonuses](https://softskills.audio/2026/05/04/episode-511-should-i-take-a-temporary-management-position-and-performance-based-bonuses/) — 2026-05-04 — [Markdown](https://raw.githubusercontent.com/soft-skills-engineering/website/refs/heads/gh-pages/_posts/2026-05-04-episode-511-should-i-take-a-temporary-management-position-and-performance-based-bonuses.md) - [Episode 510: Old and behind and how do I hang on for the last few years until retirement?](https://softskills.audio/2026/04/27/episode-510-old-and-behind-and-how-do-i-hang-on-for-the-last-few-years-until-retirement/) — 2026-04-27 — [Markdown](https://raw.githubusercontent.com/soft-skills-engineering/website/refs/heads/gh-pages/_posts/2026-04-27-episode-510-old-and-behind-and-how-do-i-hang-on-for-the-last-few-years-until-retirement?.md) - [Episode 509: I hate AI software dev, so should I become a manager and leading, not doing](https://softskills.audio/2026/04/20/episode-509-i-hate-ai-software-dev,-so-should-i-become-a-manager-and-leading,-not-doing/) — 2026-04-20 — [Markdown](https://raw.githubusercontent.com/soft-skills-engineering/website/refs/heads/gh-pages/_posts/2026-04-20-episode-509-i-hate-ai-software-dev,-so-should-i-become-a-manager-and-leading,-not-doing.md) - [Episode 508: My company is an unethical spammer and my coworkers take so much sick time](https://softskills.audio/2026/04/13/episode-508-my-company-is-an-unethical-spammer-and-my-coworkers-take-so-much-sick-time/) — 2026-04-13 — [Markdown](https://raw.githubusercontent.com/soft-skills-engineering/website/refs/heads/gh-pages/_posts/2026-04-13-episode-508-my-company-is-an-unethical-spammer-and-my-coworkers-take-so-much-sick-time.md) - [Episode 507: I got fired unexpectedly and breadth and depth](https://softskills.audio/2026/04/06/episode-507-i-got-fired-unexpectedly-and-breadth-and-depth/) — 2026-04-06 — [Markdown](https://raw.githubusercontent.com/soft-skills-engineering/website/refs/heads/gh-pages/_posts/2026-04-06-episode-507-i-got-fired-unexpectedly-and-breadth-and-depth.md) - [Episode 506: I hate my job with AI and my team-mate thinks I suck](https://softskills.audio/2026/03/30/episode-506-i-hate-my-job-with-ai-and-my-team-mate-thinks-i-suck/) — 2026-03-30 — [Markdown](https://raw.githubusercontent.com/soft-skills-engineering/website/refs/heads/gh-pages/_posts/2026-03-30-episode-506-i-hate-my-job-with-ai-and-my-team-mate-thinks-i-suck.md) - [Episode 505: Called to the principal's office and my team leads are super dogmatic](https://softskills.audio/2026/03/23/episode-505-called-to-the-principal's-office-and-my-team-leads-are-super-dogmatic/) — 2026-03-23 — [Markdown](https://raw.githubusercontent.com/soft-skills-engineering/website/refs/heads/gh-pages/_posts/2026-03-23-episode-505-called-to-the-principal's-office-and-my-team-leads-are-super-dogmatic.md) - [Episode 504: Should I quit my AI job before my first day and professional button-clicker](https://softskills.audio/2026/03/16/episode-504-should-i-quit-my-ai-job-before-my-first-day-and-professional-button-clicker/) — 2026-03-16 — [Markdown](https://raw.githubusercontent.com/soft-skills-engineering/website/refs/heads/gh-pages/_posts/2026-03-16-episode-504-should-i-quit-my-ai-job-before-my-first-day-and-professional-button-clicker.md) - [Episode 503: Hardware is hard and my PMs are pushing AI slop code](https://softskills.audio/2026/03/09/episode-503-hardware-is-hard-and-my-pms-are-pushing-ai-slop-code/) — 2026-03-09 — [Markdown](https://raw.githubusercontent.com/soft-skills-engineering/website/refs/heads/gh-pages/_posts/2026-03-09-episode-503-hardware-is-hard-and-my-pms-are-pushing-ai-slop-code.md) - [Episode 502: Management keeps leaving and I hate using AI to code](https://softskills.audio/2026/03/02/episode-502-management-keeps-leaving-and-i-hate-using-ai-to-code/) — 2026-03-02 — [Markdown](https://raw.githubusercontent.com/soft-skills-engineering/website/refs/heads/gh-pages/_posts/2026-03-02-episode-502-management-keeps-leaving-and-i-hate-using-ai-to-code.md) - [Episode 501: Vibecoding CEO and doing to teaching](https://softskills.audio/2026/02/23/episode-501-vibecoding-ceo-and-doing-to-teaching/) — 2026-02-23 — [Markdown](https://raw.githubusercontent.com/soft-skills-engineering/website/refs/heads/gh-pages/_posts/2026-02-23-episode-501-vibecoding-ceo-and-doing-to-teaching.md) - [Episode 500: Am I the only one not getting raises and firing my whole team](https://softskills.audio/2026/02/16/episode-500-am-i-the-only-one-not-getting-raises-and-firing-my-whole-team/) — 2026-02-16 — [Markdown](https://raw.githubusercontent.com/soft-skills-engineering/website/refs/heads/gh-pages/_posts/2026-02-16-episode-500-am-i-the-only-one-not-getting-raises-and-firing-my-whole-team.md) - [Episode 499: Should I quit my solo dev job with a sports team and senile seniors](https://softskills.audio/2026/02/09/episode-499-should-i-quit-my-solo-dev-job-with-a-sports-team-and-senile-seniors/) — 2026-02-09 — [Markdown](https://raw.githubusercontent.com/soft-skills-engineering/website/refs/heads/gh-pages/_posts/2026-02-09-episode-499-should-i-quit-my-solo-dev-job-with-a-sports-team-and-senile-seniors.md) - [Episode 498: Testing in big corporations and how to get my first management job](https://softskills.audio/2026/02/02/episode-498-testing-in-big-corporations-and-how-to-get-my-first-management-job/) — 2026-02-02 — [Markdown](https://raw.githubusercontent.com/soft-skills-engineering/website/refs/heads/gh-pages/_posts/2026-02-02-episode-498-testing-in-big-corporations-and-how-to-get-my-first-management-job.md) - [Episode 497: Patronizing perf reviews and can't get anything done as a tech lead](https://softskills.audio/2026/01/26/episode-497-patronizing-perf-reviews-and-can't-get-anything-done-as-a-tech-lead/) — 2026-01-26 — [Markdown](https://raw.githubusercontent.com/soft-skills-engineering/website/refs/heads/gh-pages/_posts/2026-01-26-episode-497-patronizing-perf-reviews-and-can't-get-anything-done-as-a-tech-lead.md) - [Episode 496: Passing non-technical interviews and my internship with only other interns](https://softskills.audio/2026/01/19/episode-496-passing-non-technical-interviews-and-my-internship-with-only-other-interns/) — 2026-01-19 — [Markdown](https://raw.githubusercontent.com/soft-skills-engineering/website/refs/heads/gh-pages/_posts/2026-01-19-episode-496-passing-non-technical-interviews-and-my-internship-with-only-other-interns.md) - [Episode 495: What to do when my boss quits and moving to Romania?](https://softskills.audio/2026/01/12/episode-495-what-to-do-when-my-boss-quits-and-moving-to-romania/) — 2026-01-12 — [Markdown](https://raw.githubusercontent.com/soft-skills-engineering/website/refs/heads/gh-pages/_posts/2026-01-12-episode-495-what-to-do-when-my-boss-quits-and-moving-to-romania?.md) - [Episode 494: Am I interviewing all wrong and leaving old team chats](https://softskills.audio/2026/01/05/episode-494-am-i-interviewing-all-wrong-and-leaving-old-team-chats/) — 2026-01-05 — [Markdown](https://raw.githubusercontent.com/soft-skills-engineering/website/refs/heads/gh-pages/_posts/2026-01-05-episode-494-am-i-interviewing-all-wrong-and-leaving-old-team-chats.md) - [Episode 493: My boss one-ups my negativity and football engineering](https://softskills.audio/2025/12/29/episode-493-my-boss-one-ups-my-negativity-and-football-engineering/) — 2025-12-29 — [Markdown](https://raw.githubusercontent.com/soft-skills-engineering/website/refs/heads/gh-pages/_posts/2025-12-29-episode-493-my-boss-one-ups-my-negativity-and-football-engineering.md) - [Episode 492: Fresh grads and startups or the goog](https://softskills.audio/2025/12/22/episode-492-fresh-grads-and-startups-or-the-goog/) — 2025-12-22 — [Markdown](https://raw.githubusercontent.com/soft-skills-engineering/website/refs/heads/gh-pages/_posts/2025-12-22-episode-492-fresh-grads-and-startups-or-the-goog.md) - [Episode 491: Re-arranging deck chairs on the Titantic and my boss leaks private info](https://softskills.audio/2025/12/15/episode-491-re-arranging-deck-chairs-on-the-titantic-and-my-boss-leaks-private-info/) — 2025-12-15 — [Markdown](https://raw.githubusercontent.com/soft-skills-engineering/website/refs/heads/gh-pages/_posts/2025-12-15-episode-491-re-arranging-deck-chairs-on-the-titantic-and-my-boss-leaks-private-info.md) - [Episode 490: How do I break into software dev from QA automation and underselling](https://softskills.audio/2025/12/08/episode-490-how-do-i-break-into-software-dev-from-qa-automation-and-underselling/) — 2025-12-08 — [Markdown](https://raw.githubusercontent.com/soft-skills-engineering/website/refs/heads/gh-pages/_posts/2025-12-08-episode-490-how-do-i-break-into-software-dev-from-qa-automation-and-underselling.md) - [Episode 489: Ethical dilemma for a gambling app dev and ethical employers](https://softskills.audio/2025/12/01/episode-489-ethical-dilemma-for-a-gambling-app-dev-and-ethical-employers/) — 2025-12-01 — [Markdown](https://raw.githubusercontent.com/soft-skills-engineering/website/refs/heads/gh-pages/_posts/2025-12-01-episode-489-ethical-dilemma-for-a-gambling-app-dev-and-ethical-employers.md) - [Episode 488: How do I survive in a culture of optics and jira slacker](https://softskills.audio/2025/11/24/episode-488-how-do-i-survive-in-a-culture-of-optics-and-jira-slacker/) — 2025-11-24 — [Markdown](https://raw.githubusercontent.com/soft-skills-engineering/website/refs/heads/gh-pages/_posts/2025-11-24-episode-488-how-do-i-survive-in-a-culture-of-optics-and-jira-slacker.md) - [Episode 487: My manager ignores me during 1:1's and I am required to work in an empty office](https://softskills.audio/2025/11/17/episode-487-my-manager-ignores-me-during-1-1's-and-i-am-required-to-work-in-an-empty-office/) — 2025-11-17 — [Markdown](https://raw.githubusercontent.com/soft-skills-engineering/website/refs/heads/gh-pages/_posts/2025-11-17-episode-487-my-manager-ignores-me-during-1:1's-and-i-am-required-to-work-in-an-empty-office.md) - [Episode 486: No one on my team talks and skip level meetings](https://softskills.audio/2025/11/10/episode-486-no-one-on-my-team-talks-and-skip-level-meetings/) — 2025-11-10 — [Markdown](https://raw.githubusercontent.com/soft-skills-engineering/website/refs/heads/gh-pages/_posts/2025-11-10-episode-486-no-one-on-my-team-talks-and-skip-level-meetings.md) - [Episode 485: I'm terrible at hiring decisions and my coworker spams us with AI-generated memes](https://softskills.audio/2025/11/03/episode-485-i'm-terrible-at-hiring-decisions-and-my-coworker-spams-us-with-ai-generated-memes/) — 2025-11-03 — [Markdown](https://raw.githubusercontent.com/soft-skills-engineering/website/refs/heads/gh-pages/_posts/2025-11-03-episode-485-i'm-terrible-at-hiring-decisions-and-my-coworker-spams-us-with-ai-generated-memes.md) - [Episode 484: How to get a raise after slacking off for YEARS and my PM won't stop DM'ing me](https://softskills.audio/2025/10/27/episode-484-how-to-get-a-raise-after-slacking-off-for-years-and-my-pm-won't-stop-dm'ing-me/) — 2025-10-27 — [Markdown](https://raw.githubusercontent.com/soft-skills-engineering/website/refs/heads/gh-pages/_posts/2025-10-27-episode-484-how-to-get-a-raise-after-slacking-off-for-years-and-my-pm-won't-stop-dm'ing-me.md) - [Episode 483: My team hated me from day one and should I stack PTO before my resignation](https://softskills.audio/2025/10/20/episode-483-my-team-hated-me-from-day-one-and-should-i-stack-pto-before-my-resignation/) — 2025-10-20 — [Markdown](https://raw.githubusercontent.com/soft-skills-engineering/website/refs/heads/gh-pages/_posts/2025-10-20-episode-483-my-team-hated-me-from-day-one-and-should-i-stack-pto-before-my-resignation.md) - [Episode 482: I got a promotion, but a tiny raise and an imposter interviewed for my team](https://softskills.audio/2025/10/13/episode-482-i-got-a-promotion,-but-a-tiny-raise-and-an-imposter-interviewed-for-my-team/) — 2025-10-13 — [Markdown](https://raw.githubusercontent.com/soft-skills-engineering/website/refs/heads/gh-pages/_posts/2025-10-13-episode-482-i-got-a-promotion,-but-a-tiny-raise-and-an-imposter-interviewed-for-my-team.md) - [Episode 481: I'm bored and will I ever find out why I was fired?](https://softskills.audio/2025/10/06/episode-481-i'm-bored-and-will-i-ever-find-out-why-i-was-fired/) — 2025-10-06 — [Markdown](https://raw.githubusercontent.com/soft-skills-engineering/website/refs/heads/gh-pages/_posts/2025-10-06-episode-481-i'm-bored-and-will-i-ever-find-out-why-i-was-fired?.md) - [Episode 480: Do I just coast until I quit and going back to work after a long time](https://softskills.audio/2025/09/29/episode-480-do-i-just-coast-until-i-quit-and-going-back-to-work-after-a-long-time/) — 2025-09-29 — [Markdown](https://raw.githubusercontent.com/soft-skills-engineering/website/refs/heads/gh-pages/_posts/2025-09-29-episode-480-do-i-just-coast-until-i-quit-and-going-back-to-work-after-a-long-time.md) - [Episode 479: Contractors to the rescue and dinged for delay](https://softskills.audio/2025/09/22/episode-479-contractors-to-the-rescue-and-dinged-for-delay/) — 2025-09-22 — [Markdown](https://raw.githubusercontent.com/soft-skills-engineering/website/refs/heads/gh-pages/_posts/2025-09-22-episode-479-contractors-to-the-rescue-and-dinged-for-delay.md) - [Episode 478: Can you coach self-awareness and my boss is an llm](https://softskills.audio/2025/09/15/episode-478-can-you-coach-self-awareness-and-my-boss-is-an-llm/) — 2025-09-15 — [Markdown](https://raw.githubusercontent.com/soft-skills-engineering/website/refs/heads/gh-pages/_posts/2025-09-15-episode-478-can-you-coach-self-awareness-and-my-boss-is-an-llm.md) - [Episode 477: Four months and I already hate my job and grumpy and fuzzy](https://softskills.audio/2025/09/08/episode-477-four-months-and-i-already-hate-my-job-and-grumpy-and-fuzzy/) — 2025-09-08 — [Markdown](https://raw.githubusercontent.com/soft-skills-engineering/website/refs/heads/gh-pages/_posts/2025-09-08-episode-477-four-months-and-i-already-hate-my-job-and-grumpy-and-fuzzy.md) - [Episode 476: How much help is too much help and guarding against slop](https://softskills.audio/2025/09/01/episode-476-how-much-help-is-too-much-help-and-guarding-against-slop/) — 2025-09-01 — [Markdown](https://raw.githubusercontent.com/soft-skills-engineering/website/refs/heads/gh-pages/_posts/2025-09-01-episode-476-how-much-help-is-too-much-help-and-guarding-against-slop.md) - [Episode 475: Am I too loyal to my big tech job and politely preserving time](https://softskills.audio/2025/08/25/episode-475-am-i-too-loyal-to-my-big-tech-job-and-politely-preserving-time/) — 2025-08-25 — [Markdown](https://raw.githubusercontent.com/soft-skills-engineering/website/refs/heads/gh-pages/_posts/2025-08-25-episode-475-am-i-too-loyal-to-my-big-tech-job-and-politely-preserving-time.md) - [Episode 474: I hate the idea of firing a low performer and cheaper context switching](https://softskills.audio/2025/08/18/episode-474-i-hate-the-idea-of-firing-a-low-performer-and-cheaper-context-switching/) — 2025-08-18 — [Markdown](https://raw.githubusercontent.com/soft-skills-engineering/website/refs/heads/gh-pages/_posts/2025-08-18-episode-474-i-hate-the-idea-of-firing-a-low-performer-and-cheaper-context-switching.md) - [Episode 473: Mental health support and overcoming FOMO of taking a break from work](https://softskills.audio/2025/08/11/episode-473-mental-health-support-and-overcoming-fomo-of-taking-a-break-from-work/) — 2025-08-11 — [Markdown](https://raw.githubusercontent.com/soft-skills-engineering/website/refs/heads/gh-pages/_posts/2025-08-11-episode-473-mental-health-support-and-overcoming-fomo-of-taking-a-break-from-work.md) - [Episode 472: Should my junior dev use AI and thrown in to ETL](https://softskills.audio/2025/08/04/episode-472-should-my-junior-dev-use-ai-and-thrown-in-to-etl/) — 2025-08-04 — [Markdown](https://raw.githubusercontent.com/soft-skills-engineering/website/refs/heads/gh-pages/_posts/2025-08-04-episode-472-should-my-junior-dev-use-ai-and-thrown-in-to-etl.md) - [Episode 471: Why does my junior engineer do so little and I fell asleep in a Zoom meeting](https://softskills.audio/2025/07/28/episode-471-why-does-my-junior-engineer-do-so-little-and-i-fell-asleep-in-a-zoom-meeting/) — 2025-07-28 — [Markdown](https://raw.githubusercontent.com/soft-skills-engineering/website/refs/heads/gh-pages/_posts/2025-07-28-episode-471-why-does-my-junior-engineer-do-so-little-and-i-fell-asleep-in-a-zoom-meeting.md) - [Episode 470: I said something stupid in a meeting and just want to code](https://softskills.audio/2025/07/21/episode-470-i-said-something-stupid-in-a-meeting-and-just-want-to-code/) — 2025-07-21 — [Markdown](https://raw.githubusercontent.com/soft-skills-engineering/website/refs/heads/gh-pages/_posts/2025-07-21-episode-470-i-said-something-stupid-in-a-meeting-and-just-want-to-code.md) - [Episode 469: Passed over for lead role and perhaps I'm the jerk](https://softskills.audio/2025/07/14/episode-469-passed-over-for-lead-role-and-perhaps-i'm-the-jerk/) — 2025-07-14 — [Markdown](https://raw.githubusercontent.com/soft-skills-engineering/website/refs/heads/gh-pages/_posts/2025-07-14-episode-469-passed-over-for-lead-role-and-perhaps-i'm-the-jerk.md) - [Episode 468: Should I take a mini-retirement and doubling down on anachronisms](https://softskills.audio/2025/07/07/episode-468-should-i-take-a-mini-retirement-and-doubling-down-on-anachronisms/) — 2025-07-07 — [Markdown](https://raw.githubusercontent.com/soft-skills-engineering/website/refs/heads/gh-pages/_posts/2025-07-07-episode-468-should-i-take-a-mini-retirement-and-doubling-down-on-anachronisms.md) - [Episode 467: I can't get promoted if I do my job and should I get a degree to get a job in this economy](https://softskills.audio/2025/06/30/episode-467-i-can't-get-promoted-if-i-do-my-job-and-should-i-get-a-degree-to-get-a-job-in-this-economy/) — 2025-06-30 — [Markdown](https://raw.githubusercontent.com/soft-skills-engineering/website/refs/heads/gh-pages/_posts/2025-06-30-episode-467-i-can't-get-promoted-if-i-do-my-job-and-should-i-get-a-degree-to-get-a-job-in-this-economy.md) - [Episode 466: Bad performance review and moving in to the caves](https://softskills.audio/2025/06/23/episode-466-bad-performance-review-and-moving-in-to-the-caves/) — 2025-06-23 — [Markdown](https://raw.githubusercontent.com/soft-skills-engineering/website/refs/heads/gh-pages/_posts/2025-06-23-episode-466-bad-performance-review-and-moving-in-to-the-caves.md) - [Episode 465: Talking to your report's previous manager and how to replace a 30-year-old ticketing system](https://softskills.audio/2025/06/16/episode-465-talking-to-your-report's-previous-manager-and-how-to-replace-a-30-year-old-ticketing-system/) — 2025-06-16 — [Markdown](https://raw.githubusercontent.com/soft-skills-engineering/website/refs/heads/gh-pages/_posts/2025-06-16-episode-465-talking-to-your-report's-previous-manager-and-how-to-replace-a-30-year-old-ticketing-system.md) - [Episode 464: Rehiring an overpaid boomerang and AI has taken over my teammate's brain](https://softskills.audio/2025/06/09/episode-464-rehiring-an-overpaid-boomerang-and-ai-has-taken-over-my-teammate's-brain/) — 2025-06-09 — [Markdown](https://raw.githubusercontent.com/soft-skills-engineering/website/refs/heads/gh-pages/_posts/2025-06-09-episode-464-rehiring-an-overpaid-boomerang-and-ai-has-taken-over-my-teammate's-brain.md) - [Episode 463: CTO w/ weak resume and I tried management and it was TERRIBLE](https://softskills.audio/2025/06/02/episode-463-cto-w-weak-resume-and-i-tried-management-and-it-was-terrible/) — 2025-06-02 — [Markdown](https://raw.githubusercontent.com/soft-skills-engineering/website/refs/heads/gh-pages/_posts/2025-06-02-episode-463-cto-w--weak-resume-and-i-tried-management-and-it-was-terrible.md) - [Episode 462: Supporting laid-off employee and how to rebuild culture after layoffs](https://softskills.audio/2025/05/26/episode-462-supporting-laid-off-employee-and-how-to-rebuild-culture-after-layoffs/) — 2025-05-26 — [Markdown](https://raw.githubusercontent.com/soft-skills-engineering/website/refs/heads/gh-pages/_posts/2025-05-26-episode-462-supporting-laid-off-employee-and-how-to-rebuild-culture-after-layoffs.md) - [Episode 461: How to do side projects with a family and demanding job and my company promised me a raise, but didn't give it](https://softskills.audio/2025/05/19/episode-461-how-to-do-side-projects-with-a-family-and-demanding-job-and-my-company-promised-me-a-raise,-but-didn't-give-it/) — 2025-05-19 — [Markdown](https://raw.githubusercontent.com/soft-skills-engineering/website/refs/heads/gh-pages/_posts/2025-05-19-episode-461-how-to-do-side-projects-with-a-family-and-demanding-job-and-my-company-promised-me-a-raise,-but-didn't-give-it.md) - [Episode 460: Losing autonomy and I got skipped for a promotion even though I'm awesome](https://softskills.audio/2025/05/12/episode-460-losing-autonomy-and-i-got-skipped-for-a-promotion-even-though-i'm-awesome/) — 2025-05-12 — [Markdown](https://raw.githubusercontent.com/soft-skills-engineering/website/refs/heads/gh-pages/_posts/2025-05-12-episode-460-losing-autonomy-and-i-got-skipped-for-a-promotion-even-though-i'm-awesome.md) - [Episode 459: Am I cutting edge and how to compliment someone who went from super jerk to super nice](https://softskills.audio/2025/05/05/episode-459-am-i-cutting-edge-and-how-to-compliment-someone-who-went-from-super-jerk-to-super-nice/) — 2025-05-05 — [Markdown](https://raw.githubusercontent.com/soft-skills-engineering/website/refs/heads/gh-pages/_posts/2025-05-05-episode-459-am-i-cutting-edge-and-how-to-compliment-someone-who-went-from-super-jerk-to-super-nice.md) - [Episode 458: Infinite tech debt hack and figuring out what is going on](https://softskills.audio/2025/04/28/episode-458-infinite-tech-debt-hack-and-figuring-out-what-is-going-on/) — 2025-04-28 — [Markdown](https://raw.githubusercontent.com/soft-skills-engineering/website/refs/heads/gh-pages/_posts/2025-04-28-episode-458-infinite-tech-debt-hack-and-figuring-out-what-is-going-on.md) - [Episode 457: How do I get off the on-call rotation and "big tech" == "big leagues"?](https://softskills.audio/2025/04/21/episode-457-how-do-i-get-off-the-on-call-rotation-and-big-tech-==-big-leagues/) — 2025-04-21 — [Markdown](https://raw.githubusercontent.com/soft-skills-engineering/website/refs/heads/gh-pages/_posts/2025-04-21-episode-457-how-do-i-get-off-the-on-call-rotation-and-"big-tech"-==-"big-leagues"?.md) - [Episode 456: Will I look bad on the job market if I'm a crypto developer and struggling to go from management back to dev work](https://softskills.audio/2025/04/14/episode-456-will-i-look-bad-on-the-job-market-if-i'm-a-crypto-developer-and-struggling-to-go-from-management-back-to-dev-work/) — 2025-04-14 — [Markdown](https://raw.githubusercontent.com/soft-skills-engineering/website/refs/heads/gh-pages/_posts/2025-04-14-episode-456-will-i-look-bad-on-the-job-market-if-i'm-a-crypto-developer-and-struggling-to-go-from-management-back-to-dev-work.md) - [Episode 455: UX designer without a mentor and I get bored too easily and stressed too easily](https://softskills.audio/2025/04/07/episode-455-ux-designer-without-a-mentor-and-i-get-bored-too-easily-and-stressed-too-easily/) — 2025-04-07 — [Markdown](https://raw.githubusercontent.com/soft-skills-engineering/website/refs/heads/gh-pages/_posts/2025-04-07-episode-455-ux-designer-without-a-mentor-and-i-get-bored-too-easily-and-stressed-too-easily.md) - [Episode 454: Tracking productivity? and my CTO is ChatGPT](https://softskills.audio/2025/03/31/episode-454-tracking-productivity-and-my-cto-is-chatgpt/) — 2025-03-31 — [Markdown](https://raw.githubusercontent.com/soft-skills-engineering/website/refs/heads/gh-pages/_posts/2025-03-31-episode-454-tracking-productivity?-and-my-cto-is-chatgpt.md) - [Episode 453: Why did my company build an internal LinkedIn and how do I not get stagnant in my skills?](https://softskills.audio/2025/03/24/episode-453-why-did-my-company-build-an-internal-linkedin-and-how-do-i-not-get-stagnant-in-my-skills/) — 2025-03-24 — [Markdown](https://raw.githubusercontent.com/soft-skills-engineering/website/refs/heads/gh-pages/_posts/2025-03-24-episode-453-why-did-my-company-build-an-internal-linkedin-and-how-do-i-not-get-stagnant-in-my-skills?.md) - [Episode 452: Consulting refactor and extra work, extra scrutiny](https://softskills.audio/2025/03/17/episode-452-consulting-refactor-and-extra-work,-extra-scrutiny/) — 2025-03-17 — [Markdown](https://raw.githubusercontent.com/soft-skills-engineering/website/refs/heads/gh-pages/_posts/2025-03-17-episode-452-consulting-refactor-and-extra-work,-extra-scrutiny.md) - [Episode 451: Un-collaborative architect and who is my boss?](https://softskills.audio/2025/03/10/episode-451-un-collaborative-architect-and-who-is-my-boss/) — 2025-03-10 — [Markdown](https://raw.githubusercontent.com/soft-skills-engineering/website/refs/heads/gh-pages/_posts/2025-03-10-episode-451-un-collaborative-architect-and-who-is-my-boss?.md) - [Episode 450: I'm terrible at behavioral interviews and time zonessssssss](https://softskills.audio/2025/03/03/episode-450-i'm-terrible-at-behavioral-interviews-and-time-zonessssssss/) — 2025-03-03 — [Markdown](https://raw.githubusercontent.com/soft-skills-engineering/website/refs/heads/gh-pages/_posts/2025-03-03-episode-450-i'm-terrible-at-behavioral-interviews-and-time-zonessssssss.md) - [Episode 449: My tech lead ignored my warnings and I don't know what my leadership style is](https://softskills.audio/2025/02/24/episode-449-my-tech-lead-ignored-my-warnings-and-i-don't-know-what-my-leadership-style-is/) — 2025-02-24 — [Markdown](https://raw.githubusercontent.com/soft-skills-engineering/website/refs/heads/gh-pages/_posts/2025-02-24-episode-449-my-tech-lead-ignored-my-warnings-and-i-don't-know-what-my-leadership-style-is.md) - [Episode 448: Title over salary and from figure skater to software developer](https://softskills.audio/2025/02/17/episode-448-title-over-salary-and-from-figure-skater-to-software-developer/) — 2025-02-17 — [Markdown](https://raw.githubusercontent.com/soft-skills-engineering/website/refs/heads/gh-pages/_posts/2025-02-17-episode-448-title-over-salary-and-from-figure-skater-to-software-developer.md) - [Episode 447: Overleveled at FAANG and accidental draft feedback](https://softskills.audio/2025/02/10/episode-447-overleveled-at-faang-and-accidental-draft-feedback/) — 2025-02-10 — [Markdown](https://raw.githubusercontent.com/soft-skills-engineering/website/refs/heads/gh-pages/_posts/2025-02-10-episode-447-overleveled-at-faang-and-accidental-draft-feedback.md) - [Episode 446: Wading through AI slop and they don't get git](https://softskills.audio/2025/02/03/episode-446-wading-through-ai-slop-and-they-don't-get-git/) — 2025-02-03 — [Markdown](https://raw.githubusercontent.com/soft-skills-engineering/website/refs/heads/gh-pages/_posts/2025-02-03-episode-446-wading-through-ai-slop-and-they-don't-get-git.md) - [Episode 445: Staying at my first job and my coworker is insulting other departments](https://softskills.audio/2025/01/27/episode-445-staying-at-my-first-job-and-my-coworker-is-insulting-other-departments/) — 2025-01-27 — [Markdown](https://raw.githubusercontent.com/soft-skills-engineering/website/refs/heads/gh-pages/_posts/2025-01-27-episode-445-staying-at-my-first-job-and-my-coworker-is-insulting-other-departments.md) - [Episode 444: Surrounded by apathetic coworkers and put it on my resume?](https://softskills.audio/2025/01/20/episode-444-surrounded-by-apathetic-coworkers-and-put-it-on-my-resume/) — 2025-01-20 — [Markdown](https://raw.githubusercontent.com/soft-skills-engineering/website/refs/heads/gh-pages/_posts/2025-01-20-episode-444-surrounded-by-apathetic-coworkers-and-put-it-on-my-resume?.md) - [Episode 443: Does my PM hate me? and My coworker has anxiety when I help](https://softskills.audio/2025/01/13/episode-443-does-my-pm-hate-me-and-my-coworker-has-anxiety-when-i-help/) — 2025-01-13 — [Markdown](https://raw.githubusercontent.com/soft-skills-engineering/website/refs/heads/gh-pages/_posts/2025-01-13-episode-443-does-my-pm-hate-me?-and-my-coworker-has-anxiety-when-i-help.md) - [Episode 442: Improving communication skills and how to break my job hopping habit](https://softskills.audio/2025/01/06/episode-442-improving-communication-skills-and-how-to-break-my-job-hopping-habit/) — 2025-01-06 — [Markdown](https://raw.githubusercontent.com/soft-skills-engineering/website/refs/heads/gh-pages/_posts/2025-01-06-episode-442-improving-communication-skills-and-how-to-break-my-job-hopping-habit.md) - [Episode 441: Will working in healthcare hurt my reputation and precious wisdom](https://softskills.audio/2024/12/30/episode-441-will-working-in-healthcare-hurt-my-reputation-and-precious-wisdom/) — 2024-12-30 — [Markdown](https://raw.githubusercontent.com/soft-skills-engineering/website/refs/heads/gh-pages/_posts/2024-12-30-episode-441-will-working-in-healthcare-hurt-my-reputation-and-precious-wisdom.md) - [Episode 440: How do I help my boss not burn out and should I tell people I'm older than I am?](https://softskills.audio/2024/12/23/episode-440-how-do-i-help-my-boss-not-burn-out-and-should-i-tell-people-i'm-older-than-i-am/) — 2024-12-23 — [Markdown](https://raw.githubusercontent.com/soft-skills-engineering/website/refs/heads/gh-pages/_posts/2024-12-23-episode-440-how-do-i-help-my-boss-not-burn-out-and-should-i-tell-people-i'm-older-than-i-am?.md) - [Episode 439: Harried VP of Eng and first startup job](https://softskills.audio/2024/12/16/episode-439-harried-vp-of-eng-and-first-startup-job/) — 2024-12-16 — [Markdown](https://raw.githubusercontent.com/soft-skills-engineering/website/refs/heads/gh-pages/_posts/2024-12-16-episode-439-harried-vp-of-eng-and-first-startup-job.md) - [Episode 438: Software job after prison and working 60 hours per week at age 20 and feeling unfulfilled](https://softskills.audio/2024/12/09/episode-438-software-job-after-prison-and-working-60-hours-per-week-at-age-20-and-feeling-unfulfilled/) — 2024-12-09 — [Markdown](https://raw.githubusercontent.com/soft-skills-engineering/website/refs/heads/gh-pages/_posts/2024-12-09-episode-438-software-job-after-prison-and-working-60-hours-per-week-at-age-20-and-feeling-unfulfilled.md) - [Episode 437: My company canceled all one-on-ones and moving to a single backlog](https://softskills.audio/2024/12/02/episode-437-my-company-canceled-all-one-on-ones-and-moving-to-a-single-backlog/) — 2024-12-02 — [Markdown](https://raw.githubusercontent.com/soft-skills-engineering/website/refs/heads/gh-pages/_posts/2024-12-02-episode-437-my-company-canceled-all-one-on-ones-and-moving-to-a-single-backlog.md) - [Episode 436: Paralyzed by checkboxes and I'm on a "must keep happy" list](https://softskills.audio/2024/11/25/episode-436-paralyzed-by-checkboxes-and-i'm-on-a-must-keep-happy-list/) — 2024-11-25 — [Markdown](https://raw.githubusercontent.com/soft-skills-engineering/website/refs/heads/gh-pages/_posts/2024-11-25-episode-436-paralyzed-by-checkboxes-and-i'm-on-a-"must-keep-happy"-list.md) - [Episode 435: How to make my boss actually do something and kindly shooting down](https://softskills.audio/2024/11/18/episode-435-how-to-make-my-boss-actually-do-something-and-kindly-shooting-down/) — 2024-11-18 — [Markdown](https://raw.githubusercontent.com/soft-skills-engineering/website/refs/heads/gh-pages/_posts/2024-11-18-episode-435-how-to-make-my-boss-actually-do-something-and-kindly-shooting-down.md) - [Episode 434: Forgetful boss and nothing to say](https://softskills.audio/2024/11/11/episode-434-forgetful-boss-and-nothing-to-say/) — 2024-11-11 — [Markdown](https://raw.githubusercontent.com/soft-skills-engineering/website/refs/heads/gh-pages/_posts/2024-11-11-episode-434-forgetful-boss-and-nothing-to-say.md) - [Episode 433: My teammate pretends we decided, but we didn't and my team is getting worse and worse](https://softskills.audio/2024/11/04/episode-433-my-teammate-pretends-we-decided,-but-we-didn't-and-my-team-is-getting-worse-and-worse/) — 2024-11-04 — [Markdown](https://raw.githubusercontent.com/soft-skills-engineering/website/refs/heads/gh-pages/_posts/2024-11-04-episode-433-my-teammate-pretends-we-decided,-but-we-didn't-and-my-team-is-getting-worse-and-worse.md) - [Episode 432: As an LLM, how can I be more emotionally smart and when to use I vs we?](https://softskills.audio/2024/10/28/episode-432-as-an-llm,-how-can-i-be-more-emotionally-smart-and-when-to-use-i-vs-we/) — 2024-10-28 — [Markdown](https://raw.githubusercontent.com/soft-skills-engineering/website/refs/heads/gh-pages/_posts/2024-10-28-episode-432-as-an-llm,-how-can-i-be-more-emotionally-smart-and-when-to-use-i-vs-we?.md) - [Episode 431: Stinky.js and power hungry friend](https://softskills.audio/2024/10/21/episode-431-stinky.js-and-power-hungry-friend/) — 2024-10-21 — [Markdown](https://raw.githubusercontent.com/soft-skills-engineering/website/refs/heads/gh-pages/_posts/2024-10-21-episode-431-stinky.js-and-power-hungry-friend.md) - [Episode 430: Should I quit this job I'm underqualified for and honestly torpedoed my promo chances](https://softskills.audio/2024/10/14/episode-430-should-i-quit-this-job-i'm-underqualified-for-and-honestly-torpedoed-my-promo-chances/) — 2024-10-14 — [Markdown](https://raw.githubusercontent.com/soft-skills-engineering/website/refs/heads/gh-pages/_posts/2024-10-14-episode-430-should-i-quit-this-job-i'm-underqualified-for-and-honestly-torpedoed-my-promo-chances.md) - [Episode 429: Should I quit my job for free hoodies and manager to IC](https://softskills.audio/2024/10/07/episode-429-should-i-quit-my-job-for-free-hoodies-and-manager-to-ic/) — 2024-10-07 — [Markdown](https://raw.githubusercontent.com/soft-skills-engineering/website/refs/heads/gh-pages/_posts/2024-10-07-episode-429-should-i-quit-my-job-for-free-hoodies-and-manager-to-ic.md) - [Episode 428: Interim tech lead and asking for a raise when a peer leaves](https://softskills.audio/2024/09/30/episode-428-interim-tech-lead-and-asking-for-a-raise-when-a-peer-leaves/) — 2024-09-30 — [Markdown](https://raw.githubusercontent.com/soft-skills-engineering/website/refs/heads/gh-pages/_posts/2024-09-30-episode-428-interim-tech-lead-and-asking-for-a-raise-when-a-peer-leaves.md) - [Episode 427: Under to over-employed and wibbly wobbly timey wimey](https://softskills.audio/2024/09/23/episode-427-under-to-over-employed-and-wibbly-wobbly-timey-wimey/) — 2024-09-23 — [Markdown](https://raw.githubusercontent.com/soft-skills-engineering/website/refs/heads/gh-pages/_posts/2024-09-23-episode-427-under-to-over-employed-and-wibbly-wobbly-timey-wimey.md) - [Episode 426: I got too many promotions and I have anxiety about getting fired](https://softskills.audio/2024/09/16/episode-426-i-got-too-many-promotions-and-i-have-anxiety-about-getting-fired/) — 2024-09-16 — [Markdown](https://raw.githubusercontent.com/soft-skills-engineering/website/refs/heads/gh-pages/_posts/2024-09-16-episode-426-i-got-too-many-promotions-and-i-have-anxiety-about-getting-fired.md) - [Episode 425: Org chart bait and switch and ole' reliable](https://softskills.audio/2024/09/09/episode-425-org-chart-bait-and-switch-and-ole'-reliable/) — 2024-09-09 — [Markdown](https://raw.githubusercontent.com/soft-skills-engineering/website/refs/heads/gh-pages/_posts/2024-09-09-episode-425-org-chart-bait-and-switch-and-ole'-reliable.md) - [Episode 424: Bragging without ego and how to predict layoffs](https://softskills.audio/2024/09/02/episode-424-bragging-without-ego-and-how-to-predict-layoffs/) — 2024-09-02 — [Markdown](https://raw.githubusercontent.com/soft-skills-engineering/website/refs/heads/gh-pages/_posts/2024-09-02-episode-424-bragging-without-ego-and-how-to-predict-layoffs.md) - [Episode 423: freedom from deadlines and Actual firefighting to software firefighting](https://softskills.audio/2024/08/26/episode-423-freedom-from-deadlines-and-actual-firefighting-to-software-firefighting/) — 2024-08-26 — [Markdown](https://raw.githubusercontent.com/soft-skills-engineering/website/refs/heads/gh-pages/_posts/2024-08-26-episode-423-freedom-from-deadlines-and-actual-firefighting-to-software-firefighting.md) - [Episode 422: Moving in to big tech and building support](https://softskills.audio/2024/08/19/episode-422-moving-in-to-big-tech-and-building-support/) — 2024-08-19 — [Markdown](https://raw.githubusercontent.com/soft-skills-engineering/website/refs/heads/gh-pages/_posts/2024-08-19-episode-422-moving-in-to-big-tech-and-building-support.md) - [Episode 421: Hitting the level cap and getting credit for behind-the-scenes work](https://softskills.audio/2024/08/12/episode-421-hitting-the-level-cap-and-getting-credit-for-behind-the-scenes-work/) — 2024-08-12 — [Markdown](https://raw.githubusercontent.com/soft-skills-engineering/website/refs/heads/gh-pages/_posts/2024-08-12-episode-421-hitting-the-level-cap-and-getting-credit-for-behind-the-scenes-work.md) - [Episode 420: New grad getting boring work and busy manager](https://softskills.audio/2024/08/05/episode-420-new-grad-getting-boring-work-and-busy-manager/) — 2024-08-05 — [Markdown](https://raw.githubusercontent.com/soft-skills-engineering/website/refs/heads/gh-pages/_posts/2024-08-05-episode-420-new-grad-getting-boring-work-and-busy-manager.md) - [Episode 419: Yoda or Han Solo and I swear I'm senior](https://softskills.audio/2024/07/29/episode-419-yoda-or-han-solo-and-i-swear-i'm-senior/) — 2024-07-29 — [Markdown](https://raw.githubusercontent.com/soft-skills-engineering/website/refs/heads/gh-pages/_posts/2024-07-29-episode-419-yoda-or-han-solo-and-i-swear-i'm-senior.md) - [Episode 418: Should I "rest and vest" and how do I avoid 3-hour agile meetings?](https://softskills.audio/2024/07/22/episode-418-should-i-rest-and-vest-and-how-do-i-avoid-3-hour-agile-meetings/) — 2024-07-22 — [Markdown](https://raw.githubusercontent.com/soft-skills-engineering/website/refs/heads/gh-pages/_posts/2024-07-22-episode-418-should-i-"rest-and-vest"-and-how-do-i-avoid-3-hour-agile-meetings?.md) - [Episode 417: Should I tell my boss I'm checked out and how do I deal with a PM who has no idea what he's doing?](https://softskills.audio/2024/07/15/episode-417-should-i-tell-my-boss-i'm-checked-out-and-how-do-i-deal-with-a-pm-who-has-no-idea-what-he's-doing/) — 2024-07-15 — [Markdown](https://raw.githubusercontent.com/soft-skills-engineering/website/refs/heads/gh-pages/_posts/2024-07-15-episode-417-should-i-tell-my-boss-i'm-checked-out-and-how-do-i-deal-with-a-pm-who-has-no-idea-what-he's-doing?.md) - [Episode 416: My boss wants me to build dark patterns and getting promoted without writing code](https://softskills.audio/2024/07/08/episode-416-my-boss-wants-me-to-build-dark-patterns-and-getting-promoted-without-writing-code/) — 2024-07-08 — [Markdown](https://raw.githubusercontent.com/soft-skills-engineering/website/refs/heads/gh-pages/_posts/2024-07-08-episode-416-my-boss-wants-me-to-build-dark-patterns-and-getting-promoted-without-writing-code.md) - [Episode 415: I got a low raise and merging teams](https://softskills.audio/2024/07/01/episode-415-i-got-a-low-raise-and-merging-teams/) — 2024-07-01 — [Markdown](https://raw.githubusercontent.com/soft-skills-engineering/website/refs/heads/gh-pages/_posts/2024-07-01-episode-415-i-got-a-low-raise-and-merging-teams.md) - [Episode 414: Hot-headed PM and leaving without downgrading](https://softskills.audio/2024/06/24/episode-414-hot-headed-pm-and-leaving-without-downgrading/) — 2024-06-24 — [Markdown](https://raw.githubusercontent.com/soft-skills-engineering/website/refs/heads/gh-pages/_posts/2024-06-24-episode-414-hot-headed-pm-and-leaving-without-downgrading.md) - [Episode 413: Is my interview candidate cheating and my product owner is getting WRECKED by the client](https://softskills.audio/2024/06/17/episode-413-is-my-interview-candidate-cheating-and-my-product-owner-is-getting-wrecked-by-the-client/) — 2024-06-17 — [Markdown](https://raw.githubusercontent.com/soft-skills-engineering/website/refs/heads/gh-pages/_posts/2024-06-17-episode-413-is-my-interview-candidate-cheating-and-my-product-owner-is-getting-wrecked-by-the-client.md) - [Episode 412: Work-life-team balance and getting code-sniped](https://softskills.audio/2024/06/10/episode-412-work-life-team-balance-and-getting-code-sniped/) — 2024-06-10 — [Markdown](https://raw.githubusercontent.com/soft-skills-engineering/website/refs/heads/gh-pages/_posts/2024-06-10-episode-412-work-life-team-balance-and-getting-code-sniped.md) - [Episode 411: We have a secret org chart and I'm a big fish in a little pond](https://softskills.audio/2024/06/03/episode-411-we-have-a-secret-org-chart-and-i'm-a-big-fish-in-a-little-pond/) — 2024-06-03 — [Markdown](https://raw.githubusercontent.com/soft-skills-engineering/website/refs/heads/gh-pages/_posts/2024-06-03-episode-411-we-have-a-secret-org-chart-and-i'm-a-big-fish-in-a-little-pond.md) - [Episode 410: Guaranteed cost-of-living raises and my manager doesn't like me](https://softskills.audio/2024/05/27/episode-410-guaranteed-cost-of-living-raises-and-my-manager-doesn't-like-me/) — 2024-05-27 — [Markdown](https://raw.githubusercontent.com/soft-skills-engineering/website/refs/heads/gh-pages/_posts/2024-05-27-episode-410-guaranteed-cost-of-living-raises-and-my-manager-doesn't-like-me.md) - [Episode 409: Fancy title to IC and CRUD is crud](https://softskills.audio/2024/05/20/episode-409-fancy-title-to-ic-and-crud-is-crud/) — 2024-05-20 — [Markdown](https://raw.githubusercontent.com/soft-skills-engineering/website/refs/heads/gh-pages/_posts/2024-05-20-episode-409-fancy-title-to-ic-and-crud-is-crud.md) - [Episode 408: Terrible retrospectives and "hard to work with"](https://softskills.audio/2024/05/13/episode-408-terrible-retrospectives-and-hard-to-work-with/) — 2024-05-13 — [Markdown](https://raw.githubusercontent.com/soft-skills-engineering/website/refs/heads/gh-pages/_posts/2024-05-13-episode-408-terrible-retrospectives-and-"hard-to-work-with".md) - [Episode 407: I'm too territorial and should I quiet quit?](https://softskills.audio/2024/05/06/episode-407-i'm-too-territorial-and-should-i-quiet-quit/) — 2024-05-06 — [Markdown](https://raw.githubusercontent.com/soft-skills-engineering/website/refs/heads/gh-pages/_posts/2024-05-06-episode-407-i'm-too-territorial-and-should-i-quiet-quit?.md) - [Episode 406: Acquired taste and limited mentorship](https://softskills.audio/2024/04/29/episode-406-acquired-taste-and-limited-mentorship/) — 2024-04-29 — [Markdown](https://raw.githubusercontent.com/soft-skills-engineering/website/refs/heads/gh-pages/_posts/2024-04-29-episode-406-acquired-taste-and-limited-mentorship.md) - [Episode 405: Scaled agile pain and top-heavy team](https://softskills.audio/2024/04/22/episode-405-scaled-agile-pain-and-top-heavy-team/) — 2024-04-22 — [Markdown](https://raw.githubusercontent.com/soft-skills-engineering/website/refs/heads/gh-pages/_posts/2024-04-22-episode-405-scaled-agile-pain-and-top-heavy-team.md) - [Episode 404: Interview comedy and talking pay while new](https://softskills.audio/2024/04/15/episode-404-interview-comedy-and-talking-pay-while-new/) — 2024-04-15 — [Markdown](https://raw.githubusercontent.com/soft-skills-engineering/website/refs/heads/gh-pages/_posts/2024-04-15-episode-404-interview-comedy-and-talking-pay-while-new.md) - [Episode 403: Massaging the software and career never-never-land](https://softskills.audio/2024/04/08/episode-403-massaging-the-software-and-career-never-never-land/) — 2024-04-08 — [Markdown](https://raw.githubusercontent.com/soft-skills-engineering/website/refs/heads/gh-pages/_posts/2024-04-08-episode-403-massaging-the-software-and-career-never-never-land.md) - [Episode 402: It's all on fire and title inflation](https://softskills.audio/2024/04/01/episode-402-it's-all-on-fire-and-title-inflation/) — 2024-04-01 — [Markdown](https://raw.githubusercontent.com/soft-skills-engineering/website/refs/heads/gh-pages/_posts/2024-04-01-episode-402-it's-all-on-fire-and-title-inflation.md) - [Episode 401: I AM the superstar and pro-rated raise](https://softskills.audio/2024/03/25/episode-401-i-am-the-superstar-and-pro-rated-raise/) — 2024-03-25 — [Markdown](https://raw.githubusercontent.com/soft-skills-engineering/website/refs/heads/gh-pages/_posts/2024-03-25-episode-401-i-am-the-superstar-and-pro-rated-raise.md) - [Episode 400: Underperforming intern and upskilling](https://softskills.audio/2024/03/18/episode-400-underperforming-intern-and-upskilling/) — 2024-03-18 — [Markdown](https://raw.githubusercontent.com/soft-skills-engineering/website/refs/heads/gh-pages/_posts/2024-03-18-episode-400-underperforming-intern-and-upskilling.md) - [Episode 399: Higher paid than my boss and crossing over to management](https://softskills.audio/2024/03/11/episode-399-higher-paid-than-my-boss-and-crossing-over-to-management/) — 2024-03-11 — [Markdown](https://raw.githubusercontent.com/soft-skills-engineering/website/refs/heads/gh-pages/_posts/2024-03-11-episode-399-higher-paid-than-my-boss-and-crossing-over-to-management.md) - [Episode 398: Tech lead for contractors and how to detach my ego from my work](https://softskills.audio/2024/03/04/episode-398-tech-lead-for-contractors-and-how-to-detach-my-ego-from-my-work/) — 2024-03-04 — [Markdown](https://raw.githubusercontent.com/soft-skills-engineering/website/refs/heads/gh-pages/_posts/2024-03-04-episode-398-tech-lead-for-contractors-and-how-to-detach-my-ego-from-my-work.md) - [Episode 397: Skunkworks and too much work/life balance](https://softskills.audio/2024/02/26/episode-397-skunkworks-and-too-much-work-life-balance/) — 2024-02-26 — [Markdown](https://raw.githubusercontent.com/soft-skills-engineering/website/refs/heads/gh-pages/_posts/2024-02-26-episode-397-skunkworks-and-too-much-work-life-balance.md) - [Episode 396: Enthusiastic scope creep and human search engine](https://softskills.audio/2024/02/19/episode-396-enthusiastic-scope-creep-and-human-search-engine/) — 2024-02-19 — [Markdown](https://raw.githubusercontent.com/soft-skills-engineering/website/refs/heads/gh-pages/_posts/2024-02-19-episode-396-enthusiastic-scope-creep-and-human-search-engine.md) - [Episode 395: Super star teammate and Getting better with no financial incentives](https://softskills.audio/2024/02/12/episode-395-super-star-teammate-and-getting-better-with-no-financial-incentives/) — 2024-02-12 — [Markdown](https://raw.githubusercontent.com/soft-skills-engineering/website/refs/heads/gh-pages/_posts/2024-02-12-episode-395-super-star-teammate-and-getting-better-with-no-financial-incentives.md) - [Episode 394: Scrum master, weapons master and minimum tenure to not look bad](https://softskills.audio/2024/02/05/episode-394-scrum-master,-weapons-master-and-minimum-tenure-to-not-look-bad/) — 2024-02-05 — [Markdown](https://raw.githubusercontent.com/soft-skills-engineering/website/refs/heads/gh-pages/_posts/2024-02-05-episode-394-scrum-master,-weapons-master-and-minimum-tenure-to-not-look-bad.md) - [Episode 393: Soft skills for interns and intern to QA](https://softskills.audio/2024/01/29/episode-393-soft-skills-for-interns-and-intern-to-qa/) — 2024-01-29 — [Markdown](https://raw.githubusercontent.com/soft-skills-engineering/website/refs/heads/gh-pages/_posts/2024-01-29-episode-393-soft-skills-for-interns-and-intern-to-qa.md) - [Episode 392: Old code and choosing my annual reviewers](https://softskills.audio/2024/01/22/episode-392-old-code-and-choosing-my-annual-reviewers/) — 2024-01-22 — [Markdown](https://raw.githubusercontent.com/soft-skills-engineering/website/refs/heads/gh-pages/_posts/2024-01-22-episode-392-old-code-and-choosing-my-annual-reviewers.md) - [Episode 391: Post-staff and direct or a jerk](https://softskills.audio/2024/01/15/episode-391-post-staff-and-direct-or-a-jerk/) — 2024-01-15 — [Markdown](https://raw.githubusercontent.com/soft-skills-engineering/website/refs/heads/gh-pages/_posts/2024-01-15-episode-391-post-staff-and-direct-or-a-jerk.md) - [Episode 390: Fixing typos and Cassandra](https://softskills.audio/2024/01/08/episode-390-fixing-typos-and-cassandra/) — 2024-01-08 — [Markdown](https://raw.githubusercontent.com/soft-skills-engineering/website/refs/heads/gh-pages/_posts/2024-01-08-episode-390-fixing-typos-and-cassandra.md) - [Episode 389: Sleepy and bureaucracy](https://softskills.audio/2024/01/01/episode-389-sleepy-and-bureaucracy/) — 2024-01-01 — [Markdown](https://raw.githubusercontent.com/soft-skills-engineering/website/refs/heads/gh-pages/_posts/2024-01-01-episode-389-sleepy-and-bureaucracy.md) - [Episode 388: Money not compliments and principal engineer coding guidelines](https://softskills.audio/2023/12/25/episode-388-money-not-compliments-and-principal-engineer-coding-guidelines/) — 2023-12-25 — [Markdown](https://raw.githubusercontent.com/soft-skills-engineering/website/refs/heads/gh-pages/_posts/2023-12-25-episode-388-money-not-compliments-and-principal-engineer-coding-guidelines.md) - [Episode 387: No juniors and manager forced to return to office](https://softskills.audio/2023/12/18/episode-387-no-juniors-and-manager-forced-to-return-to-office/) — 2023-12-18 — [Markdown](https://raw.githubusercontent.com/soft-skills-engineering/website/refs/heads/gh-pages/_posts/2023-12-18-episode-387-no-juniors-and-manager-forced-to-return-to-office.md) - [Episode 386: Stuck with toil and how to get a dev job as a self-taught career-switcher in 2023](https://softskills.audio/2023/12/11/episode-386-stuck-with-toil-and-how-to-get-a-dev-job-as-a-self-taught-career-switcher-in-2023/) — 2023-12-11 — [Markdown](https://raw.githubusercontent.com/soft-skills-engineering/website/refs/heads/gh-pages/_posts/2023-12-11-episode-386-stuck-with-toil-and-how-to-get-a-dev-job-as-a-self-taught-career-switcher-in-2023.md) - [Episode 385: Attention to detail and sabbatical](https://softskills.audio/2023/12/04/episode-385-attention-to-detail-and-sabbatical/) — 2023-12-04 — [Markdown](https://raw.githubusercontent.com/soft-skills-engineering/website/refs/heads/gh-pages/_posts/2023-12-04-episode-385-attention-to-detail-and-sabbatical.md) - [Episode 384: EM missing code and non-location pay](https://softskills.audio/2023/11/27/episode-384-em-missing-code-and-non-location-pay/) — 2023-11-27 — [Markdown](https://raw.githubusercontent.com/soft-skills-engineering/website/refs/heads/gh-pages/_posts/2023-11-27-episode-384-em-missing-code-and-non-location-pay.md) - [Episode 383: In the trenches without writing code and how to close a social skill gap](https://softskills.audio/2023/11/20/episode-383-in-the-trenches-without-writing-code-and-how-to-close-a-social-skill-gap/) — 2023-11-20 — [Markdown](https://raw.githubusercontent.com/soft-skills-engineering/website/refs/heads/gh-pages/_posts/2023-11-20-episode-383-in-the-trenches-without-writing-code-and-how-to-close-a-social-skill-gap.md) - [Episode 382: Mentors for managers and mob programming](https://softskills.audio/2023/11/13/episode-382-mentors-for-managers-and-mob-programming/) — 2023-11-13 — [Markdown](https://raw.githubusercontent.com/soft-skills-engineering/website/refs/heads/gh-pages/_posts/2023-11-13-episode-382-mentors-for-managers-and-mob-programming.md) - [Episode 381: Doing less and bad reference](https://softskills.audio/2023/11/06/episode-381-doing-less-and-bad-reference/) — 2023-11-06 — [Markdown](https://raw.githubusercontent.com/soft-skills-engineering/website/refs/heads/gh-pages/_posts/2023-11-06-episode-381-doing-less-and-bad-reference.md) - [Episode 380: Overruled by non-technical manager and describing technical stuff to non-technical people](https://softskills.audio/2023/10/30/episode-380-overruled-by-non-technical-manager-and-describing-technical-stuff-to-non-technical-people/) — 2023-10-30 — [Markdown](https://raw.githubusercontent.com/soft-skills-engineering/website/refs/heads/gh-pages/_posts/2023-10-30-episode-380-overruled-by-non-technical-manager-and-describing-technical-stuff-to-non-technical-people.md) - [Episode 379: Someone fixed my ticket and is tech debt bad for my career](https://softskills.audio/2023/10/23/episode-379-someone-fixed-my-ticket-and-is-tech-debt-bad-for-my-career/) — 2023-10-23 — [Markdown](https://raw.githubusercontent.com/soft-skills-engineering/website/refs/heads/gh-pages/_posts/2023-10-23-episode-379-someone-fixed-my-ticket-and-is-tech-debt-bad-for-my-career.md) - [Episode 378: Too much leadership and awkward zoom silence](https://softskills.audio/2023/10/16/episode-378-too-much-leadership-and-awkward-zoom-silence/) — 2023-10-16 — [Markdown](https://raw.githubusercontent.com/soft-skills-engineering/website/refs/heads/gh-pages/_posts/2023-10-16-episode-378-too-much-leadership-and-awkward-zoom-silence.md) - [Episode 377: Short Tenure Promotion and too much free time at work](https://softskills.audio/2023/10/09/episode-377-short-tenure-promotion-and-too-much-free-time-at-work/) — 2023-10-09 — [Markdown](https://raw.githubusercontent.com/soft-skills-engineering/website/refs/heads/gh-pages/_posts/2023-10-09-episode-377-short-tenure-promotion-and-too-much-free-time-at-work.md) - [Episode 376: Return to office and quitting tech](https://softskills.audio/2023/10/02/episode-376-return-to-office-and-quitting-tech/) — 2023-10-02 — [Markdown](https://raw.githubusercontent.com/soft-skills-engineering/website/refs/heads/gh-pages/_posts/2023-10-02-episode-376-return-to-office-and-quitting-tech.md) - [Episode 375: visa woes and Bob does everything wrong](https://softskills.audio/2023/09/25/episode-375-visa-woes-and-bob-does-everything-wrong/) — 2023-09-25 — [Markdown](https://raw.githubusercontent.com/soft-skills-engineering/website/refs/heads/gh-pages/_posts/2023-09-25-episode-375-visa-woes-and-bob-does-everything-wrong.md) - [Episode 374: Secret burnout and no room for failure](https://softskills.audio/2023/09/18/episode-374-secret-burnout-and-no-room-for-failure/) — 2023-09-18 — [Markdown](https://raw.githubusercontent.com/soft-skills-engineering/website/refs/heads/gh-pages/_posts/2023-09-18-episode-374-secret-burnout-and-no-room-for-failure.md) - [Episode 373: I have no vision and not-so-positive environment](https://softskills.audio/2023/09/11/episode-373-i-have-no-vision-and-not-so-positive-environment/) — 2023-09-11 — [Markdown](https://raw.githubusercontent.com/soft-skills-engineering/website/refs/heads/gh-pages/_posts/2023-09-11-episode-373-i-have-no-vision-and-not-so-positive-environment.md) - [Episode 372: Equity and getting interrupted in Zoom meetings](https://softskills.audio/2023/09/04/episode-372-equity-and-getting-interrupted-in-zoom-meetings/) — 2023-09-04 — [Markdown](https://raw.githubusercontent.com/soft-skills-engineering/website/refs/heads/gh-pages/_posts/2023-09-04-episode-372-equity-and-getting-interrupted-in-zoom-meetings.md) - [Episode 371: After Mary Poppins and credit denied](https://softskills.audio/2023/08/28/episode-371-after-mary-poppins-and-credit-denied/) — 2023-08-28 — [Markdown](https://raw.githubusercontent.com/soft-skills-engineering/website/refs/heads/gh-pages/_posts/2023-08-28-episode-371-after-mary-poppins-and-credit-denied.md) - [Episode 370: Fake imposter syndrome and opposite ends](https://softskills.audio/2023/08/21/episode-370-fake-imposter-syndrome-and-opposite-ends/) — 2023-08-21 — [Markdown](https://raw.githubusercontent.com/soft-skills-engineering/website/refs/heads/gh-pages/_posts/2023-08-21-episode-370-fake-imposter-syndrome-and-opposite-ends.md) - [Episode 369: Staying at a sinking ship and behavioral interview questions](https://softskills.audio/2023/08/14/episode-369-staying-at-a-sinking-ship-and-behavioral-interview-questions/) — 2023-08-14 — [Markdown](https://raw.githubusercontent.com/soft-skills-engineering/website/refs/heads/gh-pages/_posts/2023-08-14-episode-369-staying-at-a-sinking-ship-and-behavioral-interview-questions.md) - [Episode 368: Manager in crisis and cutting costs](https://softskills.audio/2023/08/07/episode-368-manager-in-crisis-and-cutting-costs/) — 2023-08-07 — [Markdown](https://raw.githubusercontent.com/soft-skills-engineering/website/refs/heads/gh-pages/_posts/2023-08-07-episode-368-manager-in-crisis-and-cutting-costs.md) - [Episode 367: Hybrid denier and recovering from crying](https://softskills.audio/2023/07/31/episode-367-hybrid-denier-and-recovering-from-crying/) — 2023-07-31 — [Markdown](https://raw.githubusercontent.com/soft-skills-engineering/website/refs/heads/gh-pages/_posts/2023-07-31-episode-367-hybrid-denier-and-recovering-from-crying.md) - [Episode 366: No FE work and my co-worker is a parrot](https://softskills.audio/2023/07/24/episode-366-no-fe-work-and-my-co-worker-is-a-parrot/) — 2023-07-24 — [Markdown](https://raw.githubusercontent.com/soft-skills-engineering/website/refs/heads/gh-pages/_posts/2023-07-24-episode-366-no-fe-work-and-my-co-worker-is-a-parrot.md) - [Episode 365: Rerun of 307, side hustles and telling me when you are stuck](https://softskills.audio/2023/07/17/episode-365-rerun-of-307/) — 2023-07-17 — [Markdown](https://raw.githubusercontent.com/soft-skills-engineering/website/refs/heads/gh-pages/_posts/2023-07-17-episode-365-rerun-of-307.md) - [Episode 364: EMs doing technical tasks and too soft?](https://softskills.audio/2023/07/10/episode-364-ems-doing-technical-tasks-and-too-soft/) — 2023-07-10 — [Markdown](https://raw.githubusercontent.com/soft-skills-engineering/website/refs/heads/gh-pages/_posts/2023-07-10-episode-364-ems-doing-technical-tasks-and-too-soft?.md) - [Episode 363: Future impact of tech stacks and async communication](https://softskills.audio/2023/07/03/episode-363-future-impact-of-tech-stacks-and-async-communication/) — 2023-07-03 — [Markdown](https://raw.githubusercontent.com/soft-skills-engineering/website/refs/heads/gh-pages/_posts/2023-07-03-episode-363-future-impact-of-tech-stacks-and-async-communication.md) - [Episode 362: Running the clock down and updating linkedin without freaking people out](https://softskills.audio/2023/06/26/episode-362-running-the-clock-down-and-updating-linkedin-without-freaking-people-out/) — 2023-06-26 — [Markdown](https://raw.githubusercontent.com/soft-skills-engineering/website/refs/heads/gh-pages/_posts/2023-06-26-episode-362-running-the-clock-down-and-updating-linkedin-without-freaking-people-out.md) - [Episode 361: Get git and non-tech ramping up](https://softskills.audio/2023/06/19/episode-361-get-git-and-non-tech-ramping-up/) — 2023-06-19 — [Markdown](https://raw.githubusercontent.com/soft-skills-engineering/website/refs/heads/gh-pages/_posts/2023-06-19-episode-361-get-git-and-non-tech-ramping-up.md) - [Episode 360: Mixing up names and improving without feedback](https://softskills.audio/2023/06/12/episode-360-mixing-up-names-and-improving-without-feedback/) — 2023-06-12 — [Markdown](https://raw.githubusercontent.com/soft-skills-engineering/website/refs/heads/gh-pages/_posts/2023-06-12-episode-360-mixing-up-names-and-improving-without-feedback.md) - [Episode 359: Competition and awkward in person](https://softskills.audio/2023/06/05/episode-359-competition-and-awkward-in-person/) — 2023-06-05 — [Markdown](https://raw.githubusercontent.com/soft-skills-engineering/website/refs/heads/gh-pages/_posts/2023-06-05-episode-359-competition-and-awkward-in-person.md) - [Episode 358: Sticky Note Scandal and startup appeal](https://softskills.audio/2023/05/29/episode-358-sticky-note-scandal-and-startup-appeal/) — 2023-05-29 — [Markdown](https://raw.githubusercontent.com/soft-skills-engineering/website/refs/heads/gh-pages/_posts/2023-05-29-episode-358-sticky-note-scandal-and-startup-appeal.md) - [Episode 357: Waiting to be paid and survivor's guilt](https://softskills.audio/2023/05/22/episode-357-waiting-to-be-paid-and-survivor's-guilt/) — 2023-05-22 — [Markdown](https://raw.githubusercontent.com/soft-skills-engineering/website/refs/heads/gh-pages/_posts/2023-05-22-episode-357-waiting-to-be-paid-and-survivor's-guilt.md) - [Episode 356: Ummmmmmmmm and failed spikes](https://softskills.audio/2023/05/15/episode-356-ummmmmmmmm-and-failed-spikes/) — 2023-05-15 — [Markdown](https://raw.githubusercontent.com/soft-skills-engineering/website/refs/heads/gh-pages/_posts/2023-05-15-episode-356-ummmmmmmmm-and-failed-spikes.md) - [Episode 355: Driving kids instead of team and jk i quit](https://softskills.audio/2023/05/08/episode-355-driving-kids-instead-of-team-and-jk-i-quit/) — 2023-05-08 — [Markdown](https://raw.githubusercontent.com/soft-skills-engineering/website/refs/heads/gh-pages/_posts/2023-05-08-episode-355-driving-kids-instead-of-team-and-jk-i-quit.md) - [Episode 354: Good at circuits, bad at git and ghosts of team members past](https://softskills.audio/2023/05/01/episode-354-good-at-circuits,-bad-at-git-and-ghosts-of-team-members-past/) — 2023-05-01 — [Markdown](https://raw.githubusercontent.com/soft-skills-engineering/website/refs/heads/gh-pages/_posts/2023-05-01-episode-354-good-at-circuits,-bad-at-git-and-ghosts-of-team-members-past.md) - [Episode 353: Easter outage and unethical things](https://softskills.audio/2023/04/24/episode-353-easter-outage-and-unethical-things/) — 2023-04-24 — [Markdown](https://raw.githubusercontent.com/soft-skills-engineering/website/refs/heads/gh-pages/_posts/2023-04-24-episode-353-easter-outage-and-unethical-things.md) - [Episode 352: Exploding manager and I hate computers](https://softskills.audio/2023/04/17/episode-352-exploding-manager-and-i-hate-computers/) — 2023-04-17 — [Markdown](https://raw.githubusercontent.com/soft-skills-engineering/website/refs/heads/gh-pages/_posts/2023-04-17-episode-352-exploding-manager-and-i-hate-computers.md) - [Episode 351: Senior hoarding and layabout lead dev](https://softskills.audio/2023/04/10/episode-351-senior-hoarding-and-layabout-lead-dev/) — 2023-04-10 — [Markdown](https://raw.githubusercontent.com/soft-skills-engineering/website/refs/heads/gh-pages/_posts/2023-04-10-episode-351-senior-hoarding-and-layabout-lead-dev.md) - [Episode 350: Bombing a technical interview and background vetting](https://softskills.audio/2023/04/03/episode-350-bombing-a-technical-interview-and-background-vetting/) — 2023-04-03 — [Markdown](https://raw.githubusercontent.com/soft-skills-engineering/website/refs/heads/gh-pages/_posts/2023-04-03-episode-350-bombing-a-technical-interview-and-background-vetting.md) - [Episode 349: Performance review dissonance and being a remote manager](https://softskills.audio/2023/03/27/episode-349-performance-review-dissonance-and-being-a-remote-manager/) — 2023-03-27 — [Markdown](https://raw.githubusercontent.com/soft-skills-engineering/website/refs/heads/gh-pages/_posts/2023-03-27-episode-349-performance-review-dissonance-and-being-a-remote-manager.md) - [Episode 348: Making too many mistakes and low code career risk](https://softskills.audio/2023/03/20/episode-348-making-too-many-mistakes-and-low-code-career-risk/) — 2023-03-20 — [Markdown](https://raw.githubusercontent.com/soft-skills-engineering/website/refs/heads/gh-pages/_posts/2023-03-20-episode-348-making-too-many-mistakes-and-low-code-career-risk.md) - [Episode 347: New untrusting manager and crappy project management](https://softskills.audio/2023/03/13/episode-347-new-untrusting-manager-and-crappy-project-management/) — 2023-03-13 — [Markdown](https://raw.githubusercontent.com/soft-skills-engineering/website/refs/heads/gh-pages/_posts/2023-03-13-episode-347-new-untrusting-manager-and-crappy-project-management.md) - [Episode 346: Changing jobs with no raise and wrangling a cowboy coder](https://softskills.audio/2023/03/06/episode-346-changing-jobs-with-no-raise-and-wrangling-a-cowboy-coder/) — 2023-03-06 — [Markdown](https://raw.githubusercontent.com/soft-skills-engineering/website/refs/heads/gh-pages/_posts/2023-03-06-episode-346-changing-jobs-with-no-raise-and-wrangling-a-cowboy-coder.md) - [Episode 345: Head of Engineering vs writing code and Voluntary Severance](https://softskills.audio/2023/02/27/episode-345-head-of-engineering-vs-writing-code-and-voluntary-severance/) — 2023-02-27 — [Markdown](https://raw.githubusercontent.com/soft-skills-engineering/website/refs/heads/gh-pages/_posts/2023-02-27-episode-345-head-of-engineering-vs-writing-code-and-voluntary-severance.md) - [Episode 344: Showing impact without hiring and over over over engineering](https://softskills.audio/2023/02/20/episode-344-showing-impact-without-hiring-and-over-over-over-engineering/) — 2023-02-20 — [Markdown](https://raw.githubusercontent.com/soft-skills-engineering/website/refs/heads/gh-pages/_posts/2023-02-20-episode-344-showing-impact-without-hiring-and-over-over-over-engineering.md) - [Episode 343: Tech lead/manager and discouraging seniors](https://softskills.audio/2023/02/13/episode-343-tech-lead-manager-and-discouraging-seniors/) — 2023-02-13 — [Markdown](https://raw.githubusercontent.com/soft-skills-engineering/website/refs/heads/gh-pages/_posts/2023-02-13-episode-343-tech-lead-manager-and-discouraging-seniors.md) - [Episode 342: Losing my job to AI and bad review season](https://softskills.audio/2023/02/06/episode-342-losing-my-job-to-ai-and-bad-review-season/) — 2023-02-06 — [Markdown](https://raw.githubusercontent.com/soft-skills-engineering/website/refs/heads/gh-pages/_posts/2023-02-06-episode-342-losing-my-job-to-ai-and-bad-review-season.md) - [Episode 341: Offer rescinded and layoff stuff](https://softskills.audio/2023/01/30/episode-341-offer-rescinded-and-layoff-stuff/) — 2023-01-30 — [Markdown](https://raw.githubusercontent.com/soft-skills-engineering/website/refs/heads/gh-pages/_posts/2023-01-30-episode-341-offer-rescinded-and-layoff-stuff.md) - [Episode 340: Productivity lulls and code review showdown](https://softskills.audio/2023/01/23/episode-340-productivity-lulls-and-code-review-showdown/) — 2023-01-23 — [Markdown](https://raw.githubusercontent.com/soft-skills-engineering/website/refs/heads/gh-pages/_posts/2023-01-23-episode-340-productivity-lulls-and-code-review-showdown.md) - [Episode 339: Coworker double-dipping and building toxic community](https://softskills.audio/2023/01/16/episode-339-coworker-double-dipping-and-building-toxic-community/) — 2023-01-16 — [Markdown](https://raw.githubusercontent.com/soft-skills-engineering/website/refs/heads/gh-pages/_posts/2023-01-16-episode-339-coworker-double-dipping-and-building-toxic-community.md) - [Episode 338: I am the golden handcuffs and Staying in management](https://softskills.audio/2023/01/09/episode-338-i-am-the-golden-handcuffs-and-staying-in-management/) — 2023-01-09 — [Markdown](https://raw.githubusercontent.com/soft-skills-engineering/website/refs/heads/gh-pages/_posts/2023-01-09-episode-338-i-am-the-golden-handcuffs-and-staying-in-management.md) - [Episode 337: Helping the principal and Manager conflict](https://softskills.audio/2023/01/02/episode-337-helping-the-principal-and-manager-conflict/) — 2023-01-02 — [Markdown](https://raw.githubusercontent.com/soft-skills-engineering/website/refs/heads/gh-pages/_posts/2023-01-02-episode-337-helping-the-principal-and-manager-conflict.md) - [Episode 336: Roadmap roadkill and returning to office](https://softskills.audio/2022/12/26/episode-336-roadmap-roadkill-and-returning-to-office/) — 2022-12-26 — [Markdown](https://raw.githubusercontent.com/soft-skills-engineering/website/refs/heads/gh-pages/_posts/2022-12-26-episode-336-roadmap-roadkill-and-returning-to-office.md) - [Episode 335: Senior questions and overly optimistic](https://softskills.audio/2022/12/19/episode-335-senior-questions-and-overly-optimistic/) — 2022-12-19 — [Markdown](https://raw.githubusercontent.com/soft-skills-engineering/website/refs/heads/gh-pages/_posts/2022-12-19-episode-335-senior-questions-and-overly-optimistic.md) - [Episode 334: Personal brand and awkward silence](https://softskills.audio/2022/12/12/episode-334-personal-brand-and-awkward-silence/) — 2022-12-12 — [Markdown](https://raw.githubusercontent.com/soft-skills-engineering/website/refs/heads/gh-pages/_posts/2022-12-12-episode-334-personal-brand-and-awkward-silence.md) - [Episode 333: Unsure about management and I shall decline the offer](https://softskills.audio/2022/12/05/episode-333-unsure-about-management-and-i-shall-decline-the-offer/) — 2022-12-05 — [Markdown](https://raw.githubusercontent.com/soft-skills-engineering/website/refs/heads/gh-pages/_posts/2022-12-05-episode-333-unsure-about-management-and-i-shall-decline-the-offer.md) - [Episode 332: Layoff + baby survival and 18-year-old CS graduate](https://softskills.audio/2022/11/28/episode-332-layoff-+-baby-survival-and-18-year-old-cs-graduate/) — 2022-11-28 — [Markdown](https://raw.githubusercontent.com/soft-skills-engineering/website/refs/heads/gh-pages/_posts/2022-11-28-episode-332-layoff-+-baby-survival-and-18-year-old-cs-graduate.md) - [Episode 331: Prickly ticket and title downgrade](https://softskills.audio/2022/11/21/episode-331-prickly-ticket-and-title-downgrade/) — 2022-11-21 — [Markdown](https://raw.githubusercontent.com/soft-skills-engineering/website/refs/heads/gh-pages/_posts/2022-11-21-episode-331-prickly-ticket-and-title-downgrade.md) - [Episode 330: Mixed signals and not ready for senior](https://softskills.audio/2022/11/14/episode-330-mixed-signals-and-not-ready-for-senior/) — 2022-11-14 — [Markdown](https://raw.githubusercontent.com/soft-skills-engineering/website/refs/heads/gh-pages/_posts/2022-11-14-episode-330-mixed-signals-and-not-ready-for-senior.md) - [Episode 329: Falling behind and can't get a management job](https://softskills.audio/2022/11/07/episode-329-falling-behind-and-can't-get-a-management-job/) — 2022-11-07 — [Markdown](https://raw.githubusercontent.com/soft-skills-engineering/website/refs/heads/gh-pages/_posts/2022-11-07-episode-329-falling-behind-and-can't-get-a-management-job.md) - [Episode 328: Fear of sudden firing and reducing the lottery factor](https://softskills.audio/2022/10/31/episode-328-fear-of-sudden-firing-and-reducing-the-lottery-factor/) — 2022-10-31 — [Markdown](https://raw.githubusercontent.com/soft-skills-engineering/website/refs/heads/gh-pages/_posts/2022-10-31-episode-328-fear-of-sudden-firing-and-reducing-the-lottery-factor.md) - [Episode 327: Remote with onsite team and undercover refactor](https://softskills.audio/2022/10/24/episode-327-remote-with-onsite-team-and-undercover-refactor/) — 2022-10-24 — [Markdown](https://raw.githubusercontent.com/soft-skills-engineering/website/refs/heads/gh-pages/_posts/2022-10-24-episode-327-remote-with-onsite-team-and-undercover-refactor.md) - [Episode 326: Good perks, bad code and paper shredder suggestion box](https://softskills.audio/2022/10/17/episode-326-good-perks,-bad-code-and-paper-shredder-suggestion-box/) — 2022-10-17 — [Markdown](https://raw.githubusercontent.com/soft-skills-engineering/website/refs/heads/gh-pages/_posts/2022-10-17-episode-326-good-perks,-bad-code-and-paper-shredder-suggestion-box.md) - [Episode 325: Surprise PIP and salary leak](https://softskills.audio/2022/10/10/episode-325-surprise-pip-and-salary-leak/) — 2022-10-10 — [Markdown](https://raw.githubusercontent.com/soft-skills-engineering/website/refs/heads/gh-pages/_posts/2022-10-10-episode-325-surprise-pip-and-salary-leak.md) - [Episode 324: Understanding accents and mega soft skills](https://softskills.audio/2022/10/03/episode-324-understanding-accents-and-mega-soft-skills/) — 2022-10-03 — [Markdown](https://raw.githubusercontent.com/soft-skills-engineering/website/refs/heads/gh-pages/_posts/2022-10-03-episode-324-understanding-accents-and-mega-soft-skills.md) - [Episode 323: Shopping offers and returning equipment](https://softskills.audio/2022/09/26/episode-323-shopping-offers-and-returning-equipment/) — 2022-09-26 — [Markdown](https://raw.githubusercontent.com/soft-skills-engineering/website/refs/heads/gh-pages/_posts/2022-09-26-episode-323-shopping-offers-and-returning-equipment.md) - [Episode 322: Cover blown and no one cares](https://softskills.audio/2022/09/19/episode-322-cover-blown-and-no-one-cares/) — 2022-09-19 — [Markdown](https://raw.githubusercontent.com/soft-skills-engineering/website/refs/heads/gh-pages/_posts/2022-09-19-episode-322-cover-blown-and-no-one-cares.md) - [Episode 321: Politely, no and participation at scale](https://softskills.audio/2022/09/12/episode-321-politely,-no-and-participation-at-scale/) — 2022-09-12 — [Markdown](https://raw.githubusercontent.com/soft-skills-engineering/website/refs/heads/gh-pages/_posts/2022-09-12-episode-321-politely,-no-and-participation-at-scale.md) - [Episode 320: Hot and less hot and no privileges](https://softskills.audio/2022/09/05/episode-320-hot-and-less-hot-and-no-privileges/) — 2022-09-05 — [Markdown](https://raw.githubusercontent.com/soft-skills-engineering/website/refs/heads/gh-pages/_posts/2022-09-05-episode-320-hot-and-less-hot-and-no-privileges.md) - [Episode 319: Steve's babysitter and these uncertain times](https://softskills.audio/2022/08/29/episode-319-steve's-babysitter-and-these-uncertain-times/) — 2022-08-29 — [Markdown](https://raw.githubusercontent.com/soft-skills-engineering/website/refs/heads/gh-pages/_posts/2022-08-29-episode-319-steve's-babysitter-and-these-uncertain-times.md) - [Episode 318: Staff and part time dev](https://softskills.audio/2022/08/22/episode-318-staff-and-part-time-dev/) — 2022-08-22 — [Markdown](https://raw.githubusercontent.com/soft-skills-engineering/website/refs/heads/gh-pages/_posts/2022-08-22-episode-318-staff-and-part-time-dev.md) - [Episode 317: Process renegades and hiding my disgrunteledness](https://softskills.audio/2022/08/15/episode-317-process-renegades-and-hiding-my-disgrunteledness/) — 2022-08-15 — [Markdown](https://raw.githubusercontent.com/soft-skills-engineering/website/refs/heads/gh-pages/_posts/2022-08-15-episode-317-process-renegades-and-hiding-my-disgrunteledness.md) - [Episode 316: Skills reboot and quitting the perfect job](https://softskills.audio/2022/08/08/episode-316-skills-reboot-and-quitting-the-perfect-job/) — 2022-08-08 — [Markdown](https://raw.githubusercontent.com/soft-skills-engineering/website/refs/heads/gh-pages/_posts/2022-08-08-episode-316-skills-reboot-and-quitting-the-perfect-job.md) - [Episode 315: Poor feedback recipient and rubber duck](https://softskills.audio/2022/08/01/episode-315-poor-feedback-recipient-and-rubber-duck/) — 2022-08-01 — [Markdown](https://raw.githubusercontent.com/soft-skills-engineering/website/refs/heads/gh-pages/_posts/2022-08-01-episode-315-poor-feedback-recipient-and-rubber-duck.md) - [Episode 314: "That guy" and how to skip level](https://softskills.audio/2022/07/25/episode-314-that-guy-and-how-to-skip-level/) — 2022-07-25 — [Markdown](https://raw.githubusercontent.com/soft-skills-engineering/website/refs/heads/gh-pages/_posts/2022-07-25-episode-314-"that-guy"-and-how-to-skip-level.md) - [Episode 313: Parents are fighting and hat-removal](https://softskills.audio/2022/07/18/episode-313-parents-are-fighting-and-hat-removal/) — 2022-07-18 — [Markdown](https://raw.githubusercontent.com/soft-skills-engineering/website/refs/heads/gh-pages/_posts/2022-07-18-episode-313-parents-are-fighting-and-hat-removal.md) - [Episode 312: Nit-picking and Promo raises](https://softskills.audio/2022/07/11/episode-312-nit-picking-and-promo-raises/) — 2022-07-11 — [Markdown](https://raw.githubusercontent.com/soft-skills-engineering/website/refs/heads/gh-pages/_posts/2022-07-11-episode-312-nit-picking-and-promo-raises.md) - [Episode 311: (rerun of 207) Unclear career goals and garbage code](https://softskills.audio/2022/07/04/episode-311-rerun-of-207/) — 2022-07-04 — [Markdown](https://raw.githubusercontent.com/soft-skills-engineering/website/refs/heads/gh-pages/_posts/2022-07-04-episode-311-rerun-of-207.md) - [Episode 310: Flip flop and architecture astronaut](https://softskills.audio/2022/06/27/episode-310-flip-flop-and-architecture-astronaut/) — 2022-06-27 — [Markdown](https://raw.githubusercontent.com/soft-skills-engineering/website/refs/heads/gh-pages/_posts/2022-06-27-episode-310-flip-flop-and-architecture-astronaut.md) - [Episode 309: Missing boss support and new manager, who dis](https://softskills.audio/2022/06/20/episode-309-missing-boss-support-and-new-manager,-who-dis/) — 2022-06-20 — [Markdown](https://raw.githubusercontent.com/soft-skills-engineering/website/refs/heads/gh-pages/_posts/2022-06-20-episode-309-missing-boss-support-and-new-manager,-who-dis.md) - [Episode 308: FAANG to startup and Google interview prep](https://softskills.audio/2022/06/13/episode-308-faang-to-startup-and-google-interview-prep/) — 2022-06-13 — [Markdown](https://raw.githubusercontent.com/soft-skills-engineering/website/refs/heads/gh-pages/_posts/2022-06-13-episode-308-faang-to-startup-and-google-interview-prep.md) - [Episode 307: Side hustle or new job and tell me when you're stuck](https://softskills.audio/2022/06/06/episode-307-side-hustle-or-new-job-and-tell-me-when-you're-stuck/) — 2022-06-06 — [Markdown](https://raw.githubusercontent.com/soft-skills-engineering/website/refs/heads/gh-pages/_posts/2022-06-06-episode-307-side-hustle-or-new-job-and-tell-me-when-you're-stuck.md) - [Episode 306: Sabbaticals and betray my team](https://softskills.audio/2022/05/30/episode-306-sabbaticals-and-betray-my-team/) — 2022-05-30 — [Markdown](https://raw.githubusercontent.com/soft-skills-engineering/website/refs/heads/gh-pages/_posts/2022-05-30-episode-306-sabbaticals-and-betray-my-team.md) - [Episode 305: About that raise and *you're* not fired](https://softskills.audio/2022/05/23/episode-305-about-that-raise-and-you're-not-fired/) — 2022-05-23 — [Markdown](https://raw.githubusercontent.com/soft-skills-engineering/website/refs/heads/gh-pages/_posts/2022-05-23-episode-305-about-that-raise-and-*you're*-not-fired.md) - [Episode 304: My subordinate is smarter than me and confused in meetings](https://softskills.audio/2022/05/16/episode-304-my-subordinate-is-smarter-than-me-and-confused-in-meetings/) — 2022-05-16 — [Markdown](https://raw.githubusercontent.com/soft-skills-engineering/website/refs/heads/gh-pages/_posts/2022-05-16-episode-304-my-subordinate-is-smarter-than-me-and-confused-in-meetings.md) - [Episode 303: Should I stop coding and off to the field](https://softskills.audio/2022/05/09/episode-303-should-i-stop-coding-and-off-to-the-field/) — 2022-05-09 — [Markdown](https://raw.githubusercontent.com/soft-skills-engineering/website/refs/heads/gh-pages/_posts/2022-05-09-episode-303-should-i-stop-coding-and-off-to-the-field.md) - [Episode 302: Bad boss movies and well-written emails](https://softskills.audio/2022/05/02/episode-302-bad-boss-movies-and-well-written-emails/) — 2022-05-02 — [Markdown](https://raw.githubusercontent.com/soft-skills-engineering/website/refs/heads/gh-pages/_posts/2022-05-02-episode-302-bad-boss-movies-and-well-written-emails.md) - [Episode 301: I forced the framework and product stealing credit](https://softskills.audio/2022/04/25/episode-301-i-forced-the-framework-and-product-stealing-credit/) — 2022-04-25 — [Markdown](https://raw.githubusercontent.com/soft-skills-engineering/website/refs/heads/gh-pages/_posts/2022-04-25-episode-301-i-forced-the-framework-and-product-stealing-credit.md) - [Episode 300: Manager move and cultural or personal](https://softskills.audio/2022/04/18/episode-300-manager-move-and-cultural-or-personal/) — 2022-04-18 — [Markdown](https://raw.githubusercontent.com/soft-skills-engineering/website/refs/heads/gh-pages/_posts/2022-04-18-episode-300-manager-move-and-cultural-or-personal.md) - [Episode 299: Neophyte estimates and forced framework](https://softskills.audio/2022/04/11/episode-299-neophyte-estimates-and-forced-framework/) — 2022-04-11 — [Markdown](https://raw.githubusercontent.com/soft-skills-engineering/website/refs/heads/gh-pages/_posts/2022-04-11-episode-299-neophyte-estimates-and-forced-framework.md) - [Episode 298: Thanks, and goodbye and fessing up](https://softskills.audio/2022/04/04/episode-298-thanks,-and-goodbye-and-fessing-up/) — 2022-04-04 — [Markdown](https://raw.githubusercontent.com/soft-skills-engineering/website/refs/heads/gh-pages/_posts/2022-04-04-episode-298-thanks,-and-goodbye-and-fessing-up.md) - [Episode 297: Flat decisions and pointy-haired boss](https://softskills.audio/2022/03/28/episode-297-flat-decisions-and-pointy-haired-boss/) — 2022-03-28 — [Markdown](https://raw.githubusercontent.com/soft-skills-engineering/website/refs/heads/gh-pages/_posts/2022-03-28-episode-297-flat-decisions-and-pointy-haired-boss.md) - [Episode 296: Low performer and frantic manager](https://softskills.audio/2022/03/21/episode-296-low-performer-and-frantic-manager/) — 2022-03-21 — [Markdown](https://raw.githubusercontent.com/soft-skills-engineering/website/refs/heads/gh-pages/_posts/2022-03-21-episode-296-low-performer-and-frantic-manager.md) - [Episode 295: Underleveled at FAANG and lazy tech lead](https://softskills.audio/2022/03/14/episode-295-underleveled-at-faang-and-lazy-tech-lead/) — 2022-03-14 — [Markdown](https://raw.githubusercontent.com/soft-skills-engineering/website/refs/heads/gh-pages/_posts/2022-03-14-episode-295-underleveled-at-faang-and-lazy-tech-lead.md) - [Episode 294: Unqualified internal applicant and speculative specs](https://softskills.audio/2022/03/07/episode-294-unqualified-internal-applicant-and-speculative-specs/) — 2022-03-07 — [Markdown](https://raw.githubusercontent.com/soft-skills-engineering/website/refs/heads/gh-pages/_posts/2022-03-07-episode-294-unqualified-internal-applicant-and-speculative-specs.md) - [Episode 293: Moving TOO fast and following my manager](https://softskills.audio/2022/02/28/episode-293-moving-too-fast-and-following-my-manager/) — 2022-02-28 — [Markdown](https://raw.githubusercontent.com/soft-skills-engineering/website/refs/heads/gh-pages/_posts/2022-02-28-episode-293-moving-too-fast-and-following-my-manager.md) - [Episode 292: Haunted by former co-worker and awkward manager endorsement](https://softskills.audio/2022/02/21/episode-292-haunted-by-former-co-worker-and-awkward-manager-endorsement/) — 2022-02-21 — [Markdown](https://raw.githubusercontent.com/soft-skills-engineering/website/refs/heads/gh-pages/_posts/2022-02-21-episode-292-haunted-by-former-co-worker-and-awkward-manager-endorsement.md) - [Episode 291: Hyper-productive team lead and hyper-unproductive senior engineer](https://softskills.audio/2022/02/14/episode-291-hyper-productive-team-lead-and-hyper-unproductive-senior-engineer/) — 2022-02-14 — [Markdown](https://raw.githubusercontent.com/soft-skills-engineering/website/refs/heads/gh-pages/_posts/2022-02-14-episode-291-hyper-productive-team-lead-and-hyper-unproductive-senior-engineer.md) - [Episode 290: Past offers and from QA to PM](https://softskills.audio/2022/02/07/episode-290-past-offers-and-from-qa-to-pm/) — 2022-02-07 — [Markdown](https://raw.githubusercontent.com/soft-skills-engineering/website/refs/heads/gh-pages/_posts/2022-02-07-episode-290-past-offers-and-from-qa-to-pm.md) - [Episode 289: Sharing wisdom nicely and too many raises?](https://softskills.audio/2022/01/31/episode-289-sharing-wisdom-nicely-and-too-many-raises/) — 2022-01-31 — [Markdown](https://raw.githubusercontent.com/soft-skills-engineering/website/refs/heads/gh-pages/_posts/2022-01-31-episode-289-sharing-wisdom-nicely-and-too-many-raises.md) - [Episode 288: Too excited about learning and furious boss when quitting](https://softskills.audio/2022/01/24/episode-288-too-excited-about-learning-and-furious-boss-when-quitting/) — 2022-01-24 — [Markdown](https://raw.githubusercontent.com/soft-skills-engineering/website/refs/heads/gh-pages/_posts/2022-01-24-episode-288-too-excited-about-learning-and-furious-boss-when-quitting.md) - [Episode 287: Informal favoritism and post-hoc finger pointing](https://softskills.audio/2022/01/17/episode-287-informal-favoritism-and-post-hoc-finger-pointing/) — 2022-01-17 — [Markdown](https://raw.githubusercontent.com/soft-skills-engineering/website/refs/heads/gh-pages/_posts/2022-01-17-episode-287-informal-favoritism-and-post-hoc-finger-pointing.md) - [Episode 286: I don't care about borkchain and morning procrastination?](https://softskills.audio/2022/01/10/episode-286-i-don't-care-about-borkchain-and-morning-procrastination/) — 2022-01-10 — [Markdown](https://raw.githubusercontent.com/soft-skills-engineering/website/refs/heads/gh-pages/_posts/2022-01-10-episode-286-i-don't-care-about-borkchain-and-morning-procrastination?.md) - [Episode 285: Staying technical as a manager and skill over seniority](https://softskills.audio/2022/01/03/episode-285-staying-technical-as-a-manager-and-skill-over-seniority/) — 2022-01-03 — [Markdown](https://raw.githubusercontent.com/soft-skills-engineering/website/refs/heads/gh-pages/_posts/2022-01-03-episode-285-staying-technical-as-a-manager-and-skill-over-seniority.md) - [Episode 284: Slow mentee ramp-up and quit before new job?](https://softskills.audio/2021/12/27/episode-284-slow-mentee-ramp-up-and-quit-before-new-job/) — 2021-12-27 — [Markdown](https://raw.githubusercontent.com/soft-skills-engineering/website/refs/heads/gh-pages/_posts/2021-12-27-episode-284-slow-mentee-ramp-up-and-quit-before-new-job?.md) - [Episode 283: Jealousy and burnout](https://softskills.audio/2021/12/20/episode-283-jealousy-and-burnout/) — 2021-12-20 — [Markdown](https://raw.githubusercontent.com/soft-skills-engineering/website/refs/heads/gh-pages/_posts/2021-12-20-episode-283-jealousy-and-burnout.md) - [Episode 282: Setting boundaries late and junior joy](https://softskills.audio/2021/12/13/episode-282-setting-boundaries-late-and-junior-joy/) — 2021-12-13 — [Markdown](https://raw.githubusercontent.com/soft-skills-engineering/website/refs/heads/gh-pages/_posts/2021-12-13-episode-282-setting-boundaries-late-and-junior-joy.md) - [Episode 281: Contractor is sus and too much job hopping?](https://softskills.audio/2021/12/06/episode-281-contractor-is-sus-and-too-much-job-hopping/) — 2021-12-06 — [Markdown](https://raw.githubusercontent.com/soft-skills-engineering/website/refs/heads/gh-pages/_posts/2021-12-06-episode-281-contractor-is-sus-and-too-much-job-hopping?.md) - [Episode 280: Async communication and how to quit not nicely](https://softskills.audio/2021/11/29/episode-280-async-communication-and-how-to-quit-not-nicely/) — 2021-11-29 — [Markdown](https://raw.githubusercontent.com/soft-skills-engineering/website/refs/heads/gh-pages/_posts/2021-11-29-episode-280-async-communication-and-how-to-quit-not-nicely.md) - [Episode 279: (Rerun of 220) Premature leadership push and credit and status](https://softskills.audio/2021/11/22/episode-279-rerun-of-220-premature-leadership-push-and-credit-and-status/) — 2021-11-22 — [Markdown](https://raw.githubusercontent.com/soft-skills-engineering/website/refs/heads/gh-pages/_posts/2021-11-22-episode-279-rerun-of-220-premature-leadership-push-and-credit-and-status.md) - [Episode 278: PM to engineer and pressure to stay after quitting](https://softskills.audio/2021/11/15/episode-278-pm-to-engineer-and-pressure-to-stay-after-quitting/) — 2021-11-15 — [Markdown](https://raw.githubusercontent.com/soft-skills-engineering/website/refs/heads/gh-pages/_posts/2021-11-15-episode-278-pm-to-engineer-and-pressure-to-stay-after-quitting.md) - [Episode 277: Super long code reviews and replacement laptop](https://softskills.audio/2021/11/08/episode-277-super-long-code-reviews-and-replacement-laptop/) — 2021-11-08 — [Markdown](https://raw.githubusercontent.com/soft-skills-engineering/website/refs/heads/gh-pages/_posts/2021-11-08-episode-277-super-long-code-reviews-and-replacement-laptop.md) - [Episode 276: Startup or big company and negotiating your exit?](https://softskills.audio/2021/11/01/episode-276-startup-or-big-company-and-negotiating-your-exit/) — 2021-11-01 — [Markdown](https://raw.githubusercontent.com/soft-skills-engineering/website/refs/heads/gh-pages/_posts/2021-11-01-episode-276-startup-or-big-company-and-negotiating-your-exit?.md) - [Episode 275: Take-home tests and doing my own recruiting](https://softskills.audio/2021/10/25/episode-275-take-home-tests-and-doing-my-own-recruiting/) — 2021-10-25 — [Markdown](https://raw.githubusercontent.com/soft-skills-engineering/website/refs/heads/gh-pages/_posts/2021-10-25-episode-275-take-home-tests-and-doing-my-own-recruiting.md) - [Episode 274: Announcing resignation too early and why are my ideas rejected?](https://softskills.audio/2021/10/18/episode-274-announcing-resignation-too-early-and-why-are-my-ideas-rejected/) — 2021-10-18 — [Markdown](https://raw.githubusercontent.com/soft-skills-engineering/website/refs/heads/gh-pages/_posts/2021-10-18-episode-274-announcing-resignation-too-early-and-why-are-my-ideas-rejected?.md) - [Episode 273: Influencing people and getting a raise in a flat org](https://softskills.audio/2021/10/11/episode-273-influencing-people-and-getting-a-raise-in-a-flat-org/) — 2021-10-11 — [Markdown](https://raw.githubusercontent.com/soft-skills-engineering/website/refs/heads/gh-pages/_posts/2021-10-11-episode-273-influencing-people-and-getting-a-raise-in-a-flat-org.md) - [Episode 272: Consistent or shiny](https://softskills.audio/2021/09/27/episode-272-consistent-or-shiny/) — 2021-09-27 — [Markdown](https://raw.githubusercontent.com/soft-skills-engineering/website/refs/heads/gh-pages/_posts/2021-09-27-episode-272-consistent-or-shiny.md) - [Episode 271: Too quiet and quitting too much?](https://softskills.audio/2021/09/13/episode-271-too-quiet-and-quitting-too-much/) — 2021-09-13 — [Markdown](https://raw.githubusercontent.com/soft-skills-engineering/website/refs/heads/gh-pages/_posts/2021-09-13-episode-271-too-quiet-and-quitting-too-much?.md) - [Episode 270 (rerun of 227): Junior expectations and manager flakiness](https://softskills.audio/2021/09/07/episode-270-rerun-of-227-junior-expectations-and-manager-flakiness/) — 2021-09-07 — [Markdown](https://raw.githubusercontent.com/soft-skills-engineering/website/refs/heads/gh-pages/_posts/2021-09-07-episode-270-rerun-of-227-junior-expectations-and-manager-flakiness.md) - [Episode 269: A bad product and running the meter down](https://softskills.audio/2021/08/30/episode-269-a-bad-product-and-running-the-meter-down/) — 2021-08-30 — [Markdown](https://raw.githubusercontent.com/soft-skills-engineering/website/refs/heads/gh-pages/_posts/2021-08-30-episode-269-a-bad-product-and-running-the-meter-down.md) - [Episode 268: Title inflation and solo remote engineer](https://softskills.audio/2021/08/23/episode-268-title-inflation-and-solo-remote-engineer/) — 2021-08-23 — [Markdown](https://raw.githubusercontent.com/soft-skills-engineering/website/refs/heads/gh-pages/_posts/2021-08-23-episode-268-title-inflation-and-solo-remote-engineer.md) - [Episode 267: Cheap promotion raise and live coding blues](https://softskills.audio/2021/08/16/episode-267-cheap-promotion-raise-and-live-coding-blues/) — 2021-08-16 — [Markdown](https://raw.githubusercontent.com/soft-skills-engineering/website/refs/heads/gh-pages/_posts/2021-08-16-episode-267-cheap-promotion-raise-and-live-coding-blues.md) - [Episode 266: Switching tech stacks and awkward zoom silence](https://softskills.audio/2021/07/26/episode-266-switching-tech-stacks-and-awkward-zoom-silence/) — 2021-07-26 — [Markdown](https://raw.githubusercontent.com/soft-skills-engineering/website/refs/heads/gh-pages/_posts/2021-07-26-episode-266-switching-tech-stacks-and-awkward-zoom-silence.md) - [Episode 265 (rerun of 216): One-on-ones and inter-team power struggles](https://softskills.audio/2021/07/19/episode-265-rerun-one-on-ones-and-inter-team-power-struggles/) — 2021-07-19 — [Markdown](https://raw.githubusercontent.com/soft-skills-engineering/website/refs/heads/gh-pages/_posts/2021-07-19-episode-265-rerun-one-on-ones-and-inter-team-power-struggles.md) - [Episode 264: Finger pointing and getting recognition](https://softskills.audio/2021/07/12/episode-264-finger-pointing-and-getting-recognition/) — 2021-07-12 — [Markdown](https://raw.githubusercontent.com/soft-skills-engineering/website/refs/heads/gh-pages/_posts/2021-07-12-episode-264-finger-pointing-and-getting-recognition.md) - [Episode 263: Why am I bored and ver-boss-ity](https://softskills.audio/2021/07/05/episode-263-why-am-i-bored-and-ver-boss-ity/) — 2021-07-05 — [Markdown](https://raw.githubusercontent.com/soft-skills-engineering/website/refs/heads/gh-pages/_posts/2021-07-05-episode-263-why-am-i-bored-and-ver-boss-ity.md) - [Episode 262: I'm too popular and too much turnover](https://softskills.audio/2021/06/14/episode-262-i'm-too-popular-and-too-much-turnover/) — 2021-06-14 — [Markdown](https://raw.githubusercontent.com/soft-skills-engineering/website/refs/heads/gh-pages/_posts/2021-06-14-episode-262-i'm-too-popular-and-too-much-turnover.md) - [Episode 261: Anxious about work and senior imposter](https://softskills.audio/2021/06/07/episode-261-anxious-about-work-and-senior-imposter/) — 2021-06-07 — [Markdown](https://raw.githubusercontent.com/soft-skills-engineering/website/refs/heads/gh-pages/_posts/2021-06-07-episode-261-anxious-about-work-and-senior-imposter.md) - [Episode 260: Pay cut after hired and new job ramp-up](https://softskills.audio/2021/05/24/episode-260-pay-cut-after-hired-and-new-job-ramp-up/) — 2021-05-24 — [Markdown](https://raw.githubusercontent.com/soft-skills-engineering/website/refs/heads/gh-pages/_posts/2021-05-24-episode-260-pay-cut-after-hired-and-new-job-ramp-up.md) - [Episode 259: Moving up to meetings and will remote work stay a thing?](https://softskills.audio/2021/05/10/episode-259-moving-up-to-meetings-and-will-remote-work-stay-a-thing/) — 2021-05-10 — [Markdown](https://raw.githubusercontent.com/soft-skills-engineering/website/refs/heads/gh-pages/_posts/2021-05-10-episode-259-moving-up-to-meetings-and-will-remote-work-stay-a-thing?.md) - [Episode 258: Addicted to scrolling and underpaid with equity](https://softskills.audio/2021/05/03/episode-258-addicted-to-scrolling-and-underpaid-with-equity/) — 2021-05-03 — [Markdown](https://raw.githubusercontent.com/soft-skills-engineering/website/refs/heads/gh-pages/_posts/2021-05-03-episode-258-addicted-to-scrolling-and-underpaid-with-equity.md) - [Episode 257: Oops I didn't negotiate and really another raise question](https://softskills.audio/2021/04/19/episode-257-oops-i-didn't-negotiate-and-really-another-raise-question/) — 2021-04-19 — [Markdown](https://raw.githubusercontent.com/soft-skills-engineering/website/refs/heads/gh-pages/_posts/2021-04-19-episode-257-oops-i-didn't-negotiate-and-really-another-raise-question.md) - [Episode 256: No degree ceiling and reverse whippersnappers](https://softskills.audio/2021/04/12/episode-256-no-degree-ceiling-and-reverse-whippersnappers/) — 2021-04-12 — [Markdown](https://raw.githubusercontent.com/soft-skills-engineering/website/refs/heads/gh-pages/_posts/2021-04-12-episode-256-no-degree-ceiling-and-reverse-whippersnappers.md) - [Episode 255: Only positive feedback and overworked and siloed](https://softskills.audio/2021/04/05/episode-255-only-positive-feedback-and-overworked-and-siloed/) — 2021-04-05 — [Markdown](https://raw.githubusercontent.com/soft-skills-engineering/website/refs/heads/gh-pages/_posts/2021-04-05-episode-255-only-positive-feedback-and-overworked-and-siloed.md) - [Episode 254: Code makes my body hurt and level madness](https://softskills.audio/2021/03/29/episode-254-code-makes-my-body-hurt-and-level-madness/) — 2021-03-29 — [Markdown](https://raw.githubusercontent.com/soft-skills-engineering/website/refs/heads/gh-pages/_posts/2021-03-29-episode-254-code-makes-my-body-hurt-and-level-madness.md) - [Episode 253: Not coding after 2 years and fake data scientists](https://softskills.audio/2021/03/22/episode-253-not-coding-after-2-years-and-fake-data-scientists/) — 2021-03-22 — [Markdown](https://raw.githubusercontent.com/soft-skills-engineering/website/refs/heads/gh-pages/_posts/2021-03-22-episode-253-not-coding-after-2-years-and-fake-data-scientists.md) - [Episode 252: Impossible documentation and unexcited coworkers](https://softskills.audio/2021/03/15/episode-252-impossible-documentation-and-unexcited-coworkers/) — 2021-03-15 — [Markdown](https://raw.githubusercontent.com/soft-skills-engineering/website/refs/heads/gh-pages/_posts/2021-03-15-episode-252-impossible-documentation-and-unexcited-coworkers.md) - [Episode 251: Working with real live developers and the royal we?](https://softskills.audio/2021/03/08/episode-251-working-with-real-live-developers-and-the-royal-we/) — 2021-03-08 — [Markdown](https://raw.githubusercontent.com/soft-skills-engineering/website/refs/heads/gh-pages/_posts/2021-03-08-episode-251-working-with-real-live-developers-and-the-royal-we?.md) - [Episode 250: The management track and active listening](https://softskills.audio/2021/03/01/episode-250-the-management-track-and-active-listening/) — 2021-03-01 — [Markdown](https://raw.githubusercontent.com/soft-skills-engineering/website/refs/heads/gh-pages/_posts/2021-03-01-episode-250-the-management-track-and-active-listening.md) - [Episode 249: Settling the Wild West and credit for self-study](https://softskills.audio/2021/02/22/episode-249-settling-the-wild-west-and-credit-for-self-study/) — 2021-02-22 — [Markdown](https://raw.githubusercontent.com/soft-skills-engineering/website/refs/heads/gh-pages/_posts/2021-02-22-episode-249-settling-the-wild-west-and-credit-for-self-study.md) - [Episode 248: Non-private slack channels and expectations](https://softskills.audio/2021/02/15/episode-248-non-private-slack-channels-and-expectations/) — 2021-02-15 — [Markdown](https://raw.githubusercontent.com/soft-skills-engineering/website/refs/heads/gh-pages/_posts/2021-02-15-episode-248-non-private-slack-channels-and-expectations.md) - [Episode 247: Estimates and hotdesking](https://softskills.audio/2021/02/08/episode-247-estimates-and-hotdesking/) — 2021-02-08 — [Markdown](https://raw.githubusercontent.com/soft-skills-engineering/website/refs/heads/gh-pages/_posts/2021-02-08-episode-247-estimates-and-hotdesking.md) - [Episode 246: Humanitarian salary conundrum and family benefits](https://softskills.audio/2021/02/01/episode-246-humanitarian-salary-conundrum-and-family-benefits/) — 2021-02-01 — [Markdown](https://raw.githubusercontent.com/soft-skills-engineering/website/refs/heads/gh-pages/_posts/2021-02-01-episode-246-humanitarian-salary-conundrum-and-family-benefits.md) - [Episode 245: Sweating the small stuff and quit my first job?](https://softskills.audio/2021/01/25/episode-245-sweating-the-small-stuff-and-quit-my-first-job/) — 2021-01-25 — [Markdown](https://raw.githubusercontent.com/soft-skills-engineering/website/refs/heads/gh-pages/_posts/2021-01-25-episode-245-sweating-the-small-stuff-and-quit-my-first-job?.md) - [Episode 244: Quitting telephone and recommendontion](https://softskills.audio/2021/01/18/episode-244-quitting-telephone-and-recommendontion/) — 2021-01-18 — [Markdown](https://raw.githubusercontent.com/soft-skills-engineering/website/refs/heads/gh-pages/_posts/2021-01-18-episode-244-quitting-telephone-and-recommendontion.md) - [Episode 243: Saying no and conference](https://softskills.audio/2021/01/11/episode-243-saying-no-and-conference/) — 2021-01-11 — [Markdown](https://raw.githubusercontent.com/soft-skills-engineering/website/refs/heads/gh-pages/_posts/2021-01-11-episode-243-saying-no-and-conference.md) - [Episode 242 (Episode 131 re-run): Stinky feet and high salary expectation](https://softskills.audio/2021/01/05/episode-242-coworkers-with-stinky-feet-and-was-my-salary-expectation-too-high/) — 2021-01-05 — [Markdown](https://raw.githubusercontent.com/soft-skills-engineering/website/refs/heads/gh-pages/_posts/2021-01-05-episode-242-coworkers-with-stinky-feet-and-was-my-salary-expectation-too-high.md) - [Episode 241 (Rerun of 184): Indispensable and IT cold war](https://softskills.audio/2020/12/28/episode-241-indispensable-and-it-cold-war/) — 2020-12-28 — [Markdown](https://raw.githubusercontent.com/soft-skills-engineering/website/refs/heads/gh-pages/_posts/2020-12-28-episode-241-indispensable-and-it-cold-war.md) - [Episode 240: Under-leveled in the big leagues and pushing back](https://softskills.audio/2020/12/14/episode-240-under-leveled-in-the-big-leagues-and-pushing-back/) — 2020-12-14 — [Markdown](https://raw.githubusercontent.com/soft-skills-engineering/website/refs/heads/gh-pages/_posts/2020-12-14-episode-240-under-leveled-in-the-big-leagues-and-pushing-back.md) - [Episode 239: Hustle and patents and toxicity](https://softskills.audio/2020/12/07/episode-239-hustle-and-patents-and-toxicity/) — 2020-12-07 — [Markdown](https://raw.githubusercontent.com/soft-skills-engineering/website/refs/heads/gh-pages/_posts/2020-12-07-episode-239-hustle-and-patents-and-toxicity.md) - [Episode 238: Naughty team and quitting after 2 weeks](https://softskills.audio/2020/11/30/episode-238-naughty-team-and-quitting-after-2-weeks/) — 2020-11-30 — [Markdown](https://raw.githubusercontent.com/soft-skills-engineering/website/refs/heads/gh-pages/_posts/2020-11-30-episode-238-naughty-team-and-quitting-after-2-weeks.md) - [Episode 237: Salary vs tech stack and how to quit an ad agency](https://softskills.audio/2020/11/23/episode-237-salary-vs-tech-stack-and-how-to-quit-an-ad-agency/) — 2020-11-23 — [Markdown](https://raw.githubusercontent.com/soft-skills-engineering/website/refs/heads/gh-pages/_posts/2020-11-23-episode-237-salary-vs-tech-stack-and-how-to-quit-an-ad-agency.md) - [Episode 236: Making mistakes and Lowball offer](https://softskills.audio/2020/11/16/episode-236-making-mistakes-and-lowball-offer/) — 2020-11-16 — [Markdown](https://raw.githubusercontent.com/soft-skills-engineering/website/refs/heads/gh-pages/_posts/2020-11-16-episode-236-making-mistakes-and-lowball-offer.md) - [Episode 235: Bus factors and toxic time bomb](https://softskills.audio/2020/11/09/episode-235-bus-factors-and-toxic-time-bomb/) — 2020-11-09 — [Markdown](https://raw.githubusercontent.com/soft-skills-engineering/website/refs/heads/gh-pages/_posts/2020-11-09-episode-235-bus-factors-and-toxic-time-bomb.md) - [Episode 234: Job hopping and untenable counter-offers](https://softskills.audio/2020/11/02/episode-234-job-hopping-and-untenable-counter-offers/) — 2020-11-02 — [Markdown](https://raw.githubusercontent.com/soft-skills-engineering/website/refs/heads/gh-pages/_posts/2020-11-02-episode-234-job-hopping-and-untenable-counter-offers.md) - [Episode 233: Manual unit testing and WFH demotivation](https://softskills.audio/2020/10/26/episode-233-manual-unit-testing-and-wfh-demotivation/) — 2020-10-26 — [Markdown](https://raw.githubusercontent.com/soft-skills-engineering/website/refs/heads/gh-pages/_posts/2020-10-26-episode-233-manual-unit-testing-and-wfh-demotivation.md) - [Episode 232: "Junior" developer and NDA'd](https://softskills.audio/2020/10/19/episode-232-junior-developer-and-nda'd/) — 2020-10-19 — [Markdown](https://raw.githubusercontent.com/soft-skills-engineering/website/refs/heads/gh-pages/_posts/2020-10-19-episode-232-"junior"-developer-and-nda'd.md) - [Episode 231: Freedom for me not for thee and optimizing for growth](https://softskills.audio/2020/10/12/episode-231-freedom-for-me-not-for-thee-and-optimizing-for-growth/) — 2020-10-12 — [Markdown](https://raw.githubusercontent.com/soft-skills-engineering/website/refs/heads/gh-pages/_posts/2020-10-12-episode-231-freedom-for-me-not-for-thee-and-optimizing-for-growth.md) - [Episode 230: Not seeking promotion and taking code](https://softskills.audio/2020/10/05/episode-230-not-seeking-promotion-and-taking-code/) — 2020-10-05 — [Markdown](https://raw.githubusercontent.com/soft-skills-engineering/website/refs/heads/gh-pages/_posts/2020-10-05-episode-230-not-seeking-promotion-and-taking-code.md) - [Episode 229: Other people's code and moving into product management](https://softskills.audio/2020/09/28/episode-229-other-people's-code-and-moving-into-product-management/) — 2020-09-28 — [Markdown](https://raw.githubusercontent.com/soft-skills-engineering/website/refs/heads/gh-pages/_posts/2020-09-28-episode-229-other-people's-code-and-moving-into-product-management.md) - [Episode 228: Unpaid team lead and banking hours](https://softskills.audio/2020/09/21/episode-228-unpaid-team-lead-and-banking-hours/) — 2020-09-21 — [Markdown](https://raw.githubusercontent.com/soft-skills-engineering/website/refs/heads/gh-pages/_posts/2020-09-21-episode-228-unpaid-team-lead-and-banking-hours.md) - [Episode 227: Junior expectations and manager flakiness](https://softskills.audio/2020/09/14/episode-227-junior-expectations-and-manager-flakiness/) — 2020-09-14 — [Markdown](https://raw.githubusercontent.com/soft-skills-engineering/website/refs/heads/gh-pages/_posts/2020-09-14-episode-227-junior-expectations-and-manager-flakiness.md) - [Episode 226: Declining job offers and being the outside hire](https://softskills.audio/2020/09/07/episode-226-declining-job-offers-and-being-the-outside-hire/) — 2020-09-07 — [Markdown](https://raw.githubusercontent.com/soft-skills-engineering/website/refs/heads/gh-pages/_posts/2020-09-07-episode-226-declining-job-offers-and-being-the-outside-hire.md) - [Episode 225: Stuck on the ladder and can't say no](https://softskills.audio/2020/08/31/episode-225-stuck-on-the-ladder-and-can't-say-no/) — 2020-08-31 — [Markdown](https://raw.githubusercontent.com/soft-skills-engineering/website/refs/heads/gh-pages/_posts/2020-08-31-episode-225-stuck-on-the-ladder-and-can't-say-no.md) - [Episode 224: Bad review from conflicted boss and questioning my career choices](https://softskills.audio/2020/08/24/episode-224-bad-review-from-conflicted-boss-and-questioning-my-career-choices/) — 2020-08-24 — [Markdown](https://raw.githubusercontent.com/soft-skills-engineering/website/refs/heads/gh-pages/_posts/2020-08-24-episode-224-bad-review-from-conflicted-boss-and-questioning-my-career-choices.md) - [Episode 223: Feedback rage and making up for lost time](https://softskills.audio/2020/08/17/episode-223-feedback-rage-and-making-up-for-lost-time/) — 2020-08-17 — [Markdown](https://raw.githubusercontent.com/soft-skills-engineering/website/refs/heads/gh-pages/_posts/2020-08-17-episode-223-feedback-rage-and-making-up-for-lost-time.md) - [Episode 222: Cowboy CTO and underpaid after promotion](https://softskills.audio/2020/08/10/episode-222-cowboy-cto-and-underpaid-after-promotion/) — 2020-08-10 — [Markdown](https://raw.githubusercontent.com/soft-skills-engineering/website/refs/heads/gh-pages/_posts/2020-08-10-episode-222-cowboy-cto-and-underpaid-after-promotion.md) - [Episode 221: Current boss reference and getting paid to do nothing](https://softskills.audio/2020/08/03/episode-221-current-boss-reference-and-getting-paid-to-do-nothing/) — 2020-08-03 — [Markdown](https://raw.githubusercontent.com/soft-skills-engineering/website/refs/heads/gh-pages/_posts/2020-08-03-episode-221-current-boss-reference-and-getting-paid-to-do-nothing.md) - [Episode 220: Premature leadership push and credit and status](https://softskills.audio/2020/07/27/episode-220-premature-leadership-push-and-credit-and-status/) — 2020-07-27 — [Markdown](https://raw.githubusercontent.com/soft-skills-engineering/website/refs/heads/gh-pages/_posts/2020-07-27-episode-220-premature-leadership-push-and-credit-and-status.md) - [Episode 219: Remote crickets and Manager Careering](https://softskills.audio/2020/07/20/episode-219-remote-crickets-and-manager-careering/) — 2020-07-20 — [Markdown](https://raw.githubusercontent.com/soft-skills-engineering/website/refs/heads/gh-pages/_posts/2020-07-20-episode-219-remote-crickets-and-manager-careering.md) - [Episode 218: Referral underperforming and take a tech lead role](https://softskills.audio/2020/07/13/episode-218-referral-underperforming-and-take-a-tech-lead-role/) — 2020-07-13 — [Markdown](https://raw.githubusercontent.com/soft-skills-engineering/website/refs/heads/gh-pages/_posts/2020-07-13-episode-218-referral-underperforming-and-take-a-tech-lead-role.md) - [Episode 217: Quitting words and double COVID internship](https://softskills.audio/2020/07/06/episode-217-quitting-words-and-double-covid-internship/) — 2020-07-06 — [Markdown](https://raw.githubusercontent.com/soft-skills-engineering/website/refs/heads/gh-pages/_posts/2020-07-06-episode-217-quitting-words-and-double-covid-internship.md) - [Episode 216: One-on-ones and inter-team power struggles](https://softskills.audio/2020/06/29/episode-216-one-on-ones-and-inter-team-power-struggles/) — 2020-06-29 — [Markdown](https://raw.githubusercontent.com/soft-skills-engineering/website/refs/heads/gh-pages/_posts/2020-06-29-episode-216-one-on-ones-and-inter-team-power-struggles.md) - [Episode 215: Many jobs in one and junior git stickler](https://softskills.audio/2020/06/22/episode-215-many-jobs-in-one-and-junior-git-stickler/) — 2020-06-22 — [Markdown](https://raw.githubusercontent.com/soft-skills-engineering/website/refs/heads/gh-pages/_posts/2020-06-22-episode-215-many-jobs-in-one-and-junior-git-stickler.md) - [Episode 214: Jumping ship and saying "I can't"](https://softskills.audio/2020/06/15/episode-214-jumping-ship-and-saying-i-can't/) — 2020-06-15 — [Markdown](https://raw.githubusercontent.com/soft-skills-engineering/website/refs/heads/gh-pages/_posts/2020-06-15-episode-214-jumping-ship-and-saying-"i-can't".md) - [Episode 213: Interviewing your future boss and screwed by private equity](https://softskills.audio/2020/06/08/episode-213-interviewing-your-future-boss-and-screwed-by-private-equity/) — 2020-06-08 — [Markdown](https://raw.githubusercontent.com/soft-skills-engineering/website/refs/heads/gh-pages/_posts/2020-06-08-episode-213-interviewing-your-future-boss-and-screwed-by-private-equity.md) - [Episode 212: Turnover and self-inflicted complexity](https://softskills.audio/2020/06/01/episode-212-turnover-and-self-inflicted-complexity/) — 2020-06-01 — [Markdown](https://raw.githubusercontent.com/soft-skills-engineering/website/refs/heads/gh-pages/_posts/2020-06-01-episode-212-turnover-and-self-inflicted-complexity.md) - [Episode 211: Biorhythm and coworker roommate](https://softskills.audio/2020/05/25/episode-211-biorhythm-and-coworker-roommate/) — 2020-05-25 — [Markdown](https://raw.githubusercontent.com/soft-skills-engineering/website/refs/heads/gh-pages/_posts/2020-05-25-episode-211-biorhythm-and-coworker-roommate.md) - [Episode 210: Study time and caring less](https://softskills.audio/2020/05/18/episode-210-study-time-and-caring-less/) — 2020-05-18 — [Markdown](https://raw.githubusercontent.com/soft-skills-engineering/website/refs/heads/gh-pages/_posts/2020-05-18-episode-210-study-time-and-caring-less.md) - [Episode 209: Glue and Covid ghost job](https://softskills.audio/2020/05/11/episode-209-glue-and-covid-ghost-job/) — 2020-05-11 — [Markdown](https://raw.githubusercontent.com/soft-skills-engineering/website/refs/heads/gh-pages/_posts/2020-05-11-episode-209-glue-and-covid-ghost-job.md) - [Episode 208: Toe-stepper-on-er and high leverage work](https://softskills.audio/2020/05/04/episode-208-toe-stepper-on-er-and-high-leverage-work/) — 2020-05-04 — [Markdown](https://raw.githubusercontent.com/soft-skills-engineering/website/refs/heads/gh-pages/_posts/2020-05-04-episode-208-toe-stepper-on-er-and-high-leverage-work.md) - [Episode 207: Unclear career goals and garbage code](https://softskills.audio/2020/04/27/episode-207-unclear-career-goals-and-garbage-code/) — 2020-04-27 — [Markdown](https://raw.githubusercontent.com/soft-skills-engineering/website/refs/heads/gh-pages/_posts/2020-04-27-episode-207-unclear-career-goals-and-garbage-code.md) - [Episode 206: Micromanaging WFH and vaguely tech lead](https://softskills.audio/2020/04/20/episode-206-micromanaging-wfh-and-vaguely-tech-lead/) — 2020-04-20 — [Markdown](https://raw.githubusercontent.com/soft-skills-engineering/website/refs/heads/gh-pages/_posts/2020-04-20-episode-206-micromanaging-wfh-and-vaguely-tech-lead.md) - [Episode 205: Old code outage and questions leaking](https://softskills.audio/2020/04/13/episode-205-old-code-outage-and-questions-leaking/) — 2020-04-13 — [Markdown](https://raw.githubusercontent.com/soft-skills-engineering/website/refs/heads/gh-pages/_posts/2020-04-13-episode-205-old-code-outage-and-questions-leaking.md) - [Episode 204: Remote work and ghosting your employer](https://softskills.audio/2020/04/06/episode-204-remote-work-and-ghosting-your-employer/) — 2020-04-06 — [Markdown](https://raw.githubusercontent.com/soft-skills-engineering/website/refs/heads/gh-pages/_posts/2020-04-06-episode-204-remote-work-and-ghosting-your-employer.md) - [Episode 203: Downturns and conflict](https://softskills.audio/2020/03/30/episode-203-downturns-and-conflict/) — 2020-03-30 — [Markdown](https://raw.githubusercontent.com/soft-skills-engineering/website/refs/heads/gh-pages/_posts/2020-03-30-episode-203-downturns-and-conflict.md) - [Episode 202: Can't stand up and new team, new me](https://softskills.audio/2020/03/23/episode-202-can't-stand-up-and-new-team,-new-me/) — 2020-03-23 — [Markdown](https://raw.githubusercontent.com/soft-skills-engineering/website/refs/heads/gh-pages/_posts/2020-03-23-episode-202-can't-stand-up-and-new-team,-new-me.md) - [Episode 201: Too soon for a raise and management, masters, maybe?](https://softskills.audio/2020/03/16/episode-201-too-soon-for-a-raise-and-management,-masters,-maybe/) — 2020-03-16 — [Markdown](https://raw.githubusercontent.com/soft-skills-engineering/website/refs/heads/gh-pages/_posts/2020-03-16-episode-201-too-soon-for-a-raise-and-management,-masters,-maybe?.md) - [Episode 200: Crazy work work stories](https://softskills.audio/2020/03/09/episode-200-crazy-work-stories/) — 2020-03-09 — [Markdown](https://raw.githubusercontent.com/soft-skills-engineering/website/refs/heads/gh-pages/_posts/2020-03-09-episode-200-crazy-work-stories.md) - [Episode 199: Offshore team influence and time zone fun](https://softskills.audio/2020/03/02/episode-199-offshore-team-influence-and-time-zone-fun/) — 2020-03-02 — [Markdown](https://raw.githubusercontent.com/soft-skills-engineering/website/refs/heads/gh-pages/_posts/2020-03-02-episode-199-offshore-team-influence-and-time-zone-fun.md) - [Episode 198: Stinky manager and VP overhaul](https://softskills.audio/2020/02/24/episode-198-stinky-manager-and-vp-overhaul/) — 2020-02-24 — [Markdown](https://raw.githubusercontent.com/soft-skills-engineering/website/refs/heads/gh-pages/_posts/2020-02-24-episode-198-stinky-manager-and-vp-overhaul.md) - [Episode 197: Rambling co-worker and awkward resume leak](https://softskills.audio/2020/02/17/episode-197-rambling-co-worker-and-awkward-resume-leak/) — 2020-02-17 — [Markdown](https://raw.githubusercontent.com/soft-skills-engineering/website/refs/heads/gh-pages/_posts/2020-02-17-episode-197-rambling-co-worker-and-awkward-resume-leak.md) - [Episode 196: "Offshore resources" and ageist layoffs](https://softskills.audio/2020/02/10/episode-196-offshore-resources-and-ageist-layoffs/) — 2020-02-10 — [Markdown](https://raw.githubusercontent.com/soft-skills-engineering/website/refs/heads/gh-pages/_posts/2020-02-10-episode-196-"offshore-resources"-and-ageist-layoffs.md) - [Episode 195: Ad-hoc promotion and quitting a huge company with Charity Majors](https://softskills.audio/2020/02/03/episode-195-ad-hoc-promotion-and-quitting-a-huge-company/) — 2020-02-03 — [Markdown](https://raw.githubusercontent.com/soft-skills-engineering/website/refs/heads/gh-pages/_posts/2020-02-03-episode-195-ad-hoc-promotion-and-quitting-a-huge-company.md) - [Episode 194: Leveling up through speaking and negativity](https://softskills.audio/2020/01/27/episode-194-leveling-up-through-speaking-and-negativity/) — 2020-01-27 — [Markdown](https://raw.githubusercontent.com/soft-skills-engineering/website/refs/heads/gh-pages/_posts/2020-01-27-episode-194-leveling-up-through-speaking-and-negativity.md) - [Episode 193: Playing the field and paying for speaking](https://softskills.audio/2020/01/20/episode-193-playing-the-field-and-paying-for-speaking/) — 2020-01-20 — [Markdown](https://raw.githubusercontent.com/soft-skills-engineering/website/refs/heads/gh-pages/_posts/2020-01-20-episode-193-playing-the-field-and-paying-for-speaking.md) - [Episode 192: Giving feedback and messaging a team change](https://softskills.audio/2020/01/13/episode-192-giving-feedback-and-messaging-a-team-change/) — 2020-01-13 — [Markdown](https://raw.githubusercontent.com/soft-skills-engineering/website/refs/heads/gh-pages/_posts/2020-01-13-episode-192-giving-feedback-and-messaging-a-team-change.md) - [Episode 191: Overshadowed and demos and credit](https://softskills.audio/2020/01/06/episode-191-overshadowed-and-demos-and-credit/) — 2020-01-06 — [Markdown](https://raw.githubusercontent.com/soft-skills-engineering/website/refs/heads/gh-pages/_posts/2020-01-06-episode-191-overshadowed-and-demos-and-credit.md) - [Episode 190: Disorganized startup and leveling up the team](https://softskills.audio/2019/12/30/episode-190-disorganized-startup-and-leveling-up-the-team/) — 2019-12-30 — [Markdown](https://raw.githubusercontent.com/soft-skills-engineering/website/refs/heads/gh-pages/_posts/2019-12-30-episode-190-disorganized-startup-and-leveling-up-the-team.md) - [Episode 189: Building relationships and handling negative feedback with speical guest Jeff Leiken](https://softskills.audio/2019/12/23/episode-189-building-relationships-and-handling-negative-feedback/) — 2019-12-23 — [Markdown](https://raw.githubusercontent.com/soft-skills-engineering/website/refs/heads/gh-pages/_posts/2019-12-23-episode-189-building-relationships-and-handling-negative-feedback.md) - [Episode 188: Drama overload and agile ouroboroses](https://softskills.audio/2019/12/16/episode-188-drama-overload-and-agile-ouroboroses/) — 2019-12-16 — [Markdown](https://raw.githubusercontent.com/soft-skills-engineering/website/refs/heads/gh-pages/_posts/2019-12-16-episode-188-drama-overload-and-agile-ouroboroses.md) - [Episode 187: Interview insanity and making up for lost time](https://softskills.audio/2019/12/09/episode-187-interview-insanity-and-making-up-for-lost-time/) — 2019-12-09 — [Markdown](https://raw.githubusercontent.com/soft-skills-engineering/website/refs/heads/gh-pages/_posts/2019-12-09-episode-187-interview-insanity-and-making-up-for-lost-time.md) - [Episode 186: First job negotiation and am I a senior engineer?](https://softskills.audio/2019/12/02/episode-186-first-job-negotiation-and-am-i-a-senior-engineer/) — 2019-12-02 — [Markdown](https://raw.githubusercontent.com/soft-skills-engineering/website/refs/heads/gh-pages/_posts/2019-12-02-episode-186-first-job-negotiation-and-am-i-a-senior-engineer?.md) - [Episode 185: Fragile coworkers and soft demotion](https://softskills.audio/2019/11/25/episode-185-fragile-coworkers-and-soft-demotion/) — 2019-11-25 — [Markdown](https://raw.githubusercontent.com/soft-skills-engineering/website/refs/heads/gh-pages/_posts/2019-11-25-episode-185-fragile-coworkers-and-soft-demotion.md) - [Episode 184: Indispensable and IT cold war](https://softskills.audio/2019/11/18/episode-184-indispensable-and-it-cold-war/) — 2019-11-18 — [Markdown](https://raw.githubusercontent.com/soft-skills-engineering/website/refs/heads/gh-pages/_posts/2019-11-18-episode-184-indispensable-and-it-cold-war.md) - [Episode 183: Terrible boss code and peer-to-peer mentorship](https://softskills.audio/2019/11/11/episode-183-terrible-boss-code-and-peer-to-peer-mentorship/) — 2019-11-11 — [Markdown](https://raw.githubusercontent.com/soft-skills-engineering/website/refs/heads/gh-pages/_posts/2019-11-11-episode-183-terrible-boss-code-and-peer-to-peer-mentorship.md) - [Episode 182: Lunch and switching to product management](https://softskills.audio/2019/11/04/episode-182-lunch-and-switching-to-product-management/) — 2019-11-04 — [Markdown](https://raw.githubusercontent.com/soft-skills-engineering/website/refs/heads/gh-pages/_posts/2019-11-04-episode-182-lunch-and-switching-to-product-management.md) - [Episode 181: Blocked by back-end and tired of coding](https://softskills.audio/2019/10/28/episode-181-blocked-by-back-end-and-tired-of-coding/) — 2019-10-28 — [Markdown](https://raw.githubusercontent.com/soft-skills-engineering/website/refs/heads/gh-pages/_posts/2019-10-28-episode-181-blocked-by-back-end-and-tired-of-coding.md) - [Episode 180: Inspiring attention to detail and moving](https://softskills.audio/2019/10/21/episode-180-inspiring-attention-to-detail-and-moving/) — 2019-10-21 — [Markdown](https://raw.githubusercontent.com/soft-skills-engineering/website/refs/heads/gh-pages/_posts/2019-10-21-episode-180-inspiring-attention-to-detail-and-moving.md) - [Episode 179: Pushing preemptive promotion and de-motivated by promotion](https://softskills.audio/2019/10/14/episode-179-pushing-preemptive-promotion-and-de-motivated-by-promotion/) — 2019-10-14 — [Markdown](https://raw.githubusercontent.com/soft-skills-engineering/website/refs/heads/gh-pages/_posts/2019-10-14-episode-179-pushing-preemptive-promotion-and-de-motivated-by-promotion.md) - [Episode 178: Procrastinating colleague and working remotely for an on-site company](https://softskills.audio/2019/10/07/episode-178-procrastinating-colleague-and-working-remotely-for-an-on-site-company/) — 2019-10-07 — [Markdown](https://raw.githubusercontent.com/soft-skills-engineering/website/refs/heads/gh-pages/_posts/2019-10-07-episode-178-procrastinating-colleague-and-working-remotely-for-an-on-site-company.md) - [Episode 177: Work life vertigo and work life interviews](https://softskills.audio/2019/09/30/episode-177-work-life-vertigo-and-work-life-interviews/) — 2019-09-30 — [Markdown](https://raw.githubusercontent.com/soft-skills-engineering/website/refs/heads/gh-pages/_posts/2019-09-30-episode-177-work-life-vertigo-and-work-life-interviews.md) - [Episode 176: Afraid to disappoint and tech co-founder advice](https://softskills.audio/2019/09/23/episode-176-afraid-to-disappoint-and-tech-co-founder-advice/) — 2019-09-23 — [Markdown](https://raw.githubusercontent.com/soft-skills-engineering/website/refs/heads/gh-pages/_posts/2019-09-23-episode-176-afraid-to-disappoint-and-tech-co-founder-advice.md) - [Episode 175: Famous devs at conferences and becoming obsolete](https://softskills.audio/2019/09/16/episode-175-famous-devs-at-conferences-and-becoming-obsolete/) — 2019-09-16 — [Markdown](https://raw.githubusercontent.com/soft-skills-engineering/website/refs/heads/gh-pages/_posts/2019-09-16-episode-175-famous-devs-at-conferences-and-becoming-obsolete.md) - [Episode 174: Bottleneck manager and how to tech lead](https://softskills.audio/2019/09/09/episode-174-bottleneck-manager-and-how-to-tech-lead/) — 2019-09-09 — [Markdown](https://raw.githubusercontent.com/soft-skills-engineering/website/refs/heads/gh-pages/_posts/2019-09-09-episode-174-bottleneck-manager-and-how-to-tech-lead.md) - [Episode 173: Newbie burden and getting a 25% raise](https://softskills.audio/2019/09/02/episode-173-newbie-burden-and-getting-a-25-raise/) — 2019-09-02 — [Markdown](https://raw.githubusercontent.com/soft-skills-engineering/website/refs/heads/gh-pages/_posts/2019-09-02-episode-173-newbie-burden-and-getting-a-25%-raise.md) - [Episode 172: Contracting and American email etiquette](https://softskills.audio/2019/08/26/episode-172-contracting-and-american-email-etiquette/) — 2019-08-26 — [Markdown](https://raw.githubusercontent.com/soft-skills-engineering/website/refs/heads/gh-pages/_posts/2019-08-26-episode-172-contracting-and-american-email-etiquette.md) - [Episode 171: Unwilling mentorship and tortoise vs hare DevOps](https://softskills.audio/2019/08/19/episode-171-unwilling-mentorship-and-tortoise-vs-hare-devops/) — 2019-08-19 — [Markdown](https://raw.githubusercontent.com/soft-skills-engineering/website/refs/heads/gh-pages/_posts/2019-08-19-episode-171-unwilling-mentorship-and-tortoise-vs-hare-devops.md) - [Episode 170: Code rage and code review etiquette](https://softskills.audio/2019/08/12/episode-170-code-rage-and-code-review-etiquette/) — 2019-08-12 — [Markdown](https://raw.githubusercontent.com/soft-skills-engineering/website/refs/heads/gh-pages/_posts/2019-08-12-episode-170-code-rage-and-code-review-etiquette.md) - [Episode 169: Conspiracy theories and flexible schedules](https://softskills.audio/2019/08/05/episode-169-conspiracy-theories-and-flexible-schedules/) — 2019-08-05 — [Markdown](https://raw.githubusercontent.com/soft-skills-engineering/website/refs/heads/gh-pages/_posts/2019-08-05-episode-169-conspiracy-theories-and-flexible-schedules.md) - [Episode 168: Self-snooping and work from home jeopardy](https://softskills.audio/2019/07/29/episode-168-self-snooping-and-work-from-home-jeopardy/) — 2019-07-29 — [Markdown](https://raw.githubusercontent.com/soft-skills-engineering/website/refs/heads/gh-pages/_posts/2019-07-29-episode-168-self-snooping-and-work-from-home-jeopardy.md) - [Episode 167: Foosball culture and giving feedback to geniuses](https://softskills.audio/2019/07/22/episode-167-foosball-culture-and-giving-feedback-to-geniuses/) — 2019-07-22 — [Markdown](https://raw.githubusercontent.com/soft-skills-engineering/website/refs/heads/gh-pages/_posts/2019-07-22-episode-167-foosball-culture-and-giving-feedback-to-geniuses.md) - [Episode 166: Not the intern and fighting at work](https://softskills.audio/2019/07/15/episode-166-not-the-intern-and-fighting-at-work/) — 2019-07-15 — [Markdown](https://raw.githubusercontent.com/soft-skills-engineering/website/refs/heads/gh-pages/_posts/2019-07-15-episode-166-not-the-intern-and-fighting-at-work.md) - [Episode 165: I don't play videogames and quarter-career burnout](https://softskills.audio/2019/07/08/episode-165-i-don't-play-videogames-and-quarter-career-burnout/) — 2019-07-08 — [Markdown](https://raw.githubusercontent.com/soft-skills-engineering/website/refs/heads/gh-pages/_posts/2019-07-08-episode-165-i-don't-play-videogames-and-quarter-career-burnout.md) - [Episode 164: Fear of firing and disengaged teammates](https://softskills.audio/2019/07/01/episode-164-fear-of-firing-and-disengaged-teammates/) — 2019-07-01 — [Markdown](https://raw.githubusercontent.com/soft-skills-engineering/website/refs/heads/gh-pages/_posts/2019-07-01-episode-164-fear-of-firing-and-disengaged-teammates.md) - [Episode 163: Sounding a warning and negative Glassdoor reviews](https://softskills.audio/2019/06/24/episode-163-sounding-a-warning-and-negative-glassdoor-reviews/) — 2019-06-24 — [Markdown](https://raw.githubusercontent.com/soft-skills-engineering/website/refs/heads/gh-pages/_posts/2019-06-24-episode-163-sounding-a-warning-and-negative-glassdoor-reviews.md) - [Episode 162 (rerun of episode 113): Quitting Your First Job and Too Many Responsibilities](https://softskills.audio/2019/06/17/episode-162-rerun-of-episode-113/) — 2019-06-17 — [Markdown](https://raw.githubusercontent.com/soft-skills-engineering/website/refs/heads/gh-pages/_posts/2019-06-17-episode-162-rerun-of-episode-113.md) - [Episode 161: Trapped as a QA engineer and trapped as a generalist](https://softskills.audio/2019/06/10/episode-161-trapped-as-a-qa-engineer-and-trapped-as-a-generalist/) — 2019-06-10 — [Markdown](https://raw.githubusercontent.com/soft-skills-engineering/website/refs/heads/gh-pages/_posts/2019-06-10-episode-161-trapped-as-a-qa-engineer-and-trapped-as-a-generalist.md) - [Episode 160: Non-manager 1:1s and throwing away dev learning](https://softskills.audio/2019/06/03/episode-160-non-manager-1-1s-and-throwing-away-dev-learning/) — 2019-06-03 — [Markdown](https://raw.githubusercontent.com/soft-skills-engineering/website/refs/heads/gh-pages/_posts/2019-06-03-episode-160-non-manager-1:1s-and-throwing-away-dev-learning.md) - [Episode 159: Rejecting candidates and corporate image obsession](https://softskills.audio/2019/05/27/episode-159-rejecting-candidates-and-corporate-image-obsession/) — 2019-05-27 — [Markdown](https://raw.githubusercontent.com/soft-skills-engineering/website/refs/heads/gh-pages/_posts/2019-05-27-episode-159-rejecting-candidates-and-corporate-image-obsession.md) - [Episode 158: I accepted a counter-offer and stayed and dealing with engineers who exaggerate their contributions](https://softskills.audio/2019/05/20/episode-158-i-accepted-a-counter-offer-and-stayed-and-dealing-with-engineers-who-exaggerate-their-contributions/) — 2019-05-20 — [Markdown](https://raw.githubusercontent.com/soft-skills-engineering/website/refs/heads/gh-pages/_posts/2019-05-20-episode-158-i-accepted-a-counter-offer-and-stayed-and-dealing-with-engineers-who-exaggerate-their-contributions.md) - [Episode 157: How to deal with a consistent low performer and my architect wants me to switch from Ruby to Java](https://softskills.audio/2019/05/13/episode-157-how-to-deal-with-a-consistent-low-performer-and-my-architect-wants-me-to-switch-from-ruby-to-java/) — 2019-05-13 — [Markdown](https://raw.githubusercontent.com/soft-skills-engineering/website/refs/heads/gh-pages/_posts/2019-05-13-episode-157-how-to-deal-with-a-consistent-low-performer-and-my-architect-wants-me-to-switch-from-ruby-to-java.md) - [Episode 156: How to move from web development into other software engineering roles and dealing with slow code review processes](https://softskills.audio/2019/05/06/episode-156-how-to-move-from-web-development-into-other-software-engineering-roles-and-dealing-with-slow-code-review-processes/) — 2019-05-06 — [Markdown](https://raw.githubusercontent.com/soft-skills-engineering/website/refs/heads/gh-pages/_posts/2019-05-06-episode-156-how-to-move-from-web-development-into-other-software-engineering-roles-and-dealing-with-slow-code-review-processes.md) - [Episode 155: What do you think about employee monitoring software and how do I get un-demotivated after losing interest in software dev?](https://softskills.audio/2019/04/29/episode-155-what-do-you-think-about-employee-monitoring-software-and-how-do-i-get-un-demotivated-after-losing-interest-in-software-dev/) — 2019-04-29 — [Markdown](https://raw.githubusercontent.com/soft-skills-engineering/website/refs/heads/gh-pages/_posts/2019-04-29-episode-155-what-do-you-think-about-employee-monitoring-software-and-how-do-i-get-un-demotivated-after-losing-interest-in-software-dev?.md) - [Episode 154: Why am I terrible at picking candidates and how soon can I quit my job?](https://softskills.audio/2019/04/22/episode-154-why-am-i-terrible-at-picking-candidates-and-how-soon-can-i-quit-my-job/) — 2019-04-22 — [Markdown](https://raw.githubusercontent.com/soft-skills-engineering/website/refs/heads/gh-pages/_posts/2019-04-22-episode-154-why-am-i-terrible-at-picking-candidates-and-how-soon-can-i-quit-my-job?.md) - [Episode 153: Informal Leadership and Dealing With Burnout (rerun of episode 71)](https://softskills.audio/2019/04/15/episode-153-rerun-of-episode-71/) — 2019-04-15 — [Markdown](https://raw.githubusercontent.com/soft-skills-engineering/website/refs/heads/gh-pages/_posts/2019-04-15-episode-153-rerun-of-episode-71.md) - [Episode 152: How to pair program as an introvert and being mistreated as a contractor?](https://softskills.audio/2019/04/08/episode-152-how-to-pair-program-as-an-introvert-and-being-mistreated-as-a-contractor/) — 2019-04-08 — [Markdown](https://raw.githubusercontent.com/soft-skills-engineering/website/refs/heads/gh-pages/_posts/2019-04-08-episode-152-how-to-pair-program-as-an-introvert-and-being-mistreated-as-a-contractor?.md) - [Episode 151: Where are all the old developers and Do I not ask enough questions?](https://softskills.audio/2019/04/01/episode-151-where-are-all-the-old-developers-and-do-i-not-ask-enough-questions/) — 2019-04-01 — [Markdown](https://raw.githubusercontent.com/soft-skills-engineering/website/refs/heads/gh-pages/_posts/2019-04-01-episode-151-where-are-all-the-old-developers-and-do-i-not-ask-enough-questions?.md) - [Episode 150: How to fight imposter syndrome as a technical lead and Getting in to meetups](https://softskills.audio/2019/03/25/episode-150-how-to-fight-imposter-syndrome-as-a-technical-lead-and-getting-in-to-meetups/) — 2019-03-25 — [Markdown](https://raw.githubusercontent.com/soft-skills-engineering/website/refs/heads/gh-pages/_posts/2019-03-25-episode-150-how-to-fight-imposter-syndrome-as-a-technical-lead-and-getting-in-to-meetups.md) - [Episode 149: How to get my engineering career back on track and how to thrive in a heavy process environment](https://softskills.audio/2019/03/18/episode-149-how-to-get-my-engineering-career-back-on-track-and-how-to-thrive-in-a-heavy-process-environment/) — 2019-03-18 — [Markdown](https://raw.githubusercontent.com/soft-skills-engineering/website/refs/heads/gh-pages/_posts/2019-03-18-episode-149-how-to-get-my-engineering-career-back-on-track-and-how-to-thrive-in-a-heavy-process-environment.md) - [Episode 148: In the orbit of a Rock Star Programmer and Should I share my salary with my coworkers?](https://softskills.audio/2019/03/11/episode-148-in-the-orbit-of-a-rock-star-programmer-and-should-i-share-my-salary-with-my-coworkers/) — 2019-03-11 — [Markdown](https://raw.githubusercontent.com/soft-skills-engineering/website/refs/heads/gh-pages/_posts/2019-03-11-episode-148-in-the-orbit-of-a-rock-star-programmer-and-should-i-share-my-salary-with-my-coworkers?.md) - [Episode 147: How to grow in a flat organization and how to get references when job hunting in stealth mode?](https://softskills.audio/2019/03/04/episode-147-how-to-grow-in-a-flat-organization-and-how-to-get-references-when-job-hunting-in-stealth-mode/) — 2019-03-04 — [Markdown](https://raw.githubusercontent.com/soft-skills-engineering/website/refs/heads/gh-pages/_posts/2019-03-04-episode-147-how-to-grow-in-a-flat-organization-and-how-to-get-references-when-job-hunting-in-stealth-mode?.md) - [Episode 146: What to do with sick co-workers who come into the office and dealing with weird performance review feedback](https://softskills.audio/2019/02/25/episode-146-what-to-do-with-sick-co-workers-who-come-into-the-office-and-dealing-with-weird-performance-review-feedback/) — 2019-02-25 — [Markdown](https://raw.githubusercontent.com/soft-skills-engineering/website/refs/heads/gh-pages/_posts/2019-02-25-episode-146-what-to-do-with-sick-co-workers-who-come-into-the-office-and-dealing-with-weird-performance-review-feedback.md) - [Episode 145: What to do with a bad manager who is loved by upper management and should I include detecting major security vulnerabilities on my resume?](https://softskills.audio/2019/02/18/episode-145-what-to-do-with-a-bad-manager-who-is-loved-by-upper-management-and-should-i-include-detecting-major-security-vulnerabilities-on-my-resume/) — 2019-02-18 — [Markdown](https://raw.githubusercontent.com/soft-skills-engineering/website/refs/heads/gh-pages/_posts/2019-02-18-episode-145-what-to-do-with-a-bad-manager-who-is-loved-by-upper-management-and-should-i-include-detecting-major-security-vulnerabilities-on-my-resume?.md) - [Episode 144: Job hunting while employed and how to start my first technical lead role](https://softskills.audio/2019/02/11/episode-144-job-hunting-while-employed-and-how-to-start-my-first-technical-lead-role/) — 2019-02-11 — [Markdown](https://raw.githubusercontent.com/soft-skills-engineering/website/refs/heads/gh-pages/_posts/2019-02-11-episode-144-job-hunting-while-employed-and-how-to-start-my-first-technical-lead-role.md) - [Episode 143: Dealing with meeting interrupters and setting work limits](https://softskills.audio/2019/02/04/episode-143-dealing-with-meeting-interrupters-and-setting-work-limits/) — 2019-02-04 — [Markdown](https://raw.githubusercontent.com/soft-skills-engineering/website/refs/heads/gh-pages/_posts/2019-02-04-episode-143-dealing-with-meeting-interrupters-and-setting-work-limits.md) - [Episode 142: Can I get hired above my level even though I look inexperienced on paper and should I be brutally honest in peer performance reviews](https://softskills.audio/2019/01/28/episode-142-can-i-get-hired-above-my-level-even-though-i-look-inexperienced-on-paper-and-should-i-be-brutally-honest-in-peer-performance-reviews/) — 2019-01-28 — [Markdown](https://raw.githubusercontent.com/soft-skills-engineering/website/refs/heads/gh-pages/_posts/2019-01-28-episode-142-can-i-get-hired-above-my-level-even-though-i-look-inexperienced-on-paper-and-should-i-be-brutally-honest-in-peer-performance-reviews.md) - [Episode 141: A Rampant Rewriter and Dealing with an Overexplainer (rerun of episode 73)](https://softskills.audio/2019/01/21/episode-141-rerun-of-73-ramprant-rewriter-and-dealing-with-over-explainers/) — 2019-01-21 — [Markdown](https://raw.githubusercontent.com/soft-skills-engineering/website/refs/heads/gh-pages/_posts/2019-01-21-episode-141-rerun-of-73-ramprant-rewriter-and-dealing-with-over-explainers.md) - [Episode 140: Should I apologize for my bugs after I quit and should I become a project manager](https://softskills.audio/2019/01/14/episode-140-should-i-apologize-for-my-bugs-after-i-quit-and-should-i-become-a-project-manager/) — 2019-01-14 — [Markdown](https://raw.githubusercontent.com/soft-skills-engineering/website/refs/heads/gh-pages/_posts/2019-01-14-episode-140-should-i-apologize-for-my-bugs-after-i-quit-and-should-i-become-a-project-manager.md) - [Episode 139: How to deal with badmouthing and how to survive in a loud open office](https://softskills.audio/2019/01/07/episode-139-how-to-deal-with-badmouthing-and-how-to-survive-in-a-loud-open-office/) — 2019-01-07 — [Markdown](https://raw.githubusercontent.com/soft-skills-engineering/website/refs/heads/gh-pages/_posts/2019-01-07-episode-139-how-to-deal-with-badmouthing-and-how-to-survive-in-a-loud-open-office.md) - [Episode 138: Should I ask for a raise before my annual review and how to keep up with young, single, overtime-working co-workers](https://softskills.audio/2018/12/31/episode-138-should-i-ask-for-a-raise-before-my-annual-review-and-how-to-keep-up-with-young,-single,-overtime-working-co-workers/) — 2018-12-31 — [Markdown](https://raw.githubusercontent.com/soft-skills-engineering/website/refs/heads/gh-pages/_posts/2018-12-31-episode-138-should-i-ask-for-a-raise-before-my-annual-review-and-how-to-keep-up-with-young,-single,-overtime-working-co-workers.md) - [Episode 137: How to get answers to technical questions and Should managers also be technical](https://softskills.audio/2018/12/24/episode-137-how-to-get-answers-to-technical-questions-and-should-managers-also-be-technical/) — 2018-12-24 — [Markdown](https://raw.githubusercontent.com/soft-skills-engineering/website/refs/heads/gh-pages/_posts/2018-12-24-episode-137-how-to-get-answers-to-technical-questions-and-should-managers-also-be-technical.md) - [Episode 136: My family thinks I'm over paid and Is a 10% raise good](https://softskills.audio/2018/12/17/episode-136-my-family-thinks-i'm-over-paid-and-is-a-10-raise-good/) — 2018-12-17 — [Markdown](https://raw.githubusercontent.com/soft-skills-engineering/website/refs/heads/gh-pages/_posts/2018-12-17-episode-136-my-family-thinks-i'm-over-paid-and-is-a-10%-raise-good.md) - [Episode 135: Publicly Correcting Speakers and Forced Into a Dev Role as a Product Manager](https://softskills.audio/2018/12/10/episode-135-publicly-correcting-speakers-and-forced-into-a-dev-role-as-a-product-manager/) — 2018-12-10 — [Markdown](https://raw.githubusercontent.com/soft-skills-engineering/website/refs/heads/gh-pages/_posts/2018-12-10-episode-135-publicly-correcting-speakers-and-forced-into-a-dev-role-as-a-product-manager.md) - [Episode 134: Boredom vs Money and Agile vs Long-Term Schedules](https://softskills.audio/2018/12/03/episode-134-boredom-vs-money-and-agile-vs-long-term-schedules/) — 2018-12-03 — [Markdown](https://raw.githubusercontent.com/soft-skills-engineering/website/refs/heads/gh-pages/_posts/2018-12-03-episode-134-boredom-vs-money-and-agile-vs-long-term-schedules.md) - [Episode 133: Herding Linter Cats and Surviving Until Severance Time](https://softskills.audio/2018/11/19/episode-133-herding-linter-cats-and-surviving-until-severance-time/) — 2018-11-19 — [Markdown](https://raw.githubusercontent.com/soft-skills-engineering/website/refs/heads/gh-pages/_posts/2018-11-19-episode-133-herding-linter-cats-and-surviving-until-severance-time.md) - [Episode 132: Should I tell my boss I'm planning to quit and keeping tech talks going](https://softskills.audio/2018/11/12/episode-132-should-i-tell-my-boss-i'm-planning-to-quit-and-keeping-tech-talks-going/) — 2018-11-12 — [Markdown](https://raw.githubusercontent.com/soft-skills-engineering/website/refs/heads/gh-pages/_posts/2018-11-12-episode-132-should-i-tell-my-boss-i'm-planning-to-quit-and-keeping-tech-talks-going.md) - [Episode 131: Coworkers with stinky feet and Was my salary expectation too high](https://softskills.audio/2018/11/05/episode-131-coworkers-with-stinky-feet-and-was-my-salary-expectation-too-high/) — 2018-11-05 — [Markdown](https://raw.githubusercontent.com/soft-skills-engineering/website/refs/heads/gh-pages/_posts/2018-11-05-episode-131-coworkers-with-stinky-feet-and-was-my-salary-expectation-too-high.md) - [Episode 130 (rerun of episode 87): Stand up and fight! and Metrics](https://softskills.audio/2018/10/29/episode-130-stand-up-and-fight!-and-metrics/) — 2018-10-29 — [Markdown](https://raw.githubusercontent.com/soft-skills-engineering/website/refs/heads/gh-pages/_posts/2018-10-29-episode-130-stand-up-and-fight!-and-metrics.md) - [Episode 129: Office romance and What to say during one-on-ones](https://softskills.audio/2018/10/22/episode-129-office-romance-and-what-to-say-during-one-on-ones/) — 2018-10-22 — [Markdown](https://raw.githubusercontent.com/soft-skills-engineering/website/refs/heads/gh-pages/_posts/2018-10-22-episode-129-office-romance-and-what-to-say-during-one-on-ones.md) - [Episode 128: Finish The Degree In Poverty? and Hiring Insecurity](https://softskills.audio/2018/10/15/episode-128-finish-the-degree-in-poverty-and-hiring-insecurity/) — 2018-10-15 — [Markdown](https://raw.githubusercontent.com/soft-skills-engineering/website/refs/heads/gh-pages/_posts/2018-10-15-episode-128-finish-the-degree-in-poverty?-and-hiring-insecurity.md) - [Episode 127: Leaving a Job I Love and My Role Is Being Eroded](https://softskills.audio/2018/10/08/episode-127-leaving-a-job-i-love-and-my-role-is-being-eroded/) — 2018-10-08 — [Markdown](https://raw.githubusercontent.com/soft-skills-engineering/website/refs/heads/gh-pages/_posts/2018-10-08-episode-127-leaving-a-job-i-love-and-my-role-is-being-eroded.md) - [Episode 126: I'm underpaid and Game Industry Bonuses](https://softskills.audio/2018/10/01/episode-126-i'm-underpaid-and-game-industry-bonuses/) — 2018-10-01 — [Markdown](https://raw.githubusercontent.com/soft-skills-engineering/website/refs/heads/gh-pages/_posts/2018-10-01-episode-126-i'm-underpaid-and-game-industry-bonuses.md) - [Episode 125: Brainstorming sessions and Slack Ettiquette](https://softskills.audio/2018/09/24/episode-125-brainstorming-sessions-and-slack-ettiquette/) — 2018-09-24 — [Markdown](https://raw.githubusercontent.com/soft-skills-engineering/website/refs/heads/gh-pages/_posts/2018-09-24-episode-125-brainstorming-sessions-and-slack-ettiquette.md) - [Episode 124: Pair Programming Pain and Side Hustle CEO](https://softskills.audio/2018/09/17/episode-124-pair-programming-pain-and-side-hustle-ceo/) — 2018-09-17 — [Markdown](https://raw.githubusercontent.com/soft-skills-engineering/website/refs/heads/gh-pages/_posts/2018-09-17-episode-124-pair-programming-pain-and-side-hustle-ceo.md) - [Episode 123: Salary Promise Fail and Slacker Coworkers](https://softskills.audio/2018/09/10/episode-123-salary-promise-fail-and-slacker-coworkers/) — 2018-09-10 — [Markdown](https://raw.githubusercontent.com/soft-skills-engineering/website/refs/heads/gh-pages/_posts/2018-09-10-episode-123-salary-promise-fail-and-slacker-coworkers.md) - [Episode 122: Too Much Process and Negotiating Salaries with Multiple Companies](https://softskills.audio/2018/09/03/episode-122-too-much-process-and-negotiating-salaries-with-multiple-companies/) — 2018-09-03 — [Markdown](https://raw.githubusercontent.com/soft-skills-engineering/website/refs/heads/gh-pages/_posts/2018-09-03-episode-122-too-much-process-and-negotiating-salaries-with-multiple-companies.md) - [Episode 121: Working Remotely Without Hating It and Managing Rotating Engineers](https://softskills.audio/2018/08/27/episode-121-working-remote-without-hating-it-and-managing-rotating-engineers/) — 2018-08-27 — [Markdown](https://raw.githubusercontent.com/soft-skills-engineering/website/refs/heads/gh-pages/_posts/2018-08-27-episode-121-working-remote-without-hating-it-and-managing-rotating-engineers.md) - [Episode 120: Layoff Decisions and Overworking Peers](https://softskills.audio/2018/08/20/episode-120-layoff-decisions-and-over-working-peers/) — 2018-08-20 — [Markdown](https://raw.githubusercontent.com/soft-skills-engineering/website/refs/heads/gh-pages/_posts/2018-08-20-episode-120-layoff-decisions-and-over-working-peers.md) - [Episode 119 (rerun of episode 77): My boss wants me to speak at conferences and how to get better than a 2% raise](https://softskills.audio/2018/08/13/episode-119-rerun-episode-77-boss-wants-me-to-speak-and-getting-a-2-percent-raise/) — 2018-08-13 — [Markdown](https://raw.githubusercontent.com/soft-skills-engineering/website/refs/heads/gh-pages/_posts/2018-08-13-episode-119-rerun-episode-77-boss-wants-me-to-speak-and-getting-a-2-percent-raise.md) - [Episode 118: Asking For Help and Speaking Up](https://softskills.audio/2018/07/30/episode-118-asking-for-help-and-speaking-up/) — 2018-07-30 — [Markdown](https://raw.githubusercontent.com/soft-skills-engineering/website/refs/heads/gh-pages/_posts/2018-07-30-episode-118-asking-for-help-and-speaking-up.md) - [Episode 117: Defense Industry Stigma and Responding to Negative Feedback](https://softskills.audio/2018/07/23/episode-117-defense-industry-stigma-and-responding-to-negative-feedback/) — 2018-07-23 — [Markdown](https://raw.githubusercontent.com/soft-skills-engineering/website/refs/heads/gh-pages/_posts/2018-07-23-episode-117-defense-industry-stigma-and-responding-to-negative-feedback.md) - [Episode 116: Weekend Warrioring and Reaching the End of the Career Ladder](https://softskills.audio/2018/07/17/episode-116-weekend-warrior-and-reaching-the-end-of-the-career-ladder/) — 2018-07-17 — [Markdown](https://raw.githubusercontent.com/soft-skills-engineering/website/refs/heads/gh-pages/_posts/2018-07-17-episode-116-weekend-warrior-and-reaching-the-end-of-the-career-ladder.md) - [Episode 115: Sharing Your Salary When You Leave and Hiring Decisions Overruled](https://softskills.audio/2018/07/10/episode-115-sharing-salary-when-you-leave-and-hiring-decisions-overruled/) — 2018-07-10 — [Markdown](https://raw.githubusercontent.com/soft-skills-engineering/website/refs/heads/gh-pages/_posts/2018-07-10-episode-115-sharing-salary-when-you-leave-and-hiring-decisions-overruled.md) - [Episode 114: Story Point Commitments and Measuring Productivity (Episode 79 Rerun)](https://softskills.audio/2018/07/02/episode-114-story-points-and-measuring-productivity-rerun/) — 2018-07-02 — [Markdown](https://raw.githubusercontent.com/soft-skills-engineering/website/refs/heads/gh-pages/_posts/2018-07-02-episode-114-story-points-and-measuring-productivity-rerun.md) - [Episode 113: Quitting Your First Job and Too Many Responsibilities](https://softskills.audio/2018/06/25/episode-113-quitting-the-first-job-and-too-many-responsibilities/) — 2018-06-25 — [Markdown](https://raw.githubusercontent.com/soft-skills-engineering/website/refs/heads/gh-pages/_posts/2018-06-25-episode-113-quitting-the-first-job-and-too-many-responsibilities.md) - [Episode 112: Disinterested Interviewing and Layoff Fallout](https://softskills.audio/2018/06/18/episode-112-disinterested-interviewing-and-layoff-fallout/) — 2018-06-18 — [Markdown](https://raw.githubusercontent.com/soft-skills-engineering/website/refs/heads/gh-pages/_posts/2018-06-18-episode-112-disinterested-interviewing-and-layoff-fallout.md) - [Episode 111: Dogma Rehab and Getting a Co-worker Fired](https://softskills.audio/2018/06/12/episode-111-dogma-rehab-and-firing-a-coworker/) — 2018-06-12 — [Markdown](https://raw.githubusercontent.com/soft-skills-engineering/website/refs/heads/gh-pages/_posts/2018-06-12-episode-111-dogma-rehab-and-firing-a-coworker.md) - [Episode 110: Team Spirit and Half-hearted Recruiting](https://softskills.audio/2018/06/04/episode-110-team-spirit-and-half-hearted-recruiting/) — 2018-06-04 — [Markdown](https://raw.githubusercontent.com/soft-skills-engineering/website/refs/heads/gh-pages/_posts/2018-06-04-episode-110-team-spirit-and-half-hearted-recruiting.md) - [Episode 109: Critical Junior Dev and Introducing New Tools](https://softskills.audio/2018/05/29/episode-109-critical-junior-dev-and-introducing-new-tools/) — 2018-05-29 — [Markdown](https://raw.githubusercontent.com/soft-skills-engineering/website/refs/heads/gh-pages/_posts/2018-05-29-episode-109-critical-junior-dev-and-introducing-new-tools.md) - [(Rerun) Episode 35: Attracting Talent and Quitting Responsibly](https://softskills.audio/2018/05/20/rerun-episode-35-attracting-talent-and-quitting-without-burning-bridges/) — 2018-05-20 — [Markdown](https://raw.githubusercontent.com/soft-skills-engineering/website/refs/heads/gh-pages/_posts/2018-05-21-rerun-episode-35-attracting-talent-and-quitting-without-burning-bridges.md) - [Episode 108: An Insecure Teammate and Disclosing Past Ratings](https://softskills.audio/2018/05/13/episode-108-insecure-teammate-and-disclosing-past-ratings/) — 2018-05-13 — [Markdown](https://raw.githubusercontent.com/soft-skills-engineering/website/refs/heads/gh-pages/_posts/2018-05-13-episode-108-insecure-teammate-and-disclosing-past-ratings.md) - [(Rerun) Episode 40: Office Visibility and New Tech](https://softskills.audio/2018/05/06/episode-40-rerun-office-visibility-and-new-tech/) — 2018-05-06 — [Markdown](https://raw.githubusercontent.com/soft-skills-engineering/website/refs/heads/gh-pages/_posts/2018-05-06-episode-40-rerun-office-visibility-and-new-tech.md) - [Episode 107: Silence After Interviews and Newsletter Politics](https://softskills.audio/2018/04/30/episode-107-no-interview-feedback-and-newsletter-politics/) — 2018-04-30 — [Markdown](https://raw.githubusercontent.com/soft-skills-engineering/website/refs/heads/gh-pages/_posts/2018-04-29-episode-107-no-interview-feedback-and-newsletter-politics.md) - [Episode 106: Working From Home Without Rotting and Meetup Etiquette](https://softskills.audio/2018/04/22/episode-106-working-from-home-without-rotting-and-meetup-etiquette/) — 2018-04-22 — [Markdown](https://raw.githubusercontent.com/soft-skills-engineering/website/refs/heads/gh-pages/_posts/2018-04-22-episode-106-working-from-home-without-rotting-and-meetup-etiquette.md) - [Episode 105: Interviewing for Management and Annoying Noises](https://softskills.audio/2018/04/12/episode-105-interviews-with-vps-and-hiring-a-tester/) — 2018-04-12 — [Markdown](https://raw.githubusercontent.com/soft-skills-engineering/website/refs/heads/gh-pages/_posts/2018-04-11-episode-105-interviews-with-vps-and-hiring-a-tester.md) - [Episode 104: Interviews With VPs and Hiring a Tester](https://softskills.audio/2018/04/06/episode-104-interviews-with-vps-and-hiring-a-tester/) — 2018-04-06 — [Markdown](https://raw.githubusercontent.com/soft-skills-engineering/website/refs/heads/gh-pages/_posts/2018-04-06-episode-104-interviews-with-vps-and-hiring-a-tester.md) - [Episode 103: Team Dynamics and Bad Code](https://softskills.audio/2018/03/31/episode-103-team-dynamics-and-bad-code/) — 2018-03-31 — [Markdown](https://raw.githubusercontent.com/soft-skills-engineering/website/refs/heads/gh-pages/_posts/2018-03-31-episode-103-team-dynamics-and-bad-code.md) - [Episode 102: Correcting English and Tyranny of the Urgent](https://softskills.audio/2018/03/24/episode-102-correcting-english-and-tyranny-of-the-urgent/) — 2018-03-24 — [Markdown](https://raw.githubusercontent.com/soft-skills-engineering/website/refs/heads/gh-pages/_posts/2018-03-24-episode-102-correcting-english-and-tyranny-of-the-urgent.md) - [Episode 101: Style In Code Reviews and How To Thank My Manager](https://softskills.audio/2018/03/17/episode-101-developer-health-and-whiteboard-interviews/) — 2018-03-17 — [Markdown](https://raw.githubusercontent.com/soft-skills-engineering/website/refs/heads/gh-pages/_posts/2018-03-17-episode-101-developer-health-and-whiteboard-interviews.md) - [Episode 99: Developer Health and Whiteboard Interviews](https://softskills.audio/2018/03/09/episode-99-developer-health-and-whiteboard-interviews/) — 2018-03-09 — [Markdown](https://raw.githubusercontent.com/soft-skills-engineering/website/refs/heads/gh-pages/_posts/2018-03-09-episode-99-developer-health-and-whiteboard-interviews.md) - [Episode 98 (Rerun of Episode 57): Disliking Management and Difficult Co-workers](https://softskills.audio/2018/03/02/episode-98-management-tasks-i-hate-and-difficult-co-workers/) — 2018-03-02 — [Markdown](https://raw.githubusercontent.com/soft-skills-engineering/website/refs/heads/gh-pages/_posts/2018-03-02-episode-98-management-tasks-i-hate-and-difficult-co-workers.md) - [Episode 97: A Quiet Intern and Hearts and Guts](https://softskills.audio/2018/02/22/episode-97-encouraging-quiet-devs-and-hearts-and-guts/) — 2018-02-22 — [Markdown](https://raw.githubusercontent.com/soft-skills-engineering/website/refs/heads/gh-pages/_posts/2018-02-22-episode-97-encouraging-quiet-devs-and-hearts-and-guts.md) - [Episode 96: Teaching Burden and Unknown Unknowns](https://softskills.audio/2018/02/17/episode-96-too-much-time-teaching-and-asking-the-right-questions/) — 2018-02-17 — [Markdown](https://raw.githubusercontent.com/soft-skills-engineering/website/refs/heads/gh-pages/_posts/2018-02-17-episode-96-too-much-time-teaching-and-asking-the-right-questions.md) - [Episode 95: Paying For Help and Scared of Recruiters](https://softskills.audio/2018/02/08/episode-95-paying-for-help-and-scared-of-recruiters/) — 2018-02-08 — [Markdown](https://raw.githubusercontent.com/soft-skills-engineering/website/refs/heads/gh-pages/_posts/2018-02-08-episode-95-paying-for-help-and-scared-of-recruiters.md) - [Episode 94: Dodging Recommendations and Full Sleeve Tattoos](https://softskills.audio/2018/02/03/episode-94-reluctant-recommendations-and-full-sleeve-tattoos/) — 2018-02-03 — [Markdown](https://raw.githubusercontent.com/soft-skills-engineering/website/refs/heads/gh-pages/_posts/2018-02-03-episode-94-reluctant-recommendations-and-full-sleeve-tattoos.md) - [Episode 93: Negotiating Annual Raises and Part-Time Work](https://softskills.audio/2018/01/27/episode-93-annual-raise-negotiation-and-part-time-work/) — 2018-01-27 — [Markdown](https://raw.githubusercontent.com/soft-skills-engineering/website/refs/heads/gh-pages/_posts/2018-01-27-episode-93-annual-raise-negotiation-and-part-time-work.md) - [Episode 92: Career Death by Friction and New Job Woes](https://softskills.audio/2018/01/19/episode-92-career-death-by-friction-and-new-job-woes/) — 2018-01-19 — [Markdown](https://raw.githubusercontent.com/soft-skills-engineering/website/refs/heads/gh-pages/_posts/2018-01-19-episode-92-career-death-by-friction-and-new-job-woes.md) - [Episode 91: Job Requirements and Teams of Misfits](https://softskills.audio/2018/01/11/episode-91-job-requirements-and-teams-of-misfits/) — 2018-01-11 — [Markdown](https://raw.githubusercontent.com/soft-skills-engineering/website/refs/heads/gh-pages/_posts/2018-01-11-episode-91-job-requirements-and-teams-of-misfits.md) - [Episode 90: Upper Management Dislikes Me and Undeserved Job Offers](https://softskills.audio/2018/01/05/episode-90-upset-bosses-and-undeserved-job-offers/) — 2018-01-05 — [Markdown](https://raw.githubusercontent.com/soft-skills-engineering/website/refs/heads/gh-pages/_posts/2018-01-05-episode-90-upset-bosses-and-undeserved-job-offers.md) - [Episode 89: Departed Engineers and Employment Contracts](https://softskills.audio/2017/12/28/episode-89-departed-engineers-and-employment-contracts/) — 2017-12-28 — [Markdown](https://raw.githubusercontent.com/soft-skills-engineering/website/refs/heads/gh-pages/_posts/2017-12-28-episode-89-departed-engineers-and-employment-contracts.md) - [Episode 88: How To Dress For Interviews and Learning To Interview](https://softskills.audio/2017/12/22/episode-88-interview-dress-and-conducting-interviews/) — 2017-12-22 — [Markdown](https://raw.githubusercontent.com/soft-skills-engineering/website/refs/heads/gh-pages/_posts/2017-12-22-episode-88-interview-dress-and-conducting-interviews.md) - [Episode 87: Pushover Coworkers and Productivity Metrics](https://softskills.audio/2017/12/14/episode-87-pushover-coworkers-and-productivity-metrics/) — 2017-12-14 — [Markdown](https://raw.githubusercontent.com/soft-skills-engineering/website/refs/heads/gh-pages/_posts/2017-12-14-episode-87-pushover-coworkers-and-productivity-metrics.md) - [Episode 86: Sharing Salaries and Offensive Words](https://softskills.audio/2017/12/07/episode-86-sharing-salaries-and-offensive-words/) — 2017-12-07 — [Markdown](https://raw.githubusercontent.com/soft-skills-engineering/website/refs/heads/gh-pages/_posts/2017-12-07-episode-86-sharing-salaries-and-offensive-words.md) - [Episode 85: Annoying Know-it-alls and Company Headshots](https://softskills.audio/2017/11/30/episode-85-annoying-know-it-alls-and-company-headshots/) — 2017-11-30 — [Markdown](https://raw.githubusercontent.com/soft-skills-engineering/website/refs/heads/gh-pages/_posts/2017-11-30-episode-85-annoying-know-it-alls-and-company-headshots.md) - [Episode 84: Shy Developers and Outsourced Architecture](https://softskills.audio/2017/11/23/episode-84-shy-developers-and-outsourced-architecture/) — 2017-11-23 — [Markdown](https://raw.githubusercontent.com/soft-skills-engineering/website/refs/heads/gh-pages/_posts/2017-11-23-episode-84-shy-developers-and-outsourced-architecture.md) - [Episode 83: Gaps In The Resume and Moving To Business](https://softskills.audio/2017/11/16/episode-83-resume-gaps-and-moving-to-business/) — 2017-11-16 — [Markdown](https://raw.githubusercontent.com/soft-skills-engineering/website/refs/heads/gh-pages/_posts/2017-11-15-episode-83-resume-gaps-and-moving-to-business.md) - [Episode 82: Blow Ups and Job Security](https://softskills.audio/2017/11/09/episode-82-blow-ups-and-job-security/) — 2017-11-09 — [Markdown](https://raw.githubusercontent.com/soft-skills-engineering/website/refs/heads/gh-pages/_posts/2017-11-08-episode-82-blow-ups-and-job-security.md) - [Episode 81: Unwilling To Grow and Forced Out During Two Weeks Notice](https://softskills.audio/2017/11/02/episode-81-helping-unwilling-developers-grow-and-forced-out-during-two-weeks-notice/) — 2017-11-02 — [Markdown](https://raw.githubusercontent.com/soft-skills-engineering/website/refs/heads/gh-pages/_posts/2017-11-02-episode-81-helping-unwilling-developers-grow-and-forced-out-during-two-weeks-notice.md) - [Episode 80: New Team Leads and Constant Follow Up](https://softskills.audio/2017/10/29/episode-80-becoming-team-lead-and-constant-follow-up/) — 2017-10-29 — [Markdown](https://raw.githubusercontent.com/soft-skills-engineering/website/refs/heads/gh-pages/_posts/2017-10-29-episode-80-becoming-team-lead-and-constant-follow-up.md) - [Episode 79: Story Point Misses and Measuring Productivity](https://softskills.audio/2017/10/19/episode-79-story-points-and-developer-productivity/) — 2017-10-19 — [Markdown](https://raw.githubusercontent.com/soft-skills-engineering/website/refs/heads/gh-pages/_posts/2017-10-19-episode-79-story-points-and-developer-productivity.md) - [Episode 78: Endless Rewrites and Fake Deadlines](https://softskills.audio/2017/10/13/episode-78-endless-rewrites-and-fake-deadlines/) — 2017-10-13 — [Markdown](https://raw.githubusercontent.com/soft-skills-engineering/website/refs/heads/gh-pages/_posts/2017-10-13-episode-78-endless-rewrites-and-fake-deadlines.md) - [Episode 77: Boss Wants Me To Speak and The 2% Raise](https://softskills.audio/2017/10/04/episode-77-new-speaking-and-the-2-percent-raise/) — 2017-10-04 — [Markdown](https://raw.githubusercontent.com/soft-skills-engineering/website/refs/heads/gh-pages/_posts/2017-10-04-episode-77-new-speaking-and-the-2-percent-raise.md) - [Episode 76: Writing Goals and Firing Jokes](https://softskills.audio/2017/09/25/episode-76-writing-goals-and-firing-jokes/) — 2017-09-25 — [Markdown](https://raw.githubusercontent.com/soft-skills-engineering/website/refs/heads/gh-pages/_posts/2017-09-25-episode-76-writing-goals-and-firing-jokes.md) - [Episode 75: Self-Promotion For Wallflowers and Moving in a Year](https://softskills.audio/2017/09/19/episode-75-self-promotion-for-shy-people-and-moving-in-a-year/) — 2017-09-19 — [Markdown](https://raw.githubusercontent.com/soft-skills-engineering/website/refs/heads/gh-pages/_posts/2017-09-19-episode-75-self-promotion-for-shy-people-and-moving-in-a-year.md) - [Episode 74: Switching Languages Without A Pay Cut and A Missed Negotiation](https://softskills.audio/2017/09/11/episode-74-pay-cut-for-switching-languages-and-missed-negotiation/) — 2017-09-11 — [Markdown](https://raw.githubusercontent.com/soft-skills-engineering/website/refs/heads/gh-pages/_posts/2017-09-08-episode-74-pay-cut-for-switching-languages-and-missed-negotiation.md) - [Episode 73: A Rampant Rewriter and Overexplainers](https://softskills.audio/2017/08/31/episode-73-rampant-rewriters-and-overexplainers/) — 2017-08-31 — [Markdown](https://raw.githubusercontent.com/soft-skills-engineering/website/refs/heads/gh-pages/_posts/2017-08-31-episode-73-rampant-rewriters-and-overexplainers.md) - [Episode 72: The Micromanaging CEO and The Only Developer](https://softskills.audio/2017/08/17/episode-72-micro-managing-ceo-and-the-only-developer/) — 2017-08-17 — [Markdown](https://raw.githubusercontent.com/soft-skills-engineering/website/refs/heads/gh-pages/_posts/2017-08-17-episode-72-micro-managing-ceo-and-the-only-developer.md) - [Episode 71: Informal Leadership and Dealing With Burnout](https://softskills.audio/2017/08/14/episode-71-informal-leadership-and-dealing-with-burnout/) — 2017-08-14 — [Markdown](https://raw.githubusercontent.com/soft-skills-engineering/website/refs/heads/gh-pages/_posts/2017-08-14-episode-71-informal-leadership-and-dealing-with-burnout.md) - [Episode 70: Appraisal-Driven Development and Meeting Creep](https://softskills.audio/2017/07/28/episode-70-appraisal-driven-and-meeting-creep/) — 2017-07-28 — [Markdown](https://raw.githubusercontent.com/soft-skills-engineering/website/refs/heads/gh-pages/_posts/2017-07-28-episode-70-appraisal-driven-and-meeting-creep.md) - [Episode 69: A Know-It-All Lead and Selling Your Boss on Remote Work](https://softskills.audio/2017/07/21/episode-69-self-important-lead-and-going-remote/) — 2017-07-21 — [Markdown](https://raw.githubusercontent.com/soft-skills-engineering/website/refs/heads/gh-pages/_posts/2017-07-21-episode-69-self-important-lead-and-going-remote.md) - [Episode 68: Paying Your Dues and Non-technical Hobbies](https://softskills.audio/2017/07/13/episode-68-paying-your-dues-and-outside-hobbies/) — 2017-07-13 — [Markdown](https://raw.githubusercontent.com/soft-skills-engineering/website/refs/heads/gh-pages/_posts/2017-07-13-episode-68-paying-your-dues-and-outside-hobbies.md) - [Episode 67: Graduate School and Asking Good Questions](https://softskills.audio/2017/07/07/episode-67-grad-school-and-asking-good-questions/) — 2017-07-07 — [Markdown](https://raw.githubusercontent.com/soft-skills-engineering/website/refs/heads/gh-pages/_posts/2017-07-07-episode-67-grad-school-and-asking-good-questions.md) - [Episode 66: Nepotism and Minimum Junior Requirements](https://softskills.audio/2017/06/29/episode-66-nepotism-and-how-bad-can-a-junior-be/) — 2017-06-29 — [Markdown](https://raw.githubusercontent.com/soft-skills-engineering/website/refs/heads/gh-pages/_posts/2017-06-29-episode-66-nepotism-and-how-bad-can-a-junior-be.md) - [Episode 65: Left In The Dust and Imposter Syndrome](https://softskills.audio/2017/06/22/episode-65-left-in-the-dust-and-imposter-syndrome/) — 2017-06-22 — [Markdown](https://raw.githubusercontent.com/soft-skills-engineering/website/refs/heads/gh-pages/_posts/2017-06-22-episode-65-left-in-the-dust-and-imposter-syndrome.md) - [Episode 64: Negative Peer Reviews and On Call](https://softskills.audio/2017/06/15/episode-64-negative-peer-reviews-and-on-call/) — 2017-06-15 — [Markdown](https://raw.githubusercontent.com/soft-skills-engineering/website/refs/heads/gh-pages/_posts/2017-06-15-episode-64-negative-peer-reviews-and-on-call.md) - [Episode 63: (Rerun) Management Snobs and Two Bosses](https://softskills.audio/2017/06/08/episode-63-management-snobs-and-two-bosses/) — 2017-06-08 — [Markdown](https://raw.githubusercontent.com/soft-skills-engineering/website/refs/heads/gh-pages/_posts/2017-06-08-episode-63-management-snobs-and-two-bosses.md) - [Episode 62: Many Meetings and Surviving an Acquisition](https://softskills.audio/2017/05/31/episode-62-many-meetings-and-surviving-acquisition/) — 2017-05-31 — [Markdown](https://raw.githubusercontent.com/soft-skills-engineering/website/refs/heads/gh-pages/_posts/2017-05-31-episode-62-many-meetings-and-surviving-acquisition.md) - [Episode 61: Product Managers and Notifications](https://softskills.audio/2017/05/25/episode-61-product-managers-and-notifications/) — 2017-05-25 — [Markdown](https://raw.githubusercontent.com/soft-skills-engineering/website/refs/heads/gh-pages/_posts/2017-05-25-episode-61-product-managers-and-notifications.md) - [Episode 60: Office Arrangements and Disarming A Code Owner](https://softskills.audio/2017/05/17/episode-60-office-arrangements-and-disarming-code-owners/) — 2017-05-17 — [Markdown](https://raw.githubusercontent.com/soft-skills-engineering/website/refs/heads/gh-pages/_posts/2017-05-17-episode-60-office-arrangements-and-disarming-code-owners.md) - [Episode 59: Buying Training and Unrelated Experience](https://softskills.audio/2017/05/11/episode-59-buying-training-and-unrelated-experience/) — 2017-05-11 — [Markdown](https://raw.githubusercontent.com/soft-skills-engineering/website/refs/heads/gh-pages/_posts/2017-05-11-episode-59-buying-training-and-unrelated-experience.md) - [Episode 58: Dropping Out and Interview Prep (Rerun)](https://softskills.audio/2017/05/02/episode-58-dropping-out-and-interview-prep/) — 2017-05-02 — [Markdown](https://raw.githubusercontent.com/soft-skills-engineering/website/refs/heads/gh-pages/_posts/2017-05-02-episode-58-dropping-out-and-interview-prep.md) - [Episode 57: Disliking Management and Difficult Co-workers](https://softskills.audio/2017/04/25/episode-57-management-tasks-i-hate-and-difficult-co-workers/) — 2017-04-25 — [Markdown](https://raw.githubusercontent.com/soft-skills-engineering/website/refs/heads/gh-pages/_posts/2017-04-25-episode-57-management-tasks-i-hate-and-difficult-co-workers.md) - [Episode 56: Keeping Meetings On Track and Designer-centric Culture](https://softskills.audio/2017/04/18/episode-56-meetings-on-track-and-designer-centric-culture/) — 2017-04-18 — [Markdown](https://raw.githubusercontent.com/soft-skills-engineering/website/refs/heads/gh-pages/_posts/2017-04-18-episode-56-meetings-on-track-and-designer-centric-culture.md) - [Episode 55: Ng-Conf Live Episode](https://softskills.audio/2017/04/11/episode-55-ng-conf-live-episode/) — 2017-04-11 — [Markdown](https://raw.githubusercontent.com/soft-skills-engineering/website/refs/heads/gh-pages/_posts/2017-04-11-episode-55-ng-conf-live-episode.md) - [Episode 54: Sneaky Contractors and Job Titles](https://softskills.audio/2017/04/04/episode-54-sneaky-contractors-and-job-title-growth/) — 2017-04-04 — [Markdown](https://raw.githubusercontent.com/soft-skills-engineering/website/refs/heads/gh-pages/_posts/2017-04-04-episode-54-sneaky-contractors-and-job-title-growth.md) - [Episode 53: Bait and Switch and Informing Your Manager](https://softskills.audio/2017/03/29/episode-53-bait-and-switch-and-telling-managers-about-moving-to-management/) — 2017-03-29 — [Markdown](https://raw.githubusercontent.com/soft-skills-engineering/website/refs/heads/gh-pages/_posts/2017-03-29-episode-53-bait-and-switch-and-telling-managers-about-moving-to-management.md) - [Episode 52: Slowness Guilt and I Have No Side Projects](https://softskills.audio/2017/03/21/episode-52-slowness-guilt-and-no-side-projects/) — 2017-03-21 — [Markdown](https://raw.githubusercontent.com/soft-skills-engineering/website/refs/heads/gh-pages/_posts/2017-03-21-episode-52-slowness-guilt-and-no-side-projects.md) - [Episode 51: Junior Scrum Master In Trouble And Jamison Has No Degree](https://softskills.audio/2017/03/15/episode-51-junior-scrum-master-in-trouble-and-jamison-has-no-degree/) — 2017-03-15 — [Markdown](https://raw.githubusercontent.com/soft-skills-engineering/website/refs/heads/gh-pages/_posts/2017-03-15-episode-51-junior-scrum-master-in-trouble-and-jamison-has-no-degree.md) - [Episode 50: I Didn't Quit and Manager of Zero People](https://softskills.audio/2017/03/07/episode-50-help-i-didnt-quit-and-manager-of-no-one/) — 2017-03-07 — [Markdown](https://raw.githubusercontent.com/soft-skills-engineering/website/refs/heads/gh-pages/_posts/2017-03-07-episode-50-help-i-didnt-quit-and-manager-of-no-one.md) - [Episode 49: Candidate Plagiarism and a Tightwad Employer](https://softskills.audio/2017/02/28/episode-49-candidate-plagarism-and-tightwad-employer/) — 2017-02-28 — [Markdown](https://raw.githubusercontent.com/soft-skills-engineering/website/refs/heads/gh-pages/_posts/2017-02-28-episode-49-candidate-plagarism-and-tightwad-employer.md) - [Episode 48: Quitting a Death March & Am I Underpaid](https://softskills.audio/2017/02/21/episode-48-quitting-a-death-march-and-discovering-if-im-underpaid/) — 2017-02-21 — [Markdown](https://raw.githubusercontent.com/soft-skills-engineering/website/refs/heads/gh-pages/_posts/2017-02-21-episode-48-quitting-a-death-march-and-discovering-if-im-underpaid.md) - [Episode 47: Speaking Up In A New Job and Personal Issues](https://softskills.audio/2017/02/14/episode-47-speaking-up-and-personal-issues/) — 2017-02-14 — [Markdown](https://raw.githubusercontent.com/soft-skills-engineering/website/refs/heads/gh-pages/_posts/2017-02-14-episode-47-speaking-up-and-personal-issues.md) - [Episode 46: My New Crappy Job and Youth vs the Status Quo](https://softskills.audio/2017/02/07/episode-46-new-crappy-job-and-youth-vs-status-quo/) — 2017-02-07 — [Markdown](https://raw.githubusercontent.com/soft-skills-engineering/website/refs/heads/gh-pages/_posts/2017-02-07-episode-46-new-crappy-job-and-youth-vs-status-quo.md) - [Episode 45: RAPID FIRE and Micromanagers](https://softskills.audio/2017/01/28/episode-45-RAPID-FIRE-and-micromanagers/) — 2017-01-28 — [Markdown](https://raw.githubusercontent.com/soft-skills-engineering/website/refs/heads/gh-pages/_posts/2017-01-30-episode-45-RAPID-FIRE-and-micromanagers.md) - [Episode 44: Discussing Firing and Writing Job Postings](https://softskills.audio/2017/01/25/episode-44-discussing-firings-and-writing-job-postings/) — 2017-01-25 — [Markdown](https://raw.githubusercontent.com/soft-skills-engineering/website/refs/heads/gh-pages/_posts/2017-01-25-episode-44-discussing-firings-and-writing-job-postings.md) - [Episode 43: Internship Costs and CS Interview Questions](https://softskills.audio/2017/01/16/episode-43-cost-of-internships-and-cs-interview-questions/) — 2017-01-16 — [Markdown](https://raw.githubusercontent.com/soft-skills-engineering/website/refs/heads/gh-pages/_posts/2017-01-16-episode-43-cost-of-internships-and-cs-interview-questions.md) - [Episode 42: Bootcamp Job Hopping and Cultural Reliability](https://softskills.audio/2017/01/02/episode-42-job-hopping-and-cultural-reliability/) — 2017-01-02 — [Markdown](https://raw.githubusercontent.com/soft-skills-engineering/website/refs/heads/gh-pages/_posts/2017-01-02-episode-42-job-hopping-and-cultural-reliability.md) - [Episode 41: Management Snobs and Two Bosses](https://softskills.audio/2016/12/28/episode-41-management-snobs-and-two-bosses/) — 2016-12-28 — [Markdown](https://raw.githubusercontent.com/soft-skills-engineering/website/refs/heads/gh-pages/_posts/2016-12-28-episode-41-management-snobs-and-two-bosses.md) - [Episode 40: Office Visibility and New Tech](https://softskills.audio/2016/12/21/episode-40-office-visibility-and-new-tech/) — 2016-12-21 — [Markdown](https://raw.githubusercontent.com/soft-skills-engineering/website/refs/heads/gh-pages/_posts/2016-12-21-episode-40-office-visibility-and-new-tech.md) - [Episode 39: Brilliant Jerks and One on Ones](https://softskills.audio/2016/12/12/episode-39-jerk-coworker-and-one-on-ones/) — 2016-12-12 — [Markdown](https://raw.githubusercontent.com/soft-skills-engineering/website/refs/heads/gh-pages/_posts/2016-12-13-episode-39-jerk-coworker-and-one-on-ones.md) - [Episode 38: Going Over Heads and Firing Just After Hiring](https://softskills.audio/2016/12/05/episode-38-going-over-someones-head-and-firing-after-just-hiring/) — 2016-12-05 — [Markdown](https://raw.githubusercontent.com/soft-skills-engineering/website/refs/heads/gh-pages/_posts/2016-12-06-episode-38-going-over-someones-head-and-firing-after-just-hiring.md) - [Episode 37: VC Funding and Internal Presentations](https://softskills.audio/2016/11/29/episode-37-vc-funding-and-internal-presentations/) — 2016-11-29 — [Markdown](https://raw.githubusercontent.com/soft-skills-engineering/website/refs/heads/gh-pages/_posts/2016-11-29-episode-37-vc-funding-and-internal-presentations.md) - [Episode 36: Unlimited Vacation and Enforcing Best Practices](https://softskills.audio/2016/11/22/episode-36-unlimited-pto-and-enforcing-best-practices/) — 2016-11-22 — [Markdown](https://raw.githubusercontent.com/soft-skills-engineering/website/refs/heads/gh-pages/_posts/2016-11-21-episode-36-unlimited-pto-and-enforcing-best-practices.md) - [Episode 35: Attracting Talent and Quitting Responsibly](https://softskills.audio/2016/11/15/episode-35-attracting-talent-and-quitting-without-burning-bridges/) — 2016-11-15 — [Markdown](https://raw.githubusercontent.com/soft-skills-engineering/website/refs/heads/gh-pages/_posts/2016-11-15-episode-35-attracting-talent-and-quitting-without-burning-bridges.md) - [Episode 34: Do Certifications Help and How Can I Avoid Avoidance?](https://softskills.audio/2016/11/07/episode-34-certifications-and-avoidance/) — 2016-11-07 — [Markdown](https://raw.githubusercontent.com/soft-skills-engineering/website/refs/heads/gh-pages/_posts/2016-11-07-episode-34-certifications-and-avoidance.md) - [Episode 33: Damaging Your Credibility and Meeting Potential Employers In School](https://softskills.audio/2016/10/31/episode-33-damaging-your-credibility-and-meeting-employers-in-school/) — 2016-10-31 — [Markdown](https://raw.githubusercontent.com/soft-skills-engineering/website/refs/heads/gh-pages/_posts/2016-10-31-episode-33-damaging-your-credibility-and-meeting-employers-in-school.md) - [Episode 32: Why Would You Do Contracting?](https://softskills.audio/2016/10/26/episode-32-why-do-contracting/) — 2016-10-26 — [Markdown](https://raw.githubusercontent.com/soft-skills-engineering/website/refs/heads/gh-pages/_posts/2016-10-26-episode-32-why-do-contracting.md) - [Episode 31: Going In To Management and Knowing If A Job Is Worth Applying To](https://softskills.audio/2016/10/17/episode-31-management-and-knowing-if-a-job/) — 2016-10-17 — [Markdown](https://raw.githubusercontent.com/soft-skills-engineering/website/refs/heads/gh-pages/_posts/2016-10-17-episode-31-management-and-knowing-if-a-job.md) - [Episode 30: Reaching Consensus and Code Editing Etiquette](https://softskills.audio/2016/10/08/episode-30-consensus-and-code-eiditing-etiquette/) — 2016-10-08 — [Markdown](https://raw.githubusercontent.com/soft-skills-engineering/website/refs/heads/gh-pages/_posts/2016-10-10-episode-30-consensus-and-code-eiditing-etiquette.md) - [Episode 29: What Should I Do When Starting A New Job?](https://softskills.audio/2016/10/07/episode-29-starting-a-new-job/) — 2016-10-07 — [Markdown](https://raw.githubusercontent.com/soft-skills-engineering/website/refs/heads/gh-pages/_posts/2016-10-06-episode-29-starting-a-new-job.md) - [Episode 28: How Long Should I Stay At My Job and How Do I Help Junior Developers Improve](https://softskills.audio/2016/09/26/episode-28-tenure-and-helping-junior-developers/) — 2016-09-26 — [Markdown](https://raw.githubusercontent.com/soft-skills-engineering/website/refs/heads/gh-pages/_posts/2016-09-26-episode-28-tenure-and-helping-junior-developers.md) - [Episode 27: Writing Great Resumes and Pushing Back on Non-Engineering Tasks](https://softskills.audio/2016/09/19/episode-27-resumes-and-non-engineering-tasks/) — 2016-09-19 — [Markdown](https://raw.githubusercontent.com/soft-skills-engineering/website/refs/heads/gh-pages/_posts/2016-09-19-episode-27-resumes-and-non-engineering-tasks.md) - [Episode 26: Communicate Your Efforts and I Told You So](https://softskills.audio/2016/09/12/episode-26-communicate-your-efforts-and-i-told-you-so/) — 2016-09-12 — [Markdown](https://raw.githubusercontent.com/soft-skills-engineering/website/refs/heads/gh-pages/_posts/2016-09-12-episode-26-communicate-your-efforts-and-i-told-you-so.md) - [Episode 25: Understanding the Business and Managing Without Being a Developer](https://softskills.audio/2016/09/05/episode-25-business-things-and-managing/) — 2016-09-05 — [Markdown](https://raw.githubusercontent.com/soft-skills-engineering/website/refs/heads/gh-pages/_posts/2016-09-05-episode-25-business-things-and-managing.md) - [Episode 24: Should I be a generalist or specialist developer?](https://softskills.audio/2016/08/29/episode-24-generalist-vs-specialist/) — 2016-08-29 — [Markdown](https://raw.githubusercontent.com/soft-skills-engineering/website/refs/heads/gh-pages/_posts/2016-08-29-episode-24-generalist-vs-specialist.md) - [Episode 23: Joining a startup as a CTO and asking for a raise](https://softskills.audio/2016/08/22/episode-23-cto-questions-and-getting-a-raise/) — 2016-08-22 — [Markdown](https://raw.githubusercontent.com/soft-skills-engineering/website/refs/heads/gh-pages/_posts/2016-08-22-episode-23-cto-questions-and-getting-a-raise.md) - [Episode 22: Health insurance and contributing to open source projects](https://softskills.audio/2016/08/15/episode-22-health-insurance-and-open-source/) — 2016-08-15 — [Markdown](https://raw.githubusercontent.com/soft-skills-engineering/website/refs/heads/gh-pages/_posts/2016-08-15-episode-22-health-insurance-and-open-source.md) - [Episode 21: Giving work to interns and dealing with "dead weight" developers](https://softskills.audio/2016/08/08/episode-21-interns-and-dead-weight/) — 2016-08-08 — [Markdown](https://raw.githubusercontent.com/soft-skills-engineering/website/refs/heads/gh-pages/_posts/2016-08-08-episode-21-interns-and-dead-weight.md) - [Episode 20: Stories from people who got fired and doing effective code reviews](https://softskills.audio/2016/08/01/episode-20-stories-from-people-who-got-fired-and-doing-effective-code-reviews/) — 2016-08-01 — [Markdown](https://raw.githubusercontent.com/soft-skills-engineering/website/refs/heads/gh-pages/_posts/2016-08-01-episode-20-stories-from-people-who-got-fired-and-doing-effective-code-reviews.md) - [Episode 19: Firing someone for a coding mistake and getting demoted](https://softskills.audio/2016/07/25/episode-19-firing-someone-for-a-coding-mistake-and-getting-demoted/) — 2016-07-25 — [Markdown](https://raw.githubusercontent.com/soft-skills-engineering/website/refs/heads/gh-pages/_posts/2016-07-25-episode-19-firing-someone-for-a-coding-mistake-and-getting-demoted.md) - [Episode 18: Dropping out of college and preparing for interviews](https://softskills.audio/2016/07/18/episode-18-dropping-out-of-college-and-preparing-for-interviews/) — 2016-07-18 — [Markdown](https://raw.githubusercontent.com/soft-skills-engineering/website/refs/heads/gh-pages/_posts/2016-07-18-episode-18-dropping-out-of-college-and-preparing-for-interviews.md) - [Episode 17: Side project ideas and getting fired](https://softskills.audio/2016/07/04/episode-17-side-project-ideas-and-getting-fired/) — 2016-07-04 — [Markdown](https://raw.githubusercontent.com/soft-skills-engineering/website/refs/heads/gh-pages/_posts/2016-07-04-episode-17-side-project-ideas-and-getting-fired.md) - [Episode 16: Dealing with recruiters and learning new things without frustration](https://softskills.audio/2016/06/27/episode-16-dealing-with-recruiters-and-learning-new-things-without-frustration/) — 2016-06-27 — [Markdown](https://raw.githubusercontent.com/soft-skills-engineering/website/refs/heads/gh-pages/_posts/2016-06-27-episode-16-dealing-with-recruiters-and-learning-new-things-without-frustration.md) - [Episode 15: Working with non-technical people and keeping up with the latest technology (with Brad Green)](https://softskills.audio/2016/06/20/episode-15-working-with-non-technical-people-and-keeping-up-with-the-latest-tech/) — 2016-06-20 — [Markdown](https://raw.githubusercontent.com/soft-skills-engineering/website/refs/heads/gh-pages/_posts/2016-06-20-episode-15-working-with-non-technical-people-and-keeping-up-with-the-latest-tech.md) - [Episode 14: Web developer prejudice and legacy code](https://softskills.audio/2016/06/07/episode-14-web-developer-prejudice-and-legacy-code/) — 2016-06-07 — [Markdown](https://raw.githubusercontent.com/soft-skills-engineering/website/refs/heads/gh-pages/_posts/2016-06-07-episode-14-web-developer-prejudice-and-legacy-code.md) - [Episode 13: Dealing with a 'yes' boss and the difference between contract and permanent positions](https://softskills.audio/2016/05/30/episode-13-dealing-with-a-yes-boss-and-the-difference-between-contract-and-perma/) — 2016-05-30 — [Markdown](https://raw.githubusercontent.com/soft-skills-engineering/website/refs/heads/gh-pages/_posts/2016-05-30-episode-13-dealing-with-a-yes-boss-and-the-difference-between-contract-and-perma.md) - [Episode 12: Making friends at work and how to be good at being managed](https://softskills.audio/2016/05/23/episode-12-making-friends-at-work-and-how-to-be-good-at-being-managed/) — 2016-05-23 — [Markdown](https://raw.githubusercontent.com/soft-skills-engineering/website/refs/heads/gh-pages/_posts/2016-05-23-episode-12-making-friends-at-work-and-how-to-be-good-at-being-managed.md) - [Episode 11: Negotiating offers and dealing with an oblivious boss](https://softskills.audio/2016/05/16/episode-11-negotiating-offers-and-dealing-with-an-oblivious-boss/) — 2016-05-16 — [Markdown](https://raw.githubusercontent.com/soft-skills-engineering/website/refs/heads/gh-pages/_posts/2016-05-16-episode-11-negotiating-offers-and-dealing-with-an-oblivious-boss.md) - [Episode 10: Mentors and Stock Options](https://softskills.audio/2016/05/09/episode-10-mentors-and-stock-options/) — 2016-05-09 — [Markdown](https://raw.githubusercontent.com/soft-skills-engineering/website/refs/heads/gh-pages/_posts/2016-05-09-episode-10-mentors-and-stock-options.md) - [Episode 9: Deadlines and Titles](https://softskills.audio/2016/05/02/episode-9-deadlines-and-titles/) — 2016-05-02 — [Markdown](https://raw.githubusercontent.com/soft-skills-engineering/website/refs/heads/gh-pages/_posts/2016-05-02-episode-9-deadlines-and-titles.md) - [Episode 8: Work life balance and on-boarding new engineers](https://softskills.audio/2016/04/25/episode-8-work-life-balance-and-on-boarding-new-engineers/) — 2016-04-25 — [Markdown](https://raw.githubusercontent.com/soft-skills-engineering/website/refs/heads/gh-pages/_posts/2016-04-25-episode-8-work-life-balance-and-on-boarding-new-engineers.md) - [Episode 7: Finding meaning and quitting your job](https://softskills.audio/2016/04/18/episode-7-finding-meaning-and-quitting-your-job/) — 2016-04-18 — [Markdown](https://raw.githubusercontent.com/soft-skills-engineering/website/refs/heads/gh-pages/_posts/2016-04-18-episode-7-finding-meaning-and-quitting-your-job.md) - [Episode 6: Speaking at Conferences](https://softskills.audio/2016/04/11/episode-6-speaking-at-conferences/) — 2016-04-11 — [Markdown](https://raw.githubusercontent.com/soft-skills-engineering/website/refs/heads/gh-pages/_posts/2016-04-11-episode-6-speaking-at-conferences.md) - [Episode 5: Developer Compensation](https://softskills.audio/2016/04/04/episode-5-developer-compensation/) — 2016-04-04 — [Markdown](https://raw.githubusercontent.com/soft-skills-engineering/website/refs/heads/gh-pages/_posts/2016-04-04-episode-5-developer-compensation.md) - [Episode 4: Should I build my personal brand?](https://softskills.audio/2016/03/31/episode-4-should-i-build-my-personal-brand/) — 2016-03-31 — [Markdown](https://raw.githubusercontent.com/soft-skills-engineering/website/refs/heads/gh-pages/_posts/2016-03-31-episode-4-should-i-build-my-personal-brand.md) - [Episode 3: What to look for in a dev team](https://softskills.audio/2016/03/21/episode-3-what-to-look-for-in-a-dev-team/) — 2016-03-21 — [Markdown](https://raw.githubusercontent.com/soft-skills-engineering/website/refs/heads/gh-pages/_posts/2016-03-21-episode-3-what-to-look-for-in-a-dev-team.md) - [Episode 2: Influencing your team and dealing with anger](https://softskills.audio/2016/03/14/episode-2-influencing-your-team-and-dealing-with-anger/) — 2016-03-14 — [Markdown](https://raw.githubusercontent.com/soft-skills-engineering/website/refs/heads/gh-pages/_posts/2016-03-14-episode-2-influencing-your-team-and-dealing-with-anger.md) - [Episode 1: Startup Opportunities and Switching Jobs](https://softskills.audio/2016/03/07/episode-1-startup-opportunities-and-switching-jobs/) — 2016-03-07 — [Markdown](https://raw.githubusercontent.com/soft-skills-engineering/website/refs/heads/gh-pages/_posts/2016-03-07-episode-1-startup-opportunities-and-switching-jobs.md) _Generated: Mon, 21 Sep 2026 15:49:54 +0000_